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"I often meet unverified guys so no it wouldn't put me off at all. Before the days of the summary I may have approached with a little more caution in case it was all cam from 3yrs ago and they never actually met anyone (as I do with an unverified), but not being able to see the details wouldn't stop me meeting someone as I make up my own mind about a person rather than relying on someone elses opinion." | |||
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"I choose to hide mine because in the past the guys who've verified me had had some hassle from a no hoper! However, if I'm considering meeting someone I'm happy to give them a quick flash of the veris so that they can see they're genuine " exactly | |||
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"I choose to hide mine because in the past the guys who've verified me had had some hassle from a no hoper! However, if I'm considering meeting someone I'm happy to give them a quick flash of the veris so that they can see they're genuine " If only it'd gotten that far :P | |||
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"Just a little caveat : Webcam verifications should be disregarded and banned in my eyes. Just an opinion ..." Agree, they prove one thing, that the person they are watching on cam is alive! not that they arrive on time or are reliable etc etc .... | |||
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"Just a little caveat : Webcam verifications should be disregarded and banned in my eyes. Just an opinion ... Agree, they prove one thing, that the person they are watching on cam is alive! not that they arrive on time or are reliable etc etc .... " No veri's prove that. Just because they were ok for the person they met in the veri, they may be a total ass next time. | |||
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"Nope it wouldn't put me off that I can't read that...... He makes me gush like a fountain He has a suckable cock He's a keeper She has the wettest pussy ever! " exactly they all say the same crap . | |||
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"No I wouldn't think it was a fake profile seeing as you have your summary on there showing meets and webcams. As a single woman on here I do tread more carefully if a man is verified but not showing either veris or summary. I did a bit of detective work last week and reported a profile with fake pics, even though he'd been verified so you can't always tell! As another lady has said on here, I do read veris as it's sometimes a deciding factor. I know some will knock me for that but I have my reasons for this and I'll stick to it!" They can knock me too then, because I read them and while we will never really know if they are bs, unless we meet the person written about, it does help somewhat. | |||
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"Just a little caveat : Webcam verifications should be disregarded and banned in my eyes. Just an opinion ... Agree, they prove one thing, that the person they are watching on cam is alive! not that they arrive on time or are reliable etc etc .... No veri's prove that. Just because they were ok for the person they met in the veri, they may be a total ass next time. " And just because it proved they turned up doesn't mean they will always turn up. Everyone can use the veri system however they want. Me I don't bother with them. | |||
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"No not fake but it puts me off. I like reading veri's - gives more info. Good veri's can make me decide to message when undecided on pics and profile x " Same here | |||
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"No I wouldn't think it was a fake profile seeing as you have your summary on there showing meets and webcams. As a single woman on here I do tread more carefully if a man is verified but not showing either veris or summary. I did a bit of detective work last week and reported a profile with fake pics, even though he'd been verified so you can't always tell! As another lady has said on here, I do read veris as it's sometimes a deciding factor. I know some will knock me for that but I have my reasons for this and I'll stick to it! They can knock me too then, because I read them and while we will never really know if they are bs, unless we meet the person written about, it does help somewhat. " | |||
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"No as I hid mine: never asked for them. If at the ripe old age of 53 I need the post coital enthusiastic bollocks of total strangers to decide whether I invite another total stranger into my bed then I'm in serious trouble! If hiding mine makes others think I'm fake, the mentally challenged and I would struggle to communicate so it's win/win for all concerned!" | |||
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" I make up my own mind about a person rather than relying on someone elses opinion." Exactly! | |||
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"i dont hide mine, i display the only one i have with pride as it took me long enough to get that one" | |||
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"Just been blocked because someone decided we were fake just because we've hidden our verifications. It clearly says on our profile that we have 10 veris. 5 by meet. We choose to hide them as we don't believe it's anyone else's business except our own who we meet on here and heard some horror stories of people messaging previous meeters and vetting them about the person they're speaking to. So my question is, would you think someone's profile is fake just because they have hidden the nature of their verifications?" No. the way you have your veris now proves you are not fake. Just because somebody cannot read the words on your veris does not mean you are fake. Whoever blocked you was just looking for any reason to block you. | |||
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"Someone blocked you for running your profile how you wish? You're well out of that. Don't worry about it." This | |||
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"Just been blocked because someone decided we were fake just because we've hidden our verifications. It clearly says on our profile that we have 10 veris. 5 by meet. We choose to hide them as we don't believe it's anyone else's business except our own who we meet on here and heard some horror stories of people messaging previous meeters and vetting them about the person they're speaking to. So my question is, would you think someone's profile is fake just because they have hidden the nature of their verifications?" Dont worry about it. Prbably was them bottling out. Same thing happened to me and ive been swinging 15 years lol There loss | |||
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"Nope it wouldn't put me off that I can't read that...... He makes me gush like a fountain He has a suckable cock He's a keeper She has the wettest pussy ever! " Lol, lol, lol, etc | |||
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"My veris are hidden. I only see veris as proof that someone is potentially genuine. An indicator not total proof. I don't like the 'she was a great shag. I did this. She did that' thing about veris. Find it a bit strange. Bit like your ex announcing to the pub what you got up to in bed." Exactly. All a veri does is prove somebody is real. So a veri proves somebody is a couple or a single female or a single males. One perdon may write a veri saying this woman is gives the best blow job ever. Every other man may disagree. The only think a veri proves is the other person is real. | |||
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"When you can read someone's verfi's you also know it's safe to play" What do you mean ? | |||
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"When you can read someone's verfi's you also know it's safe to play What do you mean ? " Because previous meets survived to write a veri, of course! | |||
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"When you can read someone's verfi's you also know it's safe to play What do you mean ? Because previous meets survived to write a veri, of course!" haha pmsl | |||
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"Ours are hidden, verification means nothing after all who would show a bad one, FFS. Much better to chat or even call can always use an old phone for that on PAYG " | |||
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"My verifications are hidden too . I dont see them as badges of honour ! There there should a serious contender for a meet to see should they ask . But i feel theres nothing cheaper than a string of verifications . And they always say " she gives the best blow job ever " lol Thats just what guys say to every woman ! Lmao " oh...you have shattered my illusions! I hide mine but agree that people who are likely to meet me can see if they wish. I dont make decisions on verifications alone. It is too easy to fake them. | |||
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"When you can read someone's verfi's you also know it's safe to play What do you mean ? Because previous meets survived to write a veri, of course!" | |||
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"Just a little caveat : Webcam verifications should be disregarded and banned in my eyes. Just an opinion ..." I concur | |||
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"When you can read someone's verfi's you also know it's safe to play What do you mean ? Because previous meets survived to write a veri, of course!" Hahaha brilliant!! | |||
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"Just been blocked because someone decided we were fake just because we've hidden our verifications. It clearly says on our profile that we have 10 veris. 5 by meet. We choose to hide them as we don't believe it's anyone else's business except our own who we meet on here and heard some horror stories of people messaging previous meeters and vetting them about the person they're speaking to. So my question is, would you think someone's profile is fake just because they have hidden the nature of their verifications?" same happened to us the other day, brush it off and leave those kinds in their world lol xxx | |||
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"Im on the ball as far as spotting fake profiles are concerned,but without sounding hopelessly green,how do I spot a fake verification?Ive seen profiles were couples have 'friended' themselves?Is this allowed?" if they have singles profiles and 2 separate ISP's | |||
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"Im on the ball as far as spotting fake profiles are concerned,but without sounding hopelessly green,how do I spot a fake verification?Ive seen profiles were couples have 'friended' themselves?Is this allowed?" yes - just send yourself a friend request and accept.. nothing wrong with it - why ud need to apart from seeing you own status on the feed is another matter. | |||
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"Just been blocked because someone decided we were fake just because we've hidden our verifications. It clearly says on our profile that we have 10 veris. 5 by meet. We choose to hide them as we don't believe it's anyone else's business except our own who we meet on here and heard some horror stories of people messaging previous meeters and vetting them about the person they're speaking to. So my question is, would you think someone's profile is fake just because they have hidden the nature of their verifications?" It would have done about a month ago, but Iv learnt to not take any notice of them and come to my own conclusion. | |||
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"No not fake but it puts me off. I like reading veri's - gives more info. Good veri's can make me decide to message when undecided on pics and profile x " | |||
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"No not fake but it puts me off. I like reading veri's - gives more info. Good veri's can make me decide to message when undecided on pics and profile x " i show veris if and when i believe them genuine and realistic chance of meet. | |||
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"Of course we judge from verifications... that's what they are there for doh! xx" They're all bollocks, not interested on what other people say about people ,we'll be the judge of who's any good by seeing for ourselves. We've had over 20 meets this past ten months or so, eight or nine with the same bi fem and havent left nor received veris from anyone, cant be arsed. The flipside is we pay no attention to Trip advisor either, profes sional whingers slagging off hotels that we've enjoyed staying in. | |||
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"Of course we judge from verifications... that's what they are there for doh! xx They're all bollocks, not interested on what other people say about people ,we'll be the judge of who's any good by seeing for ourselves. We've had over 20 meets this past ten months or so, eight or nine with the same bi fem and havent left nor received veris from anyone, cant be arsed. The flipside is we pay no attention to Trip advisor either, profes sional whingers slagging off hotels that we've enjoyed staying in. " So true about Trip Advisor! Sometimes I wonder whether I have stayed at the same hotel!! | |||
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