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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can somebody pls help me out, im having no luck on here, i always read the profile and i send a msg suitable for said profile, my pictures get alot of likes so i dont know where i am going wrong. I have been on here before and it was just the same then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4weeks isnt long..attend a club

the username is just a little bit unoriginal and immature sounding...dont ur pics show u off well enuff?

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me. Personally don't think you need the cock pics on ( but that may appeal to some)

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same here but no liking my pics either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks good, photos good too...4 weeks isn't that long ..stick with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look fab - pics are great

Against - profile name - yuck. Current status - not great. Would want to know why you are not displaying the verification u have as u r green ticked.

Cant see any thing else wrong x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your cock is too big. Chop some away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe its the username - any suggestions? In the past i have been on for months and didnt have much luck then either x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

only problem I can see is you are too far from me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The combination of childish username, cock avatar and crass status was enough to put me off. I never actually read the profile but it's so short I doubt it says anything of any substance.

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

You have a great profile actually. I think it's just a case of ratio of single men is so high on here, being over looked is inevitable sometimes. Send more messages and fab more pix to get people's attention and maybe you will get more chances of responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile name doesn't offend me, it shows you have a sense of humour and what's not to like about your pics?

4 weeks isn't a long time and guys who probably can pick up someone in a club most nights might struggle with the fact it takes a bit of time and effort to meet on here.

Only thing thats wrong with your profile that I can see is it says your in Manchester ... x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I see only one major problem...

YOUR TOO BLOODY FAR AWAY!!

(Seriously though you're profile could do with expanding a bit)

And move down south....did I mention that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can somebody pls help me out, im having no luck on here, i always read the profile and i send a msg suitable for said profile, my pictures get alot of likes so i dont know where i am going wrong. I have been on here before and it was just the same then."

Feel a bit guilty now,, your profile shows you messaged us, can't remember what it said, we get a lot of single guy messages.

Your profile looks fine, apart from name ,as has been mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I'm having the same problem mate , I fulfil any meet requests to the letter but get not a thing back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can somebody pls help me out, im having no luck on here, i always read the profile and i send a msg suitable for said profile, my pictures get alot of likes so i dont know where i am going wrong. I have been on here before and it was just the same then.

Feel a bit guilty now,, your profile shows you messaged us, can't remember what it said, we get a lot of single guy messages.

Your profile looks fine, apart from name ,as has been mentioned."

Haha yes i did

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

Change your name other than that you're looking bloody good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any non off putting username ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a great profile actually. I think it's just a case of ratio of single men is so high on here, being over looked is inevitable sometimes. Send more messages and fab more pix to get people's attention and maybe you will get more chances of responses."

Though I wouldn't say he has a GREAT profile, its well written if a bit bland, and he's actually a good looking guy, so I'd agree that its the vast single male mountain that's again the problem - he's better equipped to climb it than most though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...oh and yeah the username IS a bit crap, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas? "

How about changing your username to 'movingtoglasgow'? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this place is not a cheap brothel, its a swinging site.

That is friends that meet up, laugh, chat, socialise and shag, often swapping partners.

There are a hanger (large shed) load of single guys on here simply looking to get laid. If you are in that group it will certainly be a awhile before you find the cheap sex you are looking for.

Go to clubs, meet people, make friends, chat and join swinging. Otherwise head over to AFF or the find a fuck sites ... Or pay a few hundred quid for an escort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this place is not a cheap brothel, its a swinging site."

I didn't see anything in any of his posts, or his profile that suggested he viewed it as such?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas? "

dont try backdoorsailor ...unless thats what ur after

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"this place is not a cheap brothel, its a swinging site.

That is friends that meet up, laugh, chat, socialise and shag, often swapping partners.

There are a hanger (large shed) load of single guys on here simply looking to get laid. If you are in that group it will certainly be a awhile before you find the cheap sex you are looking for.

Go to clubs, meet people, make friends, chat and join swinging. Otherwise head over to AFF or the find a fuck sites ... Or pay a few hundred quid for an escort.

"

A whiff of jealousy?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this place is not a cheap brothel, its a swinging site.

That is friends that meet up, laugh, chat, socialise and shag, often swapping partners.

There are a hanger (large shed) load of single guys on here simply looking to get laid. If you are in that group it will certainly be a awhile before you find the cheap sex you are looking for.

Go to clubs, meet people, make friends, chat and join swinging. Otherwise head over to AFF or the find a fuck sites ... Or pay a few hundred quid for an escort.

"

singles can't swap partners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partners 10 jan is greedy girls night, what better way to do a mass introduction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punctuation and grammar. And don't use text speak like "msg" but other than that you're gorgeous and got a great body, change the username too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to restart what I said earlier, the obvious username...but what I hadnt read was that u were on here earlier, and its been the same?...did u ever ask for advice last time and did u change anything?

ur location: Manchester?- plenty of swing clubs to go to

hiding ones verifies never amounts to anything when ur profile is new and u are seeking meets.We dont know if ur just a webcamming type, which will put some off(those that prefer meeting)

so I think you have a good profile, the girls have certainly taken a liking to u...but until u get out there its an uphill struggle.Technically , U should be getting more meets than I can in a year in a short space of time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas? "

Not really sure why a username would put people off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Technically , U should be getting more meets than I can in a year in a short space of time lol

"

specially if you move to Glasgow cause you can meet me weekly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas?

Not really sure why a username would put people off... "

yours is a bit more inventive to be honest the OPs really says "I have a big dick and I will be the best at fucking u"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Technically , U should be getting more meets than I can in a year in a short space of time lol

specially if you move to Glasgow cause you can meet me weekly! "

stop making me jealous sophie, am right roon the corner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like groundhog day reading the'no one wants to meet' posts!! Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha sophie i used to work in helensburgh...gutted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Technically , U should be getting more meets than I can in a year in a short space of time lol

specially if you move to Glasgow cause you can meet me weekly!

stop making me jealous sophie, am right roon the corner lol"

sorrryyyyyyyyyyyyy my bad but the guy needs help and I am a good samaritan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are not having any luck than average looking person like me have no hope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yourself noticed by starting a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi dix I find im having the same problem and I get a lot of timewasters it quite off putting. I dont know what else to do with my profile I do need more pics tho. I cant get verified cause no one is willing to meet unverified people its a catch 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only problem I can see is you are too far from me lol"

I was just thinking the same things. Ooffffff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas?

Not really sure why a username would put people off...

yours is a bit more inventive to be honest the OPs really says "I have a big dick and I will be the best at fucking u""

Fair. But should something that takes a person 10 seconds to think of be of any importance at all?

I never look at usernames tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi dix I find im having the same problem and I get a lot of timewasters it quite off putting. I dont know what else to do with my profile I do need more pics tho. I cant get verified cause no one is willing to meet unverified people its a catch 22 "

no pics on ur profile...easy to pass by, learn from the advice given to the OP, imagine when a woman or cpl check ur profile what they might think...probably not much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any non off putting username ideas?

Not really sure why a username would put people off...

yours is a bit more inventive to be honest the OPs really says "I have a big dick and I will be the best at fucking u"

Fair. But should something that takes a person 10 seconds to think of be of any importance at all?

I never look at usernames tbh."

well from my original pointing it out the biggest percent think its a silly name lol...of course, maybe those that arent using the forums think its a great name and are dying to meet the OP...but clearly...thats not the case is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...Technically , U should be getting more meets than I can in a year in a short space of time lol

specially if you move to Glasgow cause you can meet me weekly!

stop making me jealous sophie, am right roon the corner lol

sorrryyyyyyyyyyyyy my bad but the guy needs help and I am a good samaritan!"

I've ran outta sugar, chap chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can somebody pls help me out, im having no luck on here, i always read the profile and i send a msg suitable for said profile, my pictures get alot of likes so i dont know where i am going wrong. I have been on here before and it was just the same then."

Your profile reads as though you are expecting people to contact you ? As a single guy, maybe you need to do some of the work, as there is a world of competition. I notice you have only re joined 4 weeks ago. Not really given it a chance, considering the time of year, people may have been a little pre occupied ? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I've ran outta sugar, chap chap "

I don't use sugar.... will sweeteners do ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its the username - any suggestions? In the past i have been on for months and didnt have much luck then either x"

Biggus Dickus ? Sorry. Childish I know, but couldn't resist that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i like the username shows a sense of humour n ur pics show u dont lie hey big boy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I do have pics but private tbh thi I might just share then lol do I look that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I've ran outta sugar, chap chap

I don't use sugar.... will sweeteners do ? x "

address and postcode needed, might need telephone number and email address...all this for some bloody sweetners...but I'am desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I've ran outta sugar, chap chap

I don't use sugar.... will sweeteners do ? x

address and postcode needed, might need telephone number and email address...all this for some bloody sweetners...but I'am desperate "

Come say Hi at CJ's..... x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, a wittier name would be good....and move to London, the streets are paved with gold you know!!

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

Why do people go on about his user name?? You would seriously skip a person because of this? So a below average looking guy with un fit body and bad photos will get your attention because of a more 'appealing' name? Many peeps on here slag off his user name when their own is from what I can see is in similar tone.

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