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By *erseysideriders OP   Couple
over a year ago

wallasey

hi just wonderd wot thorts r ,new on here ,,put avatar pic up ,,n got txt from guy being vry nasty ,was so shocked I took pic down again ,thort I wud just share ,,,thanx

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

How did he get your number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean message, not text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just wonderd wot thorts r ,new on here ,,put avatar pic up ,,n got txt from guy being vry nasty ,was so shocked I took pic down again ,thort I wud just share ,,,thanx "

Block him. Ignore his comments and put your pic back up. There's lots of idiots on here but the genuinely good ones far outnumber them

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By *erseysideriders OP   Couple
over a year ago

wallasey

sorry I meant message on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had the same over xmas, jsut shrug it off, report and block.

as said, however, if its a text then you know who it is surely, unless you had your number on your profile, then thats your own fault, the world is full of arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it you mean my text that he sent you a private message.

And no its not right that it was abusive as there is not need for that sort of behavior from people.

I would block the guy report and move on as there are some real quality people on here.

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By *erseysideriders OP   Couple
over a year ago

wallasey

just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice and block him.

Put your avatar picture back on your profile ~ much better than using the silhouette x

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By *layfulposerMan
over a year ago

leicester

Youll always get the few trying to spoil it for the majority of genuine guys

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Ahh it was a private message on here. I can imagine that would've knocked your confidence but it says a lot more about him than you. The bloke is a prat and a loser - as others have said, block and move on.

There will be plenty of guys who will appreciate you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take no notice and block him.

Put your avatar picture back on your profile ~ much better than using the silhouette x"

shaddow, trolls do it to make themselves feel better about their own short comings.

dont worry, just put your avatar back up safe in the knowledge that you will probably be getting more action than they will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey just block him and forget him. There are loads of genuine guys on here and as a single female you make your choices. There are more single guys than women on here.

And can a give a little advice. Don't mean to be rude but the text speak in your profile and in forums can be a little annoying to some. 'so best to try and avoid using it. Happy swinging. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had the same over xmas, jsut shrug it off, report and block.

as said, however, if its a text then you know who it is surely, unless you had your number on your profile, then thats your own fault, the world is full of arseholes."

Wow really you guys had one too? Did the guy think by being abusive you both would come running for a meet with him.. Mr Hercules you lucky so in so I hope you both have a great 2014.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to f@!k off and delete then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had the same over xmas, jsut shrug it off, report and block.

as said, however, if its a text then you know who it is surely, unless you had your number on your profile, then thats your own fault, the world is full of arseholes.

Wow really you guys had one too? Did the guy think by being abusive you both would come running for a meet with him.. Mr Hercules you lucky so in so I hope you both have a great 2014. "

ah we have never had anything but positive comments about our pics in general, just the xmas ones we did.

one or two werent overly receptive to them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't it be great if you could have filters on your message to block arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,"

I know what you mean. I Have had a couple of people say nasty things about me in these forums about the way I look and I took half my pics off too. Sorry not much help am I

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but then some would explode with the build up of poo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,

I know what you mean. I Have had a couple of people say nasty things about me in these forums about the way I look and I took half my pics off too. Sorry not much help am I

X

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what the hell did they say about you guys? lol

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By *erseysideriders OP   Couple
over a year ago

wallasey

thank u every 1 will take on board wot u have told me 2 do ,vry much grateful ,happy swingin ,,xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,

I know what you mean. I Have had a couple of people say nasty things about me in these forums about the way I look and I took half my pics off too. Sorry not much help am I

X

what the hell did they say about you guys? lol"
I have bright red hair and it seems to be a problem to some. Took pics off where hair shows

X

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple tonight, they must have been on the festive booze.

Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,

I know what you mean. I Have had a couple of people say nasty things about me in these forums about the way I look and I took half my pics off too. Sorry not much help am I

X

what the hell did they say about you guys? lolI have bright red hair and it seems to be a problem to some. Took pics off where hair shows

X

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well if red hair is all they have to complain about, they are clutching at straws lol.

love red hair on a woman, very rock chick lol

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By *erseysideriders OP   Couple
over a year ago

wallasey

yes im red 2 ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes im red 2 , "

giggerty!

get that bloody pic back up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes im red 2 , "

Nowt wrong with red headsX

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I got called a ginger pensioner by a guy once. I think he said something like who wants to have sex with a ginge and no one wants to have sex with a pensioner. It made me laugh a lot and I am affectionately known in certain quarters as the ginger pensioner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurrah for redheads I've had some nasty abuse for no reason before from people I've never spoken to, its sad. It just shows how cowardly and insecure they are about themselves if they have to abuse others for their so called amusement, pathetic individuals, don't let them get to you, you're way better than they'll ever be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww Thanks everyone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called a ginger pensioner by a guy once. I think he said something like who wants to have sex with a ginge and no one wants to have sex with a pensioner. It made me laugh a lot and I am affectionately known in certain quarters as the ginger pensioner."

Glad you weren't affected. Anyway.

Your hair is lovely. You don't look like a pensioner either. That bloke must have been crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report n block... People like that ain't worth thinking about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same thing happen to me about the pic I have up now and have Always had up...so rude threw me for a loop. With the advice of the forums I kept it up, received an apology then blocked the idiot lol Just a terribly weird experience but people are rude and we'll never know why. Don't let it bother you

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By *amie0151Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"hi just wonderd wot thorts r ,new on here ,,put avatar pic up ,,n got txt from guy being vry nasty ,was so shocked I took pic down again ,thort I wud just share ,,,thanx "

Put your pic back up then block and report him

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"just feel so deflated ,sure nocks the confidence a bit ,"

Done let it get you you. He is the problem not you. Sadly you get idiots everywhere. I hope you reported him. Abuse is not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes im red 2 , "

Used to have a bright red slice through my hair

Just couldn't be arsed with the maintenance as I'm sure you girls know, red fades quickly, but I loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some strange people on this site. What kind of freak sends abuse to random strangers?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Take no notice and block him.

Put your avatar picture back on your profile ~ much better than using the silhouette x"

There will be numpties on here. Block them and take no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think your allowed to air your dirty laundry on the forums. Post is likely to be be removed , and you can even get a forum ban .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

put up whatever pic you like .. block the fuckwit and report ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse from having red hair??!' Crikey. It's my selling point lol.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"hi just wonderd wot thorts r ,new on here ,,put avatar pic up ,,n got txt from guy being vry nasty ,was so shocked I took pic down again ,thort I wud just share ,,,thanx

Block him. Ignore his comments and put your pic back up. There's lots of idiots on here but the genuinely good ones far outnumber them "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just wonderd wot thorts r ,new on here ,,put avatar pic up ,,n got txt from guy being vry nasty ,was so shocked I took pic down again ,thort I wud just share ,,,thanx

Block him. Ignore his comments and put your pic back up. There's lots of idiots on here but the genuinely good ones far outnumber them "

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Abuse from having red hair??!' Crikey. It's my selling point lol. "

I thought it was your bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abuse from having red hair??!' Crikey. It's my selling point lol.

I thought it was your bum "

Shhhh sweetie...spoilers

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Abuse from having red hair??!' Crikey. It's my selling point lol.

I thought it was your bum

Shhhh sweetie...spoilers "

*ahem* - profile pic

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