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people on here can be so harsh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Why would ppl accuse you of lying.... Youre young n sound great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why care what ppl say on here. Just block and move to the next person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on the internet are... Like has already been said block and move on... Distance yourself from the comment, laugh about it and enjoy they site...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess so apparently everything about me is a lie because I wouldn't give my email address out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heres a tissue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"heres a tissue "

Thank u haha need 1 thought it was out of order if im honest just can't believe any1 would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There loss... Is another's gain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why has that little thing bothered you? Strangers on the internet, that's all this is, press the off button on your pc and its all gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair "

as long as you are true to yourself don't worry about others

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Your verifications tell us different

End of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be a lot more harsh and say some very hurtful things. At the end of the day, they're immature and probably not genuine. Showing their true colors as they inevitably do, they've done you a favor, I mean, who wants to meet someone with an attitude like that?! Do what I do, have a good giggle at their pathetic immaturity and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your verifications tell us different

End of"

Thank u very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People can be a lot more harsh and say some very hurtful things. At the end of the day, they're immature and probably not genuine. Showing their true colors as they inevitably do, they've done you a favor, I mean, who wants to meet someone with an attitude like that?! Do what I do, have a good giggle at their pathetic immaturity and move on "

I guess I should just laugh we there loss I see it as know I was just shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was shocked at some messages I've received in the past so know how you feel but don't let it worry you, not worth it, there will always be nobbers on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can be a lot more harsh and say some very hurtful things. At the end of the day, they're immature and probably not genuine. Showing their true colors as they inevitably do, they've done you a favor, I mean, who wants to meet someone with an attitude like that?! Do what I do, have a good giggle at their pathetic immaturity and move on

I guess I should just laugh we there loss I see it as know I was just shocked "

Yup this and good luck for 2014 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The great gender divide....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take one lesson with you into 2014: if someone insults you, it's YOUR choice whether to own it and feel insulted.

Admittedly your initial reaction may be one of bewilderment/anger/hurt. Quickly get over it, think "cheeky fucker", laugh and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair "

We're not lying when we say London welcomes u!!!? X

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

ohh glad to read you are bi , pop over for a holiday, and forget people /life..lol connie xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As I've said before don't take anything on the net personally, that way lies madness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was shocked at some messages I've received in the past so know how you feel but don't let it worry you, not worth it, there will always be nobbers on here lol"

Quite a few nobbers haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take one lesson with you into 2014: if someone insults you, it's YOUR choice whether to own it and feel insulted.

Admittedly your initial reaction may be one of bewilderment/anger/hurt. Quickly get over it, think "cheeky fucker", laugh and move on."

I am over this now after everyone's helpful comments ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

We're not lying when we say London welcomes u!!!? X"

Thank u for the offer ?? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ohh glad to read you are bi , pop over for a holiday, and forget people /life..lol connie xx "

Forget it all looks fun in corfu haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

We're not lying when we say London welcomes u!!!? X

Thank u for the offer ?? x"

Pleasure! Come down for a party up with us!? X

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By *ould be Tempted!Woman
over a year ago

southport

What you need is a Fab Verification from me!

Come and play one and one with me.... lots of girlie sex

and I will give you the best verification you have ever seen.!!!

Take a peek and let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone somewhere will always have an opinion about you whether they are justified or not.

Take everything on here with a pinch of salt and you'll be okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you need is a Fab Verification from me!

Come and play one and one with me.... lots of girlie sex

and I will give you the best verification you have ever seen.!!!

Take a peek and let me know.

We have taken a peek we likes!!! Come veri me my fella would love it!!? X

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"heres a tissue

Thank u haha need 1 thought it was out of order if im honest just can't believe any1 would say that "

They don't think you're lying. It's just manipulative bullshit designed to make you feel guilty enough to comply with what they want.

You need to wise up and toughen up if a little accusation like that upsets you so much. Brush it off and block the fecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keyboard tough guys = bell ends..unfortunately the tinta is full of them

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Cant you tell its not a guy posting....

OP, youre not a newbie so Im sure its not the first such message youve received. Some people can be nasty if you they fancy you and you dont fancy them. Just block them and let it go in one ear and out of the other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

We're not lying when we say London welcomes u!!!? X

Thank u for the offer ?? x

Pleasure! Come down for a party up with us!? X"

Party sounds great who doesn't love 2 party x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you need is a Fab Verification from me!

Come and play one and one with me.... lots of girlie sex

and I will give you the best verification you have ever seen.!!!

Take a peek and let me know

x

x

x"

I shall come and have a peek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks "

Exactly why are u going 2 give anyone something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

We're not lying when we say London welcomes u!!!? X

Thank u for the offer ?? x

Pleasure! Come down for a party up with us!? X

Party sounds great who doesn't love 2 party x"

Very true! Ready when u are!!!? Lol x

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Let us take you dogging for an evening to take your mind of it lol

Mrs Dirty xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like the 'saying it as it is' approach.

just don't let things annoy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks

Exactly why are u going 2 give anyone something like that "

Exactly lol I've given a guy on here my kik username but that's coz we get on like a house on fire, the same with another guy, I gave him my PlayStation network username as we're both massive gaming geeks and will be having a gaming session later lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks

Exactly why are u going 2 give anyone something like that

Exactly lol I've given a guy on here my kik username but that's coz we get on like a house on fire, the same with another guy, I gave him my PlayStation network username as we're both massive gaming geeks and will be having a gaming session later lol x"

They actually sed 2 me my verifications are lying and they think im strange and somethings going on just because I wouldn't give them my email address which I say has my full name Init I showed them pics and everything I am laughing about it now tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks

Exactly why are u going 2 give anyone something like that

Exactly lol I've given a guy on here my kik username but that's coz we get on like a house on fire, the same with another guy, I gave him my PlayStation network username as we're both massive gaming geeks and will be having a gaming session later lol x

They actually sed 2 me my verifications are lying and they think im strange and somethings going on just because I wouldn't give them my email address which I say has my full name Init I showed them pics and everything I am laughing about it now tho x"

Some guys seem to think that just because they are on here they have the right to ask for whatsapp, kik, Skype, your phone number and everything in between and when you say no they spit their dummy out lol! Oh yes, laugh and smile of how pathetic they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy who wanted my Facebook and to add me on whatsapp. Erm........I think I'll pass thanks

Exactly why are u going 2 give anyone something like that

Exactly lol I've given a guy on here my kik username but that's coz we get on like a house on fire, the same with another guy, I gave him my PlayStation network username as we're both massive gaming geeks and will be having a gaming session later lol x

They actually sed 2 me my verifications are lying and they think im strange and somethings going on just because I wouldn't give them my email address which I say has my full name Init I showed them pics and everything I am laughing about it now tho x

Some guys seem to think that just because they are on here they have the right to ask for whatsapp, kik, Skype, your phone number and everything in between and when you say no they spit their dummy out lol! Oh yes, laugh and smile of how pathetic they are x"

How could you refuse their demands

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

You need a good spanking clearly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess so apparently everything about me is a lie because I wouldn't give my email address out "

I don't give out mine nor do I take notice of anyone's email address, if they choose to give it to me, that is their choice but I don't use it.

In your case, it sounds like they didn't like the fact that they couldn't send you messages/pictures etc to supposedly turn you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, seeings as people of your generation seem to only live by these apps, then its a fair bet thats the only part of reality they rely on.

as has been said, delete, block, move on.

if the opinions of people you are never going to be involved with affect you so much, i think you may be best to delete your profile and find something a little less conflict inducing

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Did you not know that merely being a guy on here entitles you to get anyone you wants details? Honestly, read the rules lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair "

Well your profile certainly appears to be somewhat confused. You say you are with a partner who has no idea you are on here, and in the next sentence say that you have a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

Well your profile certainly appears to be somewhat confused. You say you are with a partner who has no idea you are on here, and in the next sentence say that you have a couples profile.

"

Maybe she has a fb or fwb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

Well your profile certainly appears to be somewhat confused. You say you are with a partner who has no idea you are on here, and in the next sentence say that you have a couples profile.

Maybe she has a fb or fwb"

Yes I have a Fb to do all of my swinging with

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"heres a tissue

Thank u haha need 1 thought it was out of order if im honest just can't believe any1 would say that "

Have you not een using the net for long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here lately people accusing me of lieing surely can't be fair

Well your profile certainly appears to be somewhat confused. You say you are with a partner who has no idea you are on here, and in the next sentence say that you have a couples profile.

Maybe she has a fb or fwb

Yes I have a Fb to do all of my swinging with "

to do ALL your swinging with?

so you shouldnt really have a single profile at all then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to post but I think this needs a JK slot. I'm outta here

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