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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why don't some lads pre - cum is that normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is, like how not all women squirt, we're all plumbed differently.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess so yes I've been with someone who always has then met someone who never thought it was strange but I guess not when thinking about it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why don't some lads pre - cum is that normal "

babygirly20. I've seen a few of your threads now. Just to say. You dont want to be getting sex education from a swingers site. Read up on things. It's absolutely for your own good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How patronising and a tad condescending!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"How patronising and a tad condescending!!!"

ummmmmm have you seen her other threads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm allowed 2 ask haha nothing wrong in that just wondered if it was normal or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm allowed 2 ask haha nothing wrong in that just wondered if it was normal or not "

Ask away girl. It's what the forums are about. You can ask anything. You learn something new everyday. If we knew it all. Life would be boring xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I'm allowed 2 ask haha nothing wrong in that just wondered if it was normal or not "

You are. But information is available everywhere. Doing it on a swingers site shows your inexperience around sex. Sexual health and sexual safety should be the most important things to you if you are active.

Some not all could well take advantage, and you'd be the only one it affects.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clearly u have a problem with what I'm askin an i do not see why if u don't like it don't reply im clearly askin for people's advice not for judgemental comments

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Clearly u have a problem with what I'm askin an i do not see why if u don't like it don't reply im clearly askin for people's advice not for judgemental comments"

^^ please read above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 21 an unexperienced with sex im not gonna lie and say I know everyfin an im very experienced cos that's just not right I'd rather people know an i like 2 ask for people's opinions people who are experienced not the Internet where it gives u loads of different explanations

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I'm 21 an unexperienced with sex im not gonna lie and say I know everyfin an im very experienced cos that's just not right I'd rather people know an i like 2 ask for people's opinions people who are experienced not the Internet where it gives u loads of different explanations "

I have only noticed two of your threads so I'm saying it for your benefit. There are LOTS of guys on here that will try and tell any woman what they want to hear to get a shag, experienced or not.

Now when they know how innocent you are are around sex, it leaves you very open to being taken advantage of. That's all I'm saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 21 an unexperienced with sex im not gonna lie and say I know everyfin an im very experienced cos that's just not right I'd rather people know an i like 2 ask for people's opinions people who are experienced not the Internet where it gives u loads of different explanations "

You will get loads of different explanations on here too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok Thanks for lookin out for Me but if u read my profile im clearly not lookin 2 meet men im lookin 2 meet couples and females with my fuck buddy so males are well out the question anyway and werever I go im always with someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes steel heels but I don't understand the way the explain sometimes and the 1 who 1st commented give me a very reasonable explanation im happy with that I understand

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Ok Thanks for lookin out for Me but if u read my profile im clearly not lookin 2 meet men im lookin 2 meet couples and females with my fuck buddy so males are well out the question anyway and werever I go im always with someone "

;) good on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do some don't, I am someone who does a lot! just sat talking on here I can get hard at it starts dribbling out, and it will continue for hours sometimes until I actually relieve myself. I get a very big wet patch, sometimes when playing I pre- cum that much it feels like I have cum my boxers are that wet. you can see it dribble down, it is completely clear and is sticky/ stretchy. some ladies I have found love it though they feel they are doing a good job, which they are! and they seem to love the taste too

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Thing is babygirl there are some predatory males trawling sites like these seeking to take advantage of the needy, naive, vulnerable and gullible: why illuminate yourself as a target?!!

Your inexperience is evident in your previous post. At your age no one expects you to be Jenna Jameson, but remember who Little Red Riding Hood encountered!

Google really can be your friend. Yes, the forums are a great place, just be careful.

Please don't take my comments as being condescending, I really am trying to be helpful.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm 21 an unexperienced with sex im not gonna lie and say I know everyfin an im very experienced cos that's just not right I'd rather people know an i like 2 ask for people's opinions people who are experienced not the Internet where it gives u loads of different explanations

I have only noticed two of your threads so I'm saying it for your benefit. There are LOTS of guys on here that will try and tell any woman what they want to hear to get a shag, experienced or not.

Now when they know how innocent you are are around sex, it leaves you very open to being taken advantage of. That's all I'm saying.

"

Exactly!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

good deed done for the year

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By *ubyExpreeWoman
over a year ago

BBBW Heaven

Am I allowed to say, I hate pre cum. I see it as the first sign of diabetes. Out of 30 something guys I have had some sort of sexual encounter with, only one had pre-cum as soon as we started kissing but was a totally put off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thank u all anyway for your comments I understand what every1 is sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babygirl. Just ignore him....You're going to get know it alls everywhere. You just either ignore or tell them to stop talking to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is babygirl there are some predatory males trawling sites like these seeking to take advantage of the needy, naive, vulnerable and gullible: why illuminate yourself as a target?!!

Your inexperience is evident in your previous post. At your age no one expects you to be Jenna Jameson, but remember who Little Red Riding Hood encountered!

Google really can be your friend. Yes, the forums are a great place, just be careful.

Please don't take my comments as being condescending, I really am trying to be helpful. "

But also, some of the "knowledge" and opinions I've seen posted on the forum have been ill informed, massively out dated and just plain wrong...always rely on well researched evidence rather than opinions of people who may not always have your best interests at heart

Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is babygirl there are some predatory males trawling sites like these seeking to take advantage of the needy, naive, vulnerable and gullible: why illuminate yourself as a target?!!

Your inexperience is evident in your previous post. At your age no one expects you to be Jenna Jameson, but remember who Little Red Riding Hood encountered!

Google really can be your friend. Yes, the forums are a great place, just be careful.

Please don't take my comments as being condescending, I really am trying to be helpful. "

Babygirl, maybe just use this profile for asking questions but don't meet people off it. I know what you mean about people explaining better on here.

But as Miss_Tress and My Favourite Thing say, people aren't always as nice as they seem on the internet. Be careful. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u I never meet people on My own anyway when I do meet an I don't meet men only lookin 2 meet couples that's all x

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

In answer to the original I would say it varies, I produce precum so assume it's normal bit other guys may not, I wouldn't think it reflects any problem in the guy, just a variant of normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not saying there's anythin wrong with it I like it either way there is a story behind why I am askin but im really not in2 tellin the whole forum about it so the way I've put it on here without the story makes every1 think I'm stupid or something

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By *andhCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u _andh I guess uve seen that 2day already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ment I have

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply. "

how are the replies not constructive again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask away on forums but take some of the advice, well intentioned though it may be with a pinch of salt.

If in any doubt you are best talking to a sexual health professional. The G.P surgery where you are registered can advise. Theres nothing embarassing ( they have heard it all before )about it and if you can talk to keyboard klickers on.here you can talk to a nurse.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pre-cum. But some women have also asked what it was. You are not the first and won't be the last to be unsure It's usually a sign that we are very turned on, just like when a women excretes fluids. But as has been said, google it x

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply. "

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply.

how are the replies not constructive again?? "

Best not to try to help in case other people get annoyed.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply.

how are the replies not constructive again??

Best not to try to help in case other people get annoyed. "

Or totally confuse everything by making it a profile review ?? I think it means that at least ??

But yeah, I dont know how much a constructive a reply to 'does a man have pre cum or not' can be. Yes/No answers may be just that constructive reply needed?? Maybe?? lol

Under the circumstance - I should win a badge for constructiveness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the Problem with you asking this question. The Internet isn't clear. Visiting a dr/nurse to ask something like this seems a bit extreme. Asking on here seems like a good move to me. There are loads of men who can advise. It's not like you are unsure what makes you pregnant or you think you have an std. It's just a really simple question. Don't know what all the fuss is about.

X

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Probably because they take the blue pill

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Please don't be put off asking any questions you want in the forum. Some regular posters prefer to judge you or your profile rather than posting a constructive reply.

how are the replies not constructive again?? "

I'm confused, but there you go thought we were being helpful myself. Oh well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *oodtimes32Man
over a year ago

bridgend

I don't see any problem asking this question.

Basically some guys do some don't sums it up. I do always have and it's nothing to do with Viagra or health issues in my case

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

yep it happens to me, i find it a really big nuisance and a nightmare, i pre-cum constantly when im reading profiles and the forums and when im traveling to meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the Problem with you asking this question. The Internet isn't clear. Visiting a dr/nurse to ask something like this seems a bit extreme. Asking on here seems like a good move to me. There are loads of men who can advise. It's not like you are unsure what makes you pregnant or you think you have an std. It's just a really simple question. Don't know what all the fuss is about.

X"
thank u very much I clearly didn't see any problems with askin this at all but 2 a lot of people it seems 2 be a very big issue some people have been kind enough to help out but other people are 2 judgemental no the Internet isn't very clear an i Definitely wouldn't go to the doctors 2 ask it was clearly a reasonable question 2 ask

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