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is a local meet good or bad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Found somebody genuine who is a few minutes away is this good or bad to arrange a social meet first or is it best to keep away from very close swingers for personal and safety reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't like playing too close to home. I like to keep my personal life just that

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We have met local people and become good friends in the past. Never had any problems and infact found it easier. All comes down to the people though .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer local and have met a lot of them..... even bump into each other in supermarkets etc... and its never a problem.

Its not as if we have "we have shagged each other" T-Shirts on is it

In fact its no different to meeting anyone local

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a couple of locals I meet quite regularly not been a problem so far. I use and trust my gut instinct, if it says no believe it. Once paid the price for not doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet someone local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can no longer use our local social club because of this.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them "

If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually only go for local area couples, we always have a social meet first so it is far more convenient and economic to meet local couples.We have never found it a problem meeting them in town etc since as said earlier, no-one else there knows what you have been doing with that couple.We also like to build friendships as well as have sexy fun with couples so again local is far better for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more local the better for me.

As long as you draw boundaries regarding discretion and they can be trusted there shouldn't be a problem,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me anymore , I met someone local, did not want to meet anymore and he found out where I lived by seeing my car on my drive and became a stalker !!!! not good !!! So now I look just a tad further away !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local has to be the best, easier, safer, and more chance of regular fun, when you get to know someone you learn what turns each other on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more local the better for me.

As long as you draw boundaries regarding discretion and they can be trusted there shouldn't be a problem,"

Well I'm only down the road!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them

If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more local the better for me.

As long as you draw boundaries regarding discretion and they can be trusted there shouldn't be a problem,

Well I'm only down the road! "

I'm afraid you don't have the equipment I require!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend not to play within a 15mile radius of home because of Donna's work, also when she is on a girls night out we feel its best there are no awkward moments with single blokes we may have had a 3some with

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope,not for me.I put myself in Bristol but am nowhere near there...lol..Only once did I meet a local and he turned out to be best man at my cousins wedding

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

It's easier as long as the agreement is total discretion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet someone localish.

I can't drive so that puts me at a massive disadvantage for meets I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a local meet or one within this county.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them

If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "

If your both adults this will not be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont mind meeting local couples.

its local men we dont meet.

have found some people to be less than discreet at inopportune moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were always dubious of locals incase they knew family or friends of ours. However, we cautiously met 2 local couples after some chat first and then swapping face pics.

Both couples were great and discreet, no worries of them blabbing as they are same as us. Last meet we had was pretty mind blowing .

It's far cheaper for a start, no travel, hotels etc.

Just be cautious to begin, if your picky I'm sure you'd be fine.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Found somebody genuine who is a few minutes away is this good or bad to arrange a social meet first or is it best to keep away from very close swingers for personal and safety reasons "

Personal preference. I only meet locally, I don't want meets turning up sweaty and smelly after travelling for hours. Other half lives 15 minutes away, works perfectly for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We have met local people and become good friends in the past. Never had any problems and infact found it easier. All comes down to the people though ....."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We prefer local and have met a lot of them..... even bump into each other in supermarkets etc... and its never a problem.

Its not as if we have "we have shagged each other" T-Shirts on is it

In fact its no different to meeting anyone local"

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them "

Have swinging friends who have met family members and never been an issue. As local people easy to just explain as friends. Nobody asks anymore as it's not sort of thing you would think of

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

local is good but people see your car outside toungs get waggeling and i dont meen on clits

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally I prefer local, I don't know anyone in my area anyway, so it's not like I'd awkwardly know their family or friends. I had a couple who wanted to meet but decided no because I'm a couple of miles from them. They assumed I'd probably know them, their neighbour's & friends. In actual fact, the only locals I know are the downstairs neighbours & a wee old woman across the road.

Real life isn't like coronation st anymore, people don't know everyone who lives nearby. The chances are you'd spot them once from a distance in the local supermarket in a year's time. So just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I prefer local, I don't know anyone in my area anyway, so it's not like I'd awkwardly know their family or friends. I had a couple who wanted to meet but decided no because I'm a couple of miles from them. They assumed I'd probably know them, their neighbour's & friends. In actual fact, the only locals I know are the downstairs neighbours & a wee old woman across the road.

Real life isn't like coronation st anymore, people don't know everyone who lives nearby. The chances are you'd spot them once from a distance in the local supermarket in a year's time. So just go for it "

We are only interested in local people. It's no different to running into someone you had sex with in vanilla life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has its pros and cons I guess. When swinging with the wife we had a fuck buddy who lived half mile up the road. Great for spontanious meets but I guess awkward if your down the pub with friends !!......seriius note always good to have a social first.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I don't like them too close can be awkward so not for me

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them

If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "

I agree with that and anyone that is NOT discreet should be banned from this site

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