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By *ob55 OP   Man
over a year ago

PE13

When I see that, quite often the lady doesn't display any

Or I write and my mail is instantly deleted, there again it doesn't say include pic I will reply

Anyone any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are obviously contradicting themselves. Delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I see that, quite often the lady doesn't display any

Or I write and my mail is instantly deleted, there again it doesn't say include pic I will reply

Anyone any thoughts?"

simply, if they dont have pics on public show, we wont message them in the first place.

people only write back if they are interested generally.. so if they dont reply, they aint interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say no face pic no reply on my profile but have 6 face pics on public display. I wouldn't dream of demanding a face pic if I didn't have any but many do. I prefer to see who I'm chatting to out of courtesy and lets face it, you wouldn't go up to someone in a bar and say hi with a paper bag over your head would you?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics in private?

Personal choice as to who they're shown to?

No reply as they're not attracted or interested?

Just some suggestions!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I say no face pic no reply on my profile but have 6 face pics on public display. I wouldn't dream of demanding a face pic if I didn't have any but many do. I prefer to see who I'm chatting to out of courtesy and lets face it, you wouldn't go up to someone in a bar and say hi with a paper bag over your head would you?!!"

No but I have gone up to a few in bars who perhaps should have had paper bags on their heads. Curse you, beer goggles

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have a set of meet criteria others have theirs. If there's don't meet mine I move onto the next one.

Honestly people, you're under no obligation to jump through anyone's hoops you know!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Face pics in private?

Personal choice as to who they're shown to?

No reply as they're not attracted or interested?

Just some suggestions!"

If someone asks for a pic on contact, but doesn't display any; I'd guess should they pm someone they will include them. They didnt ask you to find their profile and then bitch about it's content

& NO reply IS a reply; just not one you want

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I have a set of meet criteria others have theirs. If there's don't meet mine I move onto the next one.

Honestly people, you're under no obligation to jump through anyone's hoops you know!"

Saved me some typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evryone has different expectations of both others and themselves, some expect others to jump through hoops and supply a written cv with face pics attached whilt they only have a 2 line profile and no pics alot are fair in seeing it as both parties being equal. Some even send usolicited friend invites when they infact have no pics at all and actually expect you to accept it. This is the case with couples, men and single fems. Everyone uses the site how they feel best suites them obviously itbwill attract some and deter others but thats life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for a face pic if someone mails me and I don't see what's wrong with that. This is a swinging site, people mail with the intention of meeting, so as far as I'm concerned I do need to fancy them. I wont know that unless I see a picture.

I don't have one on my profile for privacy reasons but I have three others. I have a face pic for my friends to see and to send it needs be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who ask if you fancy meeting when they haven't sent a face pic or people who say I'll send a pic if you're interested. Well I won't know if I'm interested if I don't know what you look like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touché my friends so many double standards from so many up there own arse people on her!

Power the ugly people!

Av a great new year alll

Jayxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only mail people we can see from the start we are attracted to

could be a right fucking minger if they have no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Touché my friends so many double standards from so many up there own arse people on her!

Power the ugly people!

Av a great new year alll

Jayxxx "

how much power do you think you have?

are you phantom of the opera?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Touché my friends so many double standards from so many up there own arse people on her!

Power the ugly people!

Av a great new year alll

Jayxxx "

Your "ugly" may be someone's Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie. Subjective my Dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true! Different strokes for different strokes i don't judge peeps by appearance alone! Therefore will always reply picture or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on but are all that selfish? Jayxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly message profiles that say 'no face pic, no reply', - they reply surprisingly often.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So true! Different strokes for different strokes i don't judge peeps by appearance alone! Therefore will always reply picture or not "

Yet you use the word ugly as an insult. But you don't judge.

Gotcha, no double standards there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly was not intended as an insult! Apologies to all those who were offended lol jayxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So true! Different strokes for different strokes i don't judge peeps by appearance alone! Therefore will always reply picture or not "

I don't judge people by appearances alone but this isn't real life, it's a swinging site! Call me what you want, but if I intend getting jiggy with a man, I really do need to fancy him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only mail people we can see from the start we are attracted to

could be a right fucking minger if they have no pics "

For gods sake get off the fence and say what you think for once ....LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 150 pictures. I send my face pic with my messages. But, i'd never message a profile that has no pictures unless it is photo verified.

...it works both ways really. We're not playing blind date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only mail people we can see from the start we are attracted to

could be a right fucking minger if they have no pics

For gods sake get off the fence and say what you think for once ....LOL "

haha its hard work saying what you think without some people getting the wrong idea about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only mail people we can see from the start we are attracted to

could be a right fucking minger if they have no pics

For gods sake get off the fence and say what you think for once ....LOL

haha its hard work saying what you think without some people getting the wrong idea about us "

Love your posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who ask if you fancy meeting when they haven't sent a face pic or people who say I'll send a pic if you're interested. Well I won't know if I'm interested if I don't know what you look like lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't put face pics on here because of my job.I say on my profile to send me face pics if you like us. We will send our face pics back if we like you. But if we message someone first then we always send face pics because it saves messing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't put face pics on here because of my job.I say on my profile to send me face pics if you like us. We will send our face pics back if we like you. But if we message someone first then we always send face pics because it saves messing about. "

and thats how it should be in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete before reading if no pic is attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a set of meet criteria others have theirs. If there's don't meet mine I move onto the next one.

Honestly people, you're under no obligation to jump through anyone's hoops you know!"

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