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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you? "

One who is not a child

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child "

In what way? Age or acting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting "

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Liam Neeson & Alan Carr and everyone of the gender inbetween.

They are being them and that is good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite "

So you wouldn't fuck a guy who was sweet and caring? Lol

But I get you meaning, never did understand why tho and prob never will haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite

So you wouldn't fuck a guy who was sweet and caring? Lol

But I get you meaning, never did understand why tho and prob never will haha"

If women were supposed to be understood they would come with a manual like washing machines

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certainly more real men on this site,than real women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite "

Really?

I'm obviously not a woman

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

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"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite

Really?

I'm obviously not a woman

Me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone assertive with a mind of their own, not someone who is pussy whipped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr.....well that's very subjective isn't it.

I consider myself a real man. Yeah I know, funny isn't it.

I've been in the armed forces and police force, I do a mans job in a mans world now, I have nothing to prove to anyone and am supremely confident in my sexuality, yet obviously in touch with my feminine side enough to do what I do.

But most people assume because of the latter part, all the former parts dont exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Errr.....well that's very subjective isn't it.

I consider myself a real man. Yeah I know, funny isn't it.

But most people assume because of the latter part, all the former parts dont exist. "

I don't think its funny, but what's intersting is the things you choose to show and said repersent a "real man" ie armed forces, now a lot of people will agree with that but do you think that because male doesn't or hasn't done them thing that he isn't a real man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

One who is not a child

In what way? Age or acting

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite "

Is that where the phrase "treat them mean, keep them keen" comes from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a real man, drags his knuckles on the floor when he walks, has a hairy back, and smells like the swamp...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"someone assertive with a mind of their own, not someone who is pussy whipped."

What you mean pussy whipped? Under the thumb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"someone assertive with a mind of their own, not someone who is pussy whipped.

What you mean pussy whipped? Under the thumb? "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can see your point, but what do you class as under the thumb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snores, moans, leaves his wallet at home a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Errr.....well that's very subjective isn't it.

I consider myself a real man. Yeah I know, funny isn't it.

But most people assume because of the latter part, all the former parts dont exist.

Not at all, but you can't deny they rate quite highly on the Grrrrrrr-ometer of manly jobs. It's down to perception any stereotypes isn't it?

If I was to bring it down to basics I'd say that a real man should be a provider and protector, as per the hunter/gatherer instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Obviously not age lol . Women like sweet guys who're polite , buy them presents and always take notice of their needs and pamper them always on call for them

Women like to fuck guys who are the opposite "

Not sure if I feel more sorry for the male or female half of this couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see your point, but what do you class as under the thumb? "

when the wife makes all the decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man isn't a real man unless he does as hes told and makes a half decent cup of tea..nuff said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you? "

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff "

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Errr.....well that's very subjective isn't it.

I consider myself a real man. Yeah I know, funny isn't it.

But most people assume because of the latter part, all the former parts dont exist.

Not at all, but you can't deny they rate quite highly on the Grrrrrrr-ometer of manly jobs. It's down to perception any stereotypes isn't it?

If I was to bring it down to basics I'd say that a real man should be a provider and protector, as per the hunter/gatherer instinct."

I like this grrrr-omter made me smile hehe, I know what you mean tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well we've had to post on here saming the total opposite hehe I love it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing"

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the last man on here that stood up to thugs and tried to protect his daughter..albeit lumped one of the thugs got such a hammering on here for being his own person that again this is one of those threads where you guys are damned if you do and damned if you dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when I was growing up in Aberdare we quite often used to go over to Merthyr on a weekend for a scrap and/or a shag. Proper manly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually the last man on here that stood up to thugs and tried to protect his daughter..albeit lumped one of the thugs got such a hammering on here for being his own person that again this is one of those threads where you guys are damned if you do and damned if you dont.

Real man or not I'd do the same thing if someone had a go at my family haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And when I was growing up in Aberdare we quite often used to go over to Merthyr on a weekend for a scrap and/or a shag. Proper manly!

Haha scrap and shag mostly, there some really hard women in merthyr lol... PS was you the one in merthyr bus station that one time on a saturday night

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not. "

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real man or not I'd do the same thing if someone had a go at my family haha "

Oh gawd no you can't use violence as that makes you not a real man..he got such a slating on here I felt embarrassed for him..he was very upset for what he did. But too me maybe thats a real man that can make a mistake but hold his hands up and admit where he went wrong and trys to correct it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that got muscles and a 6pack like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that got muscles and a 6pack like me lol

Yum yum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One that got muscles and a 6pack like me lol

Real we said not make believe haha

I know women who don't think men with your physic aren't real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me a real man is nothing to.do with what your job is as such, more so to do with can you support yourself and your lady if needed and times are hard. someone who will stand up for what they believe is right. I think it is someone who will a least try to protect someone special to them, whether they succeed or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Real man or not I'd do the same thing if someone had a go at my family haha

Haha currently finding that out on another thread, but like I said label real man or not, ill protect my family with what ever means I got be phyically or police hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that got muscles and a 6pack like me lol

Real we said not make believe haha

I know women who don't think men with your physic aren't real men "
lol its ok as last time I checked in the mirror I was real.

" yum yum"
mm yes baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And when I was growing up in Aberdare we quite often used to go over to Merthyr on a weekend for a scrap and/or a shag. Proper manly!

Haha scrap and shag mostly, there some really hard women in merthyr lol... PS was you the one in merthyr bus station that one time on a saturday night

pmsl "

You'll have to specific as to which Saturday night?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man"

What's your perception of a 'real man'?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Not all of us thought he was wrong, nor did all of us judge him for his actions; because until we are in the same situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And when I was growing up in Aberdare we quite often used to go over to Merthyr on a weekend for a scrap and/or a shag. Proper manly!

Haha scrap and shag mostly, there some really hard women in merthyr lol... PS was you the one in merthyr bus station that one time on a saturday night

pmsl

You'll have to specific as to which Saturday night?!

Think there was quite a few haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a wwedding in Maesteg once and the biggest fights were between the women....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some might think that being a real man means to be macho and do typical man stuff like a character in some cartoon. That’s all just superficial nonsense to me. Any male can do that.

A real man is one with honour and integrity. One that upholds the name of his family and community. One that contributes to society and takes pride in supporting those around him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can lift big things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can lift big things! "

And we have a winner for the real man award lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some might think that being a real man means to be macho and do typical man stuff like a character in some cartoon. That’s all just superficial nonsense to me. Any male can do that.

A real man is one with honour and integrity. One that upholds the name of his family and community. One that contributes to society and takes pride in supporting those around him."

YEAH ! .....and eats McCoys crisps and has a garden shed with tools in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some might think that being a real man means to be macho and do typical man stuff like a character in some cartoon. That’s all just superficial nonsense to me. Any male can do that.

A real man is one with honour and integrity. One that upholds the name of his family and community. One that contributes to society and takes pride in supporting those around him.

YEAH ! .....and eats McCoys crisps and has a garden shed with tools in it

LOL. That too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

What's your perception of a 'real man'?"

It's a pointless question to me it would be a man who can look himself in the mirror and be proud of who he is. But that's based on what would make me proud of myself, there will be many men who will be proud they beat thier wife or they managed to fool the benefits people about those BS medical problems.

So my description is meaningless to anyone but me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cooking something too eat with just a little pinny on. must be the contrast ,well its worked for me a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

What's your perception of a 'real man'?

So my description is meaningless to anyone but me"

Your just a wee ray of sunshine aint ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

What's your perception of a 'real man'?

So my description is meaningless to anyone but me

Your just a wee ray of sunshine aint ya

A real man ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

What's your perception of a 'real man'?

So my description is meaningless to anyone but me

Your just a wee ray of sunshine aint ya

A real man ?????

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man

What's your perception of a 'real man'?

So my description is meaningless to anyone but me

Your just a wee ray of sunshine aint ya

A real man ?????

Not yet

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man holds a door open for a woman, then slaps her arse as she walks past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man to me is someone who has total respect for himself and others, works hard and provides for those dependant on him. Is a "gentle man" when he needs to be but "tough" if the situation warrants it. He should also be aware of and be responsible for the consequences of his actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the back of another thread what is a real man to you?

Someone who isn't bound by what society thinks he should be/do ... Someone who walks to the beat of their own drum, someone who is confident in their choices, and sticks to their convictions.

Someone who is non violent, yet not to be messed with, someone who is caring, loving and not afraid to show it.

Someone who can look after themselves and others.

Plus a load of other stuff

So actually what your describing is a person who follows exactly societies expectations not someone who does his own thing

If that's what you took from that ... Sure, why not.

Well what you just described is the typical cosmo/ok magazine perfect man"

Cosmo = society?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Just saw this which seems pertinent to me:

"I'm sick of just liking people. I wish to God I could meet somebody I could respect."

J. D. Salinger

Whatever real men are, they are someone who earns my respect.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

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Hmm seems there is a little confusion here ?

Ok men in cartoons are just animated pictures not real , little plastic men in box's are toys not real men , those life like Japanese men fuck dolls are not real men although some have a little more personality than some real men . Real men need food and oxygen else they die and will bleed if cut x most real men think they are normal apart from those who think it uncool to be normal which of course is quite a normal position for a real man, or indeed a real woman for that matter .He Man Is Not A Real Man nor is iron man bob our butcher is as is brian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A real man holds a door open for a woman, then slaps her arse as she walks past.

That's very true hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some might think that being a real man means to be macho and do typical man stuff like a character in some cartoon. That’s all just superficial nonsense to me. Any male can do that.

A real man is one with honour and integrity. One that upholds the name of his family and community. One that contributes to society and takes pride in supporting those around him."

A man who treats a woman the way he wants other men to treat his daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see your point, but what do you class as under the thumb?

when the wife makes all the decisions."

my father was a real man, he worked hard, provided and gave us security, my mother was in charge mostly, deciding what he ate, did and when he bathed, and she nutured him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a real woman? Anyone......?

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"A real man holds a door open for a woman, then slaps her arse as she walks past.

Which, in the eyes of the law, is common/sexual assault.

So it's OK to assault someone just because they're walking through a door and they just happen to be a woman ? Please explain what gives you the right to think/do this. Is it your entitlement simply because you held a door open ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man is someone who should put his family and close friends well being first and he should be capable of taking care of himself. I'm not talking about a man who is clearly under the thumb,those types need a wake up call.

He should have his own mind and speak it but not go out to intentionally offend anyone.

A real man doesn't know he is one really it just comes naturally to him. Many so called men try far too hard to conform just to please those around them but it just makes them look pathetic and false.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man is one who treats a lady like a lady which I like but sometimes could do with a bit of a bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a real man, drags his knuckles on the floor when he walks, has a hairy back, and smells like the swamp..."

I'm working on the posture, OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see your point, but what do you class as under the thumb?

when the wife makes all the decisions.

my father was a real man, he worked hard, provided and gave us security, my mother was in charge mostly, deciding what he ate, did and when he bathed, and she nutured him.

Was that nurtured or neutered?

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By *iFemaleStr8MaleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone that wishes to identify themselves as a man is a real man. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see your point, but what do you class as under the thumb?

when the wife makes all the decisions.

my father was a real man, he worked hard, provided and gave us security, my mother was in charge mostly, deciding what he ate, did and when he bathed, and she nutured him.

Was that nurtured or neutered? "

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