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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anybody ever had this happen to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, lots of times. Be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, if you realise after he ejaculates then it's upto you to get the necessary checks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago yes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

any particular brand prone to splitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Many years ago with a boyfriend, that's why they aren't 100% fail safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, if you realise after he ejaculates then it's upto you to get the necessary checks "

Why only after the male ejaculates? He doesn't need to orgasm for STIs to be transferred or for the lady to fall pregnant.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened to me yet lol.

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By *uncan20004Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death."

Bet you that's not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, if you realise after he ejaculates then it's upto you to get the necessary checks

Why only after the male ejaculates? He doesn't need to orgasm for STIs to be transferred or for the lady to fall pregnant.

crystal"

Because the risk is increased with the fact the condom is designed to hold the ejaculate. I guess you're right though, the tests should still be done regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea, 5 times, hence 5 kids!

Our advice...wear 3 each time or pledge a life of celibacy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any particular brand prone to splitting"

Don't bother with textured or ribbed, they're weaker than the rest

They all start off the same thickness but any ribs and texture is pressed into them, meaning the areas between are much thinner than standard.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never!

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"anybody ever had this happen to them "

Happened to me once. We had a 4 sum at a club and I was shagging a lovely woman. We got up after being exhausted and realised what happened. She said "where's the other bit?" After searching inside herself for a while she eventually found it. We collapsed laughing but that was years ago and many tests later all been negative so it was ok. Funny at the time but oh............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet it hasn't... Thankfully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few slip off, but never split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death."

So you'll be dead now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death."

What, you're dead?

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

happened to me twice, and yes was scared after it had happened till I got the test results.

what I do now it wear two, put the first one on, cover it in deep heat, and put the other over the top, if the lady starts to scream, you know its split and time to pull out

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Be careful if using massage oil or baby oil or lotion as part of your play as the oils in them will rot the rubber in condoms.

It has even been suggested that the oils in lipstick can do so!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Nothing except no sex at all is safe lol!

condoms are not 100% & that's why all responsible adults engaging in swinging fun should have regular tests.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death."

you are not dead you wrote this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words of advice:

1. Baby oil (and some other oils) cause latex to split, so don't use any oils on yourselves before using a condom.

2. Stick to well-known brands and avoid cheap, lesser-known ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, its happened to me when I was on a solo meet. its worrying, but it happens im afraid. my hubby was understanding, after making the best of a bad situation by letting him clean me we booked an appointment to get checked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me few months and i was literally scared to death.

Bet you that's not true."

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

use some lube. Condoms can dry women out if you're going for a while, once the friction starts then they can tear quite easy. Not nice for the woman either, friction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times, which is why now I practice two forms of contraception - the pill and condoms as hate forking out twenty odd quid for the morning after pill when the GUM clinic is closed.

Also I have blood tests every three months and swabs every month when I am actively swinging. If one person is infected with a virus, I know I have a better chance of winning the who infected who argument.

A lot of effort of three minutes of bareback sex

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By *hropshire irishMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

Only happened once. It was at a meet with a couple who afterwards told me it was because she had a coil and it happens...presume it must have happened quite a bit to them?

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"It happens, if you realise after he ejaculates then it's upto you to get the necessary checks

Why only after the male ejaculates? He doesn't need to orgasm for STIs to be transferred or for the lady to fall pregnant.

crystal"

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"It happens, if you realise after he ejaculates then it's upto you to get the necessary checks

Why only after the male ejaculates? He doesn't need to orgasm for STIs to be transferred or for the lady to fall pregnant.

crystal"

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