FabSwingers.com forum: experienced

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg

Nooooooooo

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

You just like some things - no harm in that - enjoy

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

No, you're just having good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were just jealous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous is about right! I think that makes you a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealous is about right! I think that makes you a lot of fun!

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you are living the dream to me Hun I hope you have lots more fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks ladies & gents i feel better now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."

I'm shocked you're shocked! Come on now, you've read comments from people who are put off by swingers having more than one verification saying they meet for sex. So you with your four in fourteen months by the definition of some are a hardened swinger who has slept with half the site!

Seriously: I wouldn't worry about it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seriously: I wouldn't worry about it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealous is about right! I think that makes you a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get as many under your belt as you like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get as many under your belt as you like!

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ha ha waste not want not lol

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

husssy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealous is about right! I think that makes you a lot of fun!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No - it means you are successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you a virtual nun!

Never let anyone dictate how many meets is the right number - only you can decide!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I never thought that being 'too experienced' at anything would be a problem. Is there a cap on being experienced?

Silly thing for them to say. Ignore 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were able to do it every month, go for it. Ignore judgements from others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, I love the support from you guys

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Thanks all, I love the support from you guys

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your welcome

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

Ignore the jealous people, just have as much fun as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. we think you need more practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like to make that 5??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

One thing I've learned is not to give a shit about what people think of me. Saves me a lot of grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has never had a ffm they might be intimidated by your experience. Depends on how they said it as to what they meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think it makes you one lucky lady!! (And me a bit jealous lol)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think jealousy is the motivation behind such remarks, I think its double standards, some people want a sexually experienced person who can fill their every desire, they want them to have only ever had one partner if they aren't a virgin, they want them to be excluisve to them but they reserve the right to meet as many people as possible.

Keep a subscription going for a monthly delivery from the salt mine and use it liberally on every message you receive, good and bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest who told you?

The judgemental nature of some swingers regarding other people's sexual antics nevers ceases to amaze me.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Seriously: I wouldn't worry about it!

our sentiments as well, go for it xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Out of interest who told you?

The judgemental nature of some swingers regarding other people's sexual antics nevers ceases to amaze me."

Lol. It is starting to stop amazing me lately, I find it hard to credit but sadly am becoming used to judgement, criticism and disgust wrapped up as preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't name names obviously and wouldn't want to as they were entitled to their opinion ....

But it came from a couple that i had a social with. If they weren't experienced i'd understand but they play with couples at clubs. That's why it baffled me slightly. Unless it was just an excuse and if that's the case id rather an honest "no chemistry " response.

Well not to worry was just curious on peoples thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think...

Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?

Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just think...

Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?

Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough?"

Im pretty sure if they were in my shoes they'd have all had more than 4. And i wouldn't have any thoughts if it was too many or not enough for them as it would have been their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously we would all prefer a virgin !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just think...

Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?

Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough?"

I don't really understand why that's relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, so what! Do wat you like doing and enjoy!!! 4 or 44 who cares! Enjoy xx

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.

Hope to see you soon;-)

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Obviously we would all prefer a virgin !"

Oh god. I wouldn't! The more experienced the better.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Out of interest who told you?

The judgemental nature of some swingers regarding other people's sexual antics nevers ceases to amaze me."

That's why my attitude is 'fuck em' they don't know me and they're not on my Christmas card list'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, far from it.

They are only jealous/ sad/ no passion in their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously we would all prefer a virgin !

Oh god. I wouldn't! The more experienced the better. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.

Hope to see you soon;-)"

Thanks D&G. Hope to see you again soon too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh that's fine isn't it? What a very silly thing to have said to you. I think I've done more than that in the 11 months I've been here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you experienced for wanting to go one step further as maybe you have done most things one two one? It doesn't matter if people think you're experienced on not. What matters is that you have fun and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.

Hope to see you soon;-)"

I am always practicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.

Hope to see you soon;-)

I am always practicing

Care to practice somewhere different

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