FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people assume ???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi? "

Why do you meet bi guys??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up,why do people assume t hat because you meet bi guys your husband is bi ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a shame. cos I've met bi-guys too...just so happens they happen to be on the meets and they havent tried crossing my boundary, or I wouldnt take offense if they asked

people of all mixed sexualities can have fun,without it meaning they had sexual leanings towards each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure hun??? Thats why I'm asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure hun??? Thats why I'm asking?"

Why do you meet bi guys??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi?

Why do you meet bi guys??"

Why not ? They are bi not gay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He was a very nice guy & he offered to take pictures of us!!! Which are amazing and they are on our profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Better they ask than start sucking his cock and offend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its a shame. cos I've met bi-guys too...just so happens they happen to be on the meets and they havent tried crossing my boundary, or I wouldnt take offense if they asked

people of all mixed sexualities can have fun,without it meaning they had sexual leanings towards each other"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No we didn't mean the bi guy we played with we are talking about people judging our veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry hun! Im blonde & not that bright, not sure what ypur getting at? Can you be a little clearer?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"No we didn't mean the bi guy we played with we are talking about people judging our veris"

Because so many bi guys hide behind a straight profile, a few have the delusion that all guys are a bit bi.

Respect for preference is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because all bi guys will immediately and without asking, usually without lubing up, jump ontop of a straight husband and bum them horribly. Making them bi in turn, often giving them "the gay".

Simple minds I wouldn't worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because all bi guys will immediately and without asking, usually without lubing up, jump ontop of a straight husband and bum them horribly. Making them bi in turn, often giving them "the gay".

Simple minds I wouldn't worry

Loving the sarcasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because all bi guys will immediately and without asking, usually without lubing up, jump ontop of a straight husband and bum them horribly. Making them bi in turn, often giving them "the gay".

Simple minds I wouldn't worry

Loving the sarcasm! "

Are you being sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think that's bi lol could be worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hubby is not Bi then what's the problem?

Does it matter what conclusions people jump to if you're not playing with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi? "

Why the adjective?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because all bi guys will immediately and without asking, usually without lubing up, jump ontop of a straight husband and bum them horribly. Making them bi in turn, often giving them "the gay".

Simple minds I wouldn't worry

Loving the sarcasm!

No was agreeing with your point of _iew lol

Are you being sarcastic

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi? "
Maybe they dont know the difrence between being bi and gay.If i was you i wont even be bothered about what ppl think.Just enjoy ure time on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your hubby is not Bi then what's the problem?

Does it matter what conclusions people jump to if you're not playing with them?

It was just a question? It doesn't matter, just wanted to ask what others thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because all bi guys will immediately and without asking, usually without lubing up, jump ontop of a straight husband and bum them horribly. Making them bi in turn, often giving them "the gay".

Simple minds I wouldn't worry

Loving the sarcasm!

Are you being sarcastic

I believe I might very well be!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi?

Why the adjective? "

Not sure what you mean?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi?

Why the adjective? "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi? Maybe they dont know the difrence between being bi and gay.If i was you i wont even be bothered about what ppl think.Just enjoy ure time on here

It's really not worth thinking about.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I not sure 'fabulous' is the best choice of word to describe a straight guy pmsl

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its always easier to assume and be right, than ask and be wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I not sure 'fabulous' is the best choice of word to describe a straight guy pmsl

Mrs Dirty "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I not sure 'fabulous' is the best choice of word to describe a straight guy pmsl

Mrs Dirty "

Well there is no.need to be rude!!! I love my husband very much....we have an amazing marriage...we were just asking for peoples comments about people thinking he is bi.....not a direct attack from some random sad profile. He is fabulous to me if not to anyone else.

Why do people feel that forums are a way to be negative about questions/profiles when on this site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because its always easier to assume and be right, than ask and be wrong!

That's a fair point

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

oh dear! it was a joke and if you're going to post in the forum then I suggest you have a sense of humour

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oh dear! it was a joke and if you're going to post in the forum then I suggest you have a sense of humour

Mrs Dirty "

Defo have a GSOH!!! Just didnt appreciate a negative comment when it wasn't needed, is your husband fabulous? ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Fabulous can have two meanings in context. A fabulous person and also a fabulous figure, like what a lot of women on here select, but few guys do. It's a pun that has gone the wrong way.

Peace everyone and share the Jaffa cakes.

We can all agree Jaffa cakes are fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its is very easy to assume and often the lazy way of thinking a simple question in an email if they where curious then they could have cleared it all up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah its is very easy to assume and often the lazy way of thinking a simple question in an email if they where curious then they could have cleared it all up. "

Defo!! Great positive response! If you don't ask I suppose you never know.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"oh dear! it was a joke and if you're going to post in the forum then I suggest you have a sense of humour

Mrs Dirty

Defo have a GSOH!!! Just didnt appreciate a negative comment when it wasn't needed, is your husband fabulous? ?"

It wasn't a negative comment towards your husband....I was merely making a joke that 'fabulous' is often a word used to describe gay guys!

And my partner is a bi TV so most definitely 'fabulous'

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabulous can have two meanings in context. A fabulous person and also a fabulous figure, like what a lot of women on here select, but few guys do. It's a pun that has gone the wrong way.

Peace everyone and share the Jaffa cakes.

We can all agree Jaffa cakes are fabulous."

Jaffa cakes!!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabulous can have two meanings in context. A fabulous person and also a fabulous figure, like what a lot of women on here select, but few guys do. It's a pun that has gone the wrong way.

Peace everyone and share the Jaffa cakes.

We can all agree Jaffa cakes are fabulous."

Sorry not down with the lingo??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oh dear! it was a joke and if you're going to post in the forum then I suggest you have a sense of humour

Mrs Dirty

Defo have a GSOH!!! Just didnt appreciate a negative comment when it wasn't needed, is your husband fabulous? ?

Go !! Mr Dirty ?

It wasn't a negative comment towards your husband....I was merely making a joke that 'fabulous' is often a word used to describe gay guys!

And my partner is a bi TV so most definitely 'fabulous'

Mrs Dirty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabulous can have two meanings in context. A fabulous person and also a fabulous figure, like what a lot of women on here select, but few guys do. It's a pun that has gone the wrong way.

Peace everyone and share the Jaffa cakes.

We can all agree Jaffa cakes are fabulous."

Any word, only has one meaning, in the moment its used, and only the person using that word would know the true context!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have received a hate message in PM because we didn't realise what another meaning for fabulous was!!! There are some not to nice people on here! Sorry no offence meant!!! We were only asking for opinions not hate messages

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"its a shame. cos I've met bi-guys too...just so happens they happen to be on the meets and they havent tried crossing my boundary, or I wouldnt take offense if they asked

people of all mixed sexualities can have fun,without it meaning they had sexual leanings towards each other"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabulous can have two meanings in context. A fabulous person and also a fabulous figure, like what a lot of women on here select, but few guys do. It's a pun that has gone the wrong way.

Peace everyone and share the Jaffa cakes.

Deep!!!

We can all agree Jaffa cakes are fabulous.

Any word, only has one meaning, in the moment its used, and only the person using that word would know the true context!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Nowt wrong with you meeting bi guys as long as Mr is comfy with it. People shouldn't just assume he's bi. I've met and played in the same room as bi guys that doesn't make me bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nowt wrong with you meeting bi guys as long as Mr is comfy with it. People shouldn't just assume he's bi. I've met and played in the same room as bi guys that doesn't make me bi

We are comfy with anyone...who is kind genuine, respectful and most importantly! !! a giggle.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Nowt wrong with you meeting bi guys as long as Mr is comfy with it. People shouldn't just assume he's bi. I've met and played in the same room as bi guys that doesn't make me bi

We are comfy with anyone...who is kind genuine, respectful and most importantly! !! a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi?

Why the adjective? "

didnt the title explain the following subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I not sure 'fabulous' is the best choice of word to describe a straight guy pmsl

Mrs Dirty "

My adjective point in a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have received a hate message in PM because we didn't realise what another meaning for fabulous was!!! There are some not to nice people on here! Sorry no offence meant!!! We were only asking for opinions not hate messages"

Sorry to hear about hate message. Hope you reported it to Mods.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"That because we have met bi guys, that my fabulous husband is bi? "

I'd not like to assume to know!

I tend not to give a tinkers toss what faceless people who mean absolutely nothing to me think. Enjoy!

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