FabSwingers.com forum: Crying after sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So yeah like the title,

how many of you women have actually cried or had the urge to after sex?

i ask this after the weekend i had a short but intense session with a FB of mine and after it i heard her sobbing in the toilet,

Thinking i may of done something wrong, upon her return i asked what was wrong,

she said nothing just that it was really good and it made her emotional(hormones)

I did check this up on the internet it seems quite common.. ????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've cried after a good orgasm. Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!"

That would freak me out a bit!

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By *rcticstarWoman
over a year ago

Corsham

I've had tears in my eyes sometimes afterwards but not actually cried x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to admit ...I do cry sometimes after a really intense orgasm...most guys find it quite sweet to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!"

Nice one

All my swinging partners either scream, shout, sob, cry, faint, ... when they cum. They always have, whether its cuming through intercourse, and/or cuming through oral. Sobbing and crying is very common, and is very intimate. All guys should work to make the girls they're with achieve this

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It has happened a few times

Normally after a very intense session with someone I have a real connection with

Thankfully it's never caused a problem

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times when it's been very very intense. I just get overcome with emotion, in a good way though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. Its just the huge emotional release. ..very intense. Guys should be flattered but have a tendency to be freaked out......lol

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By *undeliciousCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

This happened to us us once.

We met a young "new cpl" to all this and when the girl was sat ridding hubby, she came / gushed over him at the same time.

Then burst out crying as she thought she wet herself??... (Bless her).. It obviously had never happened to her and her boyfriend before?

Did wonders for us though & wanted her to do it again...

She even ran off to bathroom and picked up a towel to start drying the floor....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have cried during and after sex when it is intense and intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across this, this year after a multiple orgasm, I though what the hell, is this normal?, then asked on here and it was

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

Not had anyone cry but did have a very nice lady of a couple have an asthma attack after a good session !!!

Smokey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've cried on a couple of occasions during and after sex but only with this one guy I had the most amazing connection with ~ very intense & emotional experience.

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By *ould be Tempted!Woman
over a year ago

southport

Wow....on reading this i get a rather negative image.

Not even a touch of self mocking....

sorry if it sounds cruel but what a terrible reply in the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any bloke has made a woman cry, and lives near me, please message me. I would like to see if you have that effect on me x

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I've had a woman do it with me as well, and like above it was after a pretty intense session where you had some very strong orgasms

It did sort of make me worried the first time it happened but when she said it was an emotional response and she actually loved it I was sort of flattered!

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

Once, after fucking my friend rather deep

And just before we both fell asleep

My friend said 'Disgrace!

You came on my face!'

My response? 'Not spunk, but the tears I weep.....'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been threatened but I didn't cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand on my heart. If someone cried in my presence, they'd set me off an all.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

A fb of mine used to let go completely after sex crying .First time i was confused as to what i did wrong ,but after that every time it happened it made me feel good as we obviously just had great sex ..

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

pmfsl. You learn something new everyday!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!

Nice one

Please, don't 'work to make the girls they're with achieve this'.

It has happened to me three times; the last quite recently and the most intense so far. I've no idea why it happens but the feeling is akin to being laid completely, emotionally bare and it is mind blowing.

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By *rincessKinkyWoman
over a year ago

Basildon

Ive had this a few times with both of my boyfriends. Its because of the amazing connection and having an intense session.

I dont think its something that can be worked towards! It will either happen or not!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It happens occasionally in my experience not regularly

It's not a bonus point like making a woman squirt or being a 'heavy cummer' seems to have become!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when it's been truly shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry if I'm allowed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way am i going to make sure i work to make her cry.

..it's like they say. Those who fail to plan, plan to fail. Oh wait, that doesn't help my case.

The most i ever got was a slap. Apparently it's mean to tell her to say 'pretty please with a cherry on top' if she wants a kiss from me. Can't believe that didn't count as teasing. That was one slap i'd never forget lol.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I never have, but a woman I have been with did. Even though she assured me it was a good thing I was a little confused so this thread has made me feel a lot better. Phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't but I've heard this isn't uncommon. I do orgasm quite easily though, so maybe these ladies aren't orgasming so often ?? OR maybe I'm missing out

Either way OP your partner gave you her answer and I'd agree it should be flattering to you

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I don't orgasm hard often. But do remember an occasion when tears did fall after. But thst was for very particular reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if I should be worried that Ive never shed a tear during or after sex...although a few have may my eyes water

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Not sure if I should be worried that Ive never shed a tear during or after sex...although a few have may my eyes water

Bad shot?

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

this is just disturbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So yeah like the title,

how many of you women have actually cried or had the urge to after sex?

i ask this after the weekend i had a short but intense session with a FB of mine and after it i heard her sobbing in the toilet,

Thinking i may of done something wrong, upon her return i asked what was wrong,

she said nothing just that it was really good and it made her emotional(hormones)

I did check this up on the internet it seems quite common.. ????"

I cried for about 20 minutes, nothing to do with me orgasm, I lost 2 false eyelashes! and chipped a nail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe she was heavily constipated and was half way thru pushing a bit shit out...of course she'd never admit that was the reason would she!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, but wanking aint that bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive cried after an orgasm, I forgot to take my ring off first

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"this is just disturbing"

What makes it disturbing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry after sex because I realise it must be my birthday !!!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

the crying after sex makes it disturbing

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I've cried after a good orgasm. Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming."

This is exactly what a friend said to me the other day. A bit unnerving at first when she is on top of me and I feel tears dripping onto me...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing"

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

fair enough .... but i would find it disturbing

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"fair enough .... but i would find it disturbing"

Ah, I see. *You* would find it disturbing.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wot a load of crap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've cried after a good orgasm. Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming."

I must be missing out on something

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

that's right .... glad we got there in the end

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Wot a load of crap lol"

What's a load of crap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry for silly reasons, Hayley in corrie, bambi, 60 minute makeover, the meercat adds when she jumps out the plane, my dentists bill, so after and during sex its pretty usual for me, men love it when I scream, ITS TOO BIG ITS HURTING, sob sob, seems to make them thrust even harder

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted."

Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted.

Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?"

Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So yeah like the title,

how many of you women have actually cried or had the urge to after sex?

i ask this after the weekend i had a short but intense session with a FB of mine and after it i heard her sobbing in the toilet,

Thinking i may of done something wrong, upon her return i asked what was wrong,

she said nothing just that it was really good and it made her emotional(hormones)

I did check this up on the internet it seems quite common.. ????"

I well up and shed a gentle tear sometimes during - if I am finding it a really deep release, or really good. It's nothing to fear.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted.

Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?

Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later."

i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If any bloke has made a woman cry, and lives near me, please message me. I would like to see if you have that effect on me x"

There will be plenty who have made women cry. Normally involves shagging best friends/ sisters, emptying bank accounts, mental & physical cruelty....the list goes on

One or two might be good at sex too of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this?

I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet

Is that from pain?! Mine used to have it when she is getting really wet and having an intense orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet

Is that from pain?! Mine used to have it when she is getting really wet and having an intense orgasm

yes because I have a sore back so doing anal doggie style is pure agony for me

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

i have seen passing out from an orgasm before now .... the reasons seems logical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experiance ive heard more stories of men crying after sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had women crying with laughter, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had experience of this and at the time wondered what the hell was going on

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted.

Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?

Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later.

i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy"

Now it's creepy? Why do you find some emotions so challenging?

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

i don't

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

If i was warned before i could handle it but if it was unexpected i'd be worried i'd done something wrong or hurt her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the crying after sex makes it disturbing

Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted.

Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?

Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later.

i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy

Now it's creepy? Why do you find some emotions so challenging?"

Nothing creepy about it really. Intense orgasms and sexual experiences can create a cathartic release of pent up energy that can lead to uncontrollable expression of emotion. Most often this is crying because we suppress or repress a lot of emotions to get on with daily life. It is also possible to end up with a massive fit of the giggles or laughter as we release our inhibitions in intense sex. The giggles and laughter or just an unusual level of playfulness are a way of expressing our pent up embarrassment.

This is all really natural and should be celebrated as part of our humanity not seen as creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again this is really natural too. Our body has energy cursing through it for simplicity let's call it our life force.

As humans we keep this life force in check most of the time to function in the world. During sexual experience a huge amount of energy can be released within the body from the energy centre at the base of our spine. This can cause the body to shake, feel like it is coursing with energy and other ecstatic experiences. It doesn't happen to everyone, and certainly not in the same way, for some it happens in a relatively controlled way and for others it can be uncontrolled and disconcerting. If this is uncontrolled and disconcerting for anyone they should seek advice. Eastern spiritual practices are very useful in helping with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been know to shed a tear or two after an orgasm, i put it down to release of emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few times when it's been very very intense. I just get overcome with emotion, in a good way though

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Yes I've cried many times over the years from deep intense orgasm . Sometimes solo , the most recent one was with a friend I meet regular , It really shocked me mostly as it has been years since it has happened to me Actually forgot about it till I saw the thread . I agree the emotions attatched to being able to fully let go can cause the tears and other parts of the body releasing fluids . Never had a man cry yet though . Now there's a challenge .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal, not something that happens all the time or even often for me. I did have one guy shed a few tears...now that was different! But he thanked me for it after.

we still talk and I brought it up the other day and he hated the fact that I did lol said it was something he was going through mixed with a mind blowing orgasm

so mum is the word...starting....now

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

" Never had a man cry yet though . Now there's a challenge .

I once went with a girl who thought that biting my cock during oral would be sexy/edgy.

Now you know how to do it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!

Nice one

Please, don't 'work to make the girls they're with achieve this'.

Perhaps I didn't explain myself properly, earlier. The reason that I always advocate 'working to make the girls they're with achieve this' is to share, the intensity and passion of what I feel, with my partner. When I cum, the experience is completely mind and body shattering ... like the universe exploding, and then slowly and wonderfully re-building. And the person I'm with is fully part of that, we're an entity joined as one, physically and spiritually. When my partners experience that, invariably they sob and cry and scream with the pleasure of it. Some find this easier to achieve than others. And for those who take longer to achieve, I recommend that the man who is with them, does everything he can to ensure that they too reach and enjoy that plateau. Its an incredible experience, and I believe that everyone should enjoy it. Two bodies, two souls, two minds ... locked in ecstasy ... as one, making something wondrous. Try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive cried during sex and after we met this guy when out drinking we went back to hotel and must say he wasnt huge but he hurt every thrust id had a drink I know but couldnt stop as it was enjoyable but same time hurting even afterwards I sat there and cried

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thats that then

I need to carry on making women cry ,sorted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a very dear FB who I saw for a number of years. We used to have very intimate and intense sessions where she would orgasm a lot and would often cry. I always found it deeply erotic and it made us very close. I miss her

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Had a very dear FB who I saw for a number of years. We used to have very intimate and intense sessions where she would orgasm a lot and would often cry. I always found it deeply erotic and it made us very close. I miss her

I can empathise with both of you entirely.

I was wrapped up in safe arms and it was a powerful thing for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lady sometimes sheds a tear after a very big orgasm. It is the emotional release that makes her feel that way. It usually follows the very best pleasure; so I love to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a release of emotion from both ends, tremors sobs,all reactions, we are all different.

Nette

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

my x wife use to alot of the time ,after we had a real good session,

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have cried after having multiple intense orgasms. I was so embarrassed at the time. But I realised it was only me letting go completely. It has only happened a handful of times since though. Thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cried lastnight during and after sex

was having anal and couldn't stick the girth of this guy so told him put it in my pussy and loved it til both holes were tingling too much as he tried back anal and it was unreal cried for half hour after but weird thing was after we stopped I was squirting for about 5 mins

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Bizarre.l will feel bad.seeing a woman crying after having sex. That make me look like a heartless-monster with cruelty tendency

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