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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

judging others???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not currently meeting? Or meeting at clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at the eye candy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe they are doing research for Sydney University?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

having a wank at home

is that ok with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use local hotels???

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets."

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "
maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either

....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there"

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier "
Ohh thanks,O.P see.if u ask ppl nicely they will answer u nicely.I hope that has answered ure question

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

Meeting at hotels nearby or meeting in clubs?? Not really rocket science is it?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier Ohh thanks,O.P see.if u ask ppl nicely they will answer u nicely.I hope that has answered ure question"

Politeness always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe fuck in the local supermarket.park extra kinky

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there"

I wouldn't consider walking 5 or 10 minutes as travelling though really. I can get around a bit on public transport but it does limit it. When I was meeting outside of clubs I did have that on my profile though.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Some people can't fathom the difference between swinging and none of your business

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier "

Now that's answered my long standing question re the can't accommodate/can't travel conundrum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

"

Much better!!....

Clubs

Local hotels

Blokes that don't mind driving

Blokes that accommodate

.....and I do very well thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

Much better!!....

Clubs

Local hotels

Blokes that don't mind driving

Blokes that accommodate

.....and I do very well thank you! "

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

Much better!!....

Clubs

Local hotels

Blokes that don't mind driving

Blokes that accommodate

.....and I do very well thank you! "

and parties and invites from friends where you car share

Limited site tick choices dont mean people are not out having fun

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier "

There is nothing to stop you putting "Only willing to travel locally i.e. ...... miles" in uour profile it that's the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my parents and don't drive, so I shouldn't be on this site then??!!! My local swingers club is no.3 which is only £5 in a taxi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier

There is nothing to stop you putting "Only willing to travel locally i.e. ...... miles" in uour profile it that's the case."

She's put what works for her. Besides, who reads profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

You can't accommodate yourself so take a good look at yourself. Some of us don't have our own places or drive but can get to local places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm not meeting & not travelling, simply perusing forums and nothing more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive found its people just not having filled their profiles out correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol "

ok he used poor wording but if you can't accom and can't travel how do you get meets, going to a hotel is travelling going to a club is travelling.. i'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they mean they want some fun in the park nearby or forest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

If you can't accommodate yourself, why the fuck are judging people? Take a closer look at yourself first

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there

Site doesn't allow you to tick travel local and when I ticked I travel I had people everywhere asking to meet so putting can't travel was easier

There is nothing to stop you putting "Only willing to travel locally i.e. ...... miles" in uour profile it that's the case."

Nobody bloody reads it though. I used to have exactly where I was happy to travel to and still got requests to go all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

usually it means they would like to be picked up and dropped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they mean they want some fun in the park nearby or forest."

I have a garage and a local beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they mean they want some fun in the park nearby or forest.

I have a garage and a local beach "
Mm yes lots of fun to be had in those .

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

usually it means they would like to be picked up and dropped off"

Another sweeping generalisation!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol

ok he used poor wording but if you can't accom and can't travel how do you get meets, going to a hotel is travelling going to a club is travelling.. i'm confused"

It's very simple....I don't have a car....that doesn't mean I can't actually move from my house...but travel is limited to local area....will say again tho that there is no option to tick saying local travel only. My situation will be discussed with potential meets, and I will say again that I have NO problem getting meets! If I'm not worried about it, why does anyone else have to be??

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Maybe they're an astronaut on the International Space station.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having a wank at home

is that ok with you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

Much better!!....

Clubs

Local hotels

Blokes that don't mind driving

Blokes that accommodate

.....and I do very well thank you! "

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe they're an astronaut on the International Space station."

Lol! Nice one!

I've wondered about the don't acc/don't travel thing too. Always seemed odd.

Sounds like there's a mod to the site required.

(like being able to filter the "met today" listings for what people are looking for so only ones who will meet you show up)

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

If you don't how on earth do you meet?

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By *enny the lip lickerMan
over a year ago

bath bristol


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

Very good point and bloody funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined I put can't accom(live with parents) and can't travel as I thought travel meant drive and own car but I can travel by public transport or taxi so can still meet just more difficult rarely spur of moment neets

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

im not sure why there was a need for such an aggressive OP but hey ..weve done this before and just used hotels ...was drama free !

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport


"im not sure why there was a need for such an aggressive OP but hey ..weve done this before and just used hotels ...was drama free !"

I don't think I was aggressive it was a fair enough question. One can never be sure what sort of nutters are on this site or any site for that matter. I note you put we've never had any drama, meaning you meet as a couple. The post I was replying to I understood was a single female and there a tad dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?"

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few profiles stating if.your single and cant accom you must be married etc. Well no. Circumstances vary and believe it or not many guys are single parents.

Luckily I can accom but understand its not always clear cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't accom as single parent, don't travel as I don't drive.

Simples

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

I don't think I was aggressive it was a fair enough question. One can never be sure what sort of nutters are on this site or any site for that matter. I note you put we've never had any drama, meaning you meet as a couple. The post I was replying to I understood was a single female and there a tad dangerous. "

o found the 'what the fuck are you doing on the site' bit aggressive ..but that is just my intetpretation

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "
What the hell has it got to do with you? Stop judging people .....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

I don't think I was aggressive it was a fair enough question. One can never be sure what sort of nutters are on this site or any site for that matter. I note you put we've never had any drama, meaning you meet as a couple. The post I was replying to I understood was a single female and there a tad dangerous.

o found the 'what the fuck are you doing on the site' bit aggressive ..but that is just my intetpretation "
+1

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By *irtysweetlife100Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Means, meet only in the city where live and cannot travel far. I am the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pot, kettle, black. He cant accommodate, admittedly can travel but still. I cant accommodate but can travel into my home town to meet a guy, and if they can accommodate at their home and they are near enough, I would get a taxi if it isn't going to be megabucks, think we would all maybe. Why judge us for our nonability to travel or accommodate or both? We all have different reasons for this, maybe its nicer to ask why instead of judging us without knowing the reasons.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

Having more luck than you apparantly.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Some people can't fathom the difference between swinging and none of your business"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever thought if it says cant travel they mean they want some one near by them

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By *rednkatieCouple
over a year ago

orlando

so many of the topics that we open to read is full of anger. lots of aggressiveness.. i know some of them kinda ask for it but just seems like a waist of time. drama is a huge turn off

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I can't accommodate and I can only travel to a certain extent due to not being able to drive... I thought of changing my travel preference but then I guess it's a put off and I don't want people to judge me too quickly. X

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By *aughtydesiresCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

We are one of them.. First: Driving 20-30 even 50 mile, it doesn't means a proper travel for us, as we can be back home in maximum one hour driving. Traveling for us means going far enough that we won't be able to return that night back home without an huge effort and in a reasonable time frame, after finishing playing, being forced to spend the night by a hotel or whatever. As about accommodation is because simply we just can't (lot of objective reasons). That's why we meet in clubs... which represent a solution for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have can travel i have a car however i just travel local and up to 2hrs to organised party or club,it dosent mean i can travel to Birmingham,london,Wales allsorts,go over same old thing im at bottom of britain on coast its impossible When have kids to travel 100's miles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some people deserve a good ticking off in the forums for being rude!!

Though why as stated a few times all the aggression! I thought swingers should be all about the boom boom, it's like the O.K Corral in here sometimes.

..... Spread the love people.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport


"

I don't think I was aggressive it was a fair enough question. One can never be sure what sort of nutters are on this site or any site for that matter. I note you put we've never had any drama, meaning you meet as a couple. The post I was replying to I understood was a single female and there a tad dangerous.

o found the 'what the fuck are you doing on the site' bit aggressive ..but that is just my intetpretation "

I was not the one who said that. Check out the first post and you will see it wasn't me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't accom as single parent, don't travel as I don't drive.

Simples"

so how do you meet people for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere. "

I won't accomodate.

I won't travel.

I won't go to someone else's house.

I do fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere.

I won't accomodate.

I won't travel.

I won't go to someone else's house.

I do fine. "

I am completely bemused by this, how does that work, you must go somewhere, therefore that is travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was also confused by this, not travelling to me means, staying in your house, and if you don't accomaodate ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind you, on a sex site in cyber space what is real, people say anything to get a reaction or attention, women turn out to be men, men turn out to be women,

slim people turn out to be curvy, young people turn up as middle aged, blondes turn up as ginger. what is real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind you, on a sex site in cyber space what is real, people say anything to get a reaction or attention, women turn out to be men, men turn out to be women,

slim people turn out to be curvy, young people turn up as middle aged, blondes turn up as ginger. what is real?

"

Oh so very very true.

I am just puzzled by people saying they don't travel, the minute you step out of your hues to go to a local hotel/club whatever, that to me is travelling!!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere.

I won't accomodate.

I won't travel.

I won't go to someone else's house.

I do fine.

I am completely bemused by this, how does that work, you must go somewhere, therefore that is travelling"

So if you walk over the shop to get a pint of milk do you think that is travelling?? My local shop is literally over the road. I don't class that as traveling. There is a hotel 5 minutes away from me. I would meet there, doesn't involve traveling really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind you, on a sex site in cyber space what is real, people say anything to get a reaction or attention, women turn out to be men, men turn out to be women,

slim people turn out to be curvy, young people turn up as middle aged, blondes turn up as ginger. what is real?

Oh so very very true.

I am just puzzled by people saying they don't travel, the minute you step out of your hues to go to a local hotel/club whatever, that to me is travelling!!!"

Then the 'don't travel' tick box is pointless. If stepping out of your front door means you are travelling.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mind you, on a sex site in cyber space what is real, people say anything to get a reaction or attention, women turn out to be men, men turn out to be women,

slim people turn out to be curvy, young people turn up as middle aged, blondes turn up as ginger. what is real?

Oh so very very true.

I am just puzzled by people saying they don't travel, the minute you step out of your hues to go to a local hotel/club whatever, that to me is travelling!!!

Then the 'don't travel' tick box is pointless. If stepping out of your front door means you are travelling..... "

So what do you constitute as travelling, because to me if you arrange to meet anyone anywhere you are willing to travel.

The can't travel tick box is relevant when you are only prepared to accommodate... or am i on another planet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

allow for people to use the site in different ways, think outside the box there only ticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere.

I won't accomodate.

I won't travel.

I won't go to someone else's house.

I do fine.

I am completely bemused by this, how does that work, you must go somewhere, therefore that is travelling

So if you walk over the shop to get a pint of milk do you think that is travelling?? My local shop is literally over the road. I don't class that as traveling. There is a hotel 5 minutes away from me. I would meet there, doesn't involve traveling really. "

obviously you know that, but anyone reading your profile wouldn't, cant travel sounds like you are stuck in the house looking after the kids or unable to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?

Isn't crossing the road a bit risky? But if the fun is on the other side you have to evaluate if its worth it.

Many tick can't accommodate when they mean won't accommodate. Many put can't travel As they need to stay local. It all is a matter for the individual, and may get discussed more fully than a tick box if you interest people enough to share a coffee in town somewhere.

I won't accomodate.

I won't travel.

I won't go to someone else's house.

I do fine.

I am completely bemused by this, how does that work, you must go somewhere, therefore that is travelling

So if you walk over the shop to get a pint of milk do you think that is travelling?? My local shop is literally over the road. I don't class that as traveling. There is a hotel 5 minutes away from me. I would meet there, doesn't involve traveling really. "

Yes i class that as travelling because you are not accommodating, therefore you are going somewhere other than your own house for a meet... travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol

ok he used poor wording but if you can't accom and can't travel how do you get meets, going to a hotel is travelling going to a club is travelling.. i'm confused"

I think travelling implies has car therefore can travel. And as the young lady from chorley says, its a fiver in a tax to her local club. Overall I guess its peoples perception of travelling though.

I think I have both on mine only because I live with son, therefore cannot accommodate, I do drive but am not interested in anyone more than an hour as I just cannot afford it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? "

Im enjoying the Forums and general chit chat, do you mind ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol

ok he used poor wording but if you can't accom and can't travel how do you get meets, going to a hotel is travelling going to a club is travelling.. i'm confused

I think travelling implies has car therefore can travel. And as the young lady from chorley says, its a fiver in a tax to her local club. Overall I guess its peoples perception of travelling though.

I think I have both on mine only because I live with son, therefore cannot accommodate, I do drive but am not interested in anyone more than an hour as I just cannot afford it"

very clear and concise, makes sense, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't accom as single parent, don't travel as I don't drive.

Simples

so how do you meet people for sex?"

I mainly do clubs, so get a lift. I meet the same few regulars before anyone goes on about the safety aspects of getting in a strangers car...

Nobody reads those boxes anyway, I still get messages for instashags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't accom as single parent, don't travel as I don't drive.

Simples

so how do you meet people for sex?

I mainly do clubs, so get a lift. I meet the same few regulars before anyone goes on about the safety aspects of getting in a strangers car...

Nobody reads those boxes anyway, I still get messages for instashags."

going to clubs is travelling, even f you are not driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant"

tick box not irrelevant, if you can't accom then you travel, even just five minutes away by foot taxi car or bus.

I you can accom but don't want to travel then that is when the tick box comes into effect

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant"

Yep. Anyway I'm just about to travel to my next door neighbour to collect a package they took in for me yesterday. A whole 2 steps to the left of my front door. Stil travelling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take travel to mean a significant distance that isn't limited by public transport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant

Yep. Anyway I'm just about to travel to my next door neighbour to collect a package they took in for me yesterday. A whole 2 steps to the left of my front door. Stil travelling lol "

still travelling... definition of travelling - go or be moved from place to place irrespective of distance... i added the last three words lol

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

At the end of the day. ..who cares? If you bother to get into a conversation with someone who interests you, then I am sure their individual accommodate/travel circumstances will be brought up and discussed. There are lots of people who have ticked 'can't travel' - this doesn't mean they don't go out of their front door, surely that is common sense for goodness sake?!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant

Yep. Anyway I'm just about to travel to my next door neighbour to collect a package they took in for me yesterday. A whole 2 steps to the left of my front door. Stil travelling lol

still travelling... definition of travelling - go or be moved from place to place irrespective of distance... i added the last three words lol"

Yes but we all know words on fab have their own definitions, curvy, athletic, straight guys that suck cock etc. I think most people recognise travelling on here as covering a fair amount of distance, or like you've said they'd never leave the house.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"At the end of the day. ..who cares? If you bother to get into a conversation with someone who interests you, then I am sure their individual accommodate/travel circumstances will be brought up and discussed. There are lots of people who have ticked 'can't travel' - this doesn't mean they don't go out of their front door, surely that is common sense for goodness sake?! "

Ah common sense.... Lacking on here!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"At the end of the day. ..who cares? If you bother to get into a conversation with someone who interests you, then I am sure their individual accommodate/travel circumstances will be brought up and discussed. There are lots of people who have ticked 'can't travel' - this doesn't mean they don't go out of their front door, surely that is common sense for goodness sake?!

Ah common sense.... Lacking on here! "

Hmmmm....I did think that when I had posted it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is leaving the house, in that case the tick box is irrelevant

Yep. Anyway I'm just about to travel to my next door neighbour to collect a package they took in for me yesterday. A whole 2 steps to the left of my front door. Stil travelling lol

still travelling... definition of travelling - go or be moved from place to place irrespective of distance... i added the last three words lol

Yes but we all know words on fab have their own definitions, curvy, athletic, straight guys that suck cock etc. I think most people recognise travelling on here as covering a fair amount of distance, or like you've said they'd never leave the house. "

Now this one i do agree with....as in the individual definitions..how does a straight guy suck cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day. ..who cares? If you bother to get into a conversation with someone who interests you, then I am sure their individual accommodate/travel circumstances will be brought up and discussed. There are lots of people who have ticked 'can't travel' - this doesn't mean they don't go out of their front door, surely that is common sense for goodness sake?!

Ah common sense.... Lacking on here! "

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

'Neither travel, nor accommodate'

Something some folk abhor, even hate.

What about clubs?

Or toilets in pubs?

Or the lounge of your Mum-in-Law...... Kate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

Much better!!....

Clubs

Local hotels

Blokes that don't mind driving

Blokes that accommodate

.....and I do very well thank you!

and parties and invites from friends where you car share

Limited site tick choices dont mean people are not out having fun "

mmm I have shared a car a few times. Never actually arrived though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day. ..who cares? If you bother to get into a conversation with someone who interests you, then I am sure their individual accommodate/travel circumstances will be brought up and discussed. There are lots of people who have ticked 'can't travel' - this doesn't mean they don't go out of their front door, surely that is common sense for goodness sake?!

Ah common sense.... Lacking on here!

"

Common sense is no so common...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

You can tell by the responses that you fucked up a valid question with a poor choice of words. The valid question would be to ask how these members get meets.

Too right! Didn't sound like he was interested in HOW we get meets. ...just questioning our right to be here at all! Lol

ok he used poor wording but if you can't accom and can't travel how do you get meets, going to a hotel is travelling going to a club is travelling.. i'm confused

I think travelling implies has car therefore can travel. And as the young lady from chorley says, its a fiver in a tax to her local club. Overall I guess its peoples perception of travelling though.

I think I have both on mine only because I live with son, therefore cannot accommodate, I do drive but am not interested in anyone more than an hour as I just cannot afford it

very clear and concise, makes sense, thanks x"

Thanks though I think, well thought I was responding to the hot 6 pack gentleman though cannot find his comment to be sure, must be having a senior moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think that getting in a car with a total stranger (I presume you play alone) or going to a blokes house or hotel room alone with no way of making a quick exit a bit risky?"

I'm guessin this was for me?

Yeah I know can be risky but u get a sense of nice guys and dodgy ones and only go house if I feel safe. Hotel is safe can easily get away and staff around. I'm sensible and cautious hense hardly any meets.

Got to take some risks for fun

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says won't accom Or travel.

I could just be here to chat ?

In fact I do 'travel' for meets but prefer transport and accommodation to be provided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ?? maybe askin what the fuck are they doing on the site was not necessary we have always wondered as well.if ure using a local hotel u still travel there"

I live next door to a travelodge.

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By *iddlesbroughmaleMan
over a year ago

middlesbrough

If you cant travel doesnt that also mean can travel who do you get there then eh? By flying or cant accom were do you play then ie shed garden????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops I think I offendeded a few peeps sorry people let me rephrase that ..

Your not traveling your not accommodating how we swinging ???

"

I have not travelling but do say in my profile I prefer to keep it local. And the can't accommodate is due to spawn appearing at random times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So travel has been thoroughly discussed but what's the exact or interpreted definition of able to "accommodate" mean on here ?

Is it just having a roof over your head ..... such as living alone in your own place or having other occupants in a Flat or house share ??

What's more suitable/ comfortable for meet situations ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either

....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol

Well said "
a very polite question where do you meet.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either

....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol

Well said a very polite question where do you meet."

I always meet for a social drink first, which would be at a place local to me. At the social meet whilst chatting, my inability to accommodate would be discussed. Hotels would be an option, or if I am comfortable with a guy after the initial meet, his place.

It really has never been a problem

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By *ubbyarooMan
over a year ago

Southport

well said

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By *ovebigwomenMan
over a year ago

ballymena

Obviously you are limited to car fucks.

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By *ovebigwomenMan
over a year ago

ballymena

Bit dangerous using local places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been seeing a lot of this on profiles.. But I wonder sometimes if you can't accommodate plus can't travel what the fuck you doing on this site ??

I can't accommodate or travel....but I don't expect to be judged or asked 'what the fuck am I doing on this site'!!!

No, I don't accommodate and I don't travel, but neither do I think it is right to judge others either....

And for the record.....I probably get more meets than you do!! Lol "
because you have breasts

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By *ovebigwomenMan
over a year ago

ballymena

All women can do very well. You are no exception as 90° of men will fuck absolutely any female. Including Mr.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Bit dangerous using local places."

I do not do 'car fucks' - ever!

And why would using local places be dangerous? ? Unless I am married and don't want to be seen....which I am not! I don't mind who sees me having a social drink with a friend in my local!

This site doesn't have to be made seedy! !

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"All women can do very well. You are no exception as 90° of men will fuck absolutely any female. Including Mr."

And it's blokes with an attitude like that who don't get to shag anybody! As your verifications. ..or lack of them...prove!

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By *ovebigwomenMan
over a year ago

ballymena

I agree. " cannot travel" status should be clarified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have ticked cannot travel because I don't drive so am limited but do state in my profile that I can travel and where to

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Bit dangerous using local places."

Any more dangerous than inviting strange men back to our houses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have ticked cannot travel because I don't drive so am limited but do state in my profile that I can travel and where to "

Married also so limits me but Ive managed to get meets on here nice men have given me lifts in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm not after sympathy but I'm back in hospital so can't meet or travel at the moment, but would still like to chat with all you lovely Fabsters

My circumstances hopefully will change

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