FabSwingers.com forum: Oh my god help please!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just found a family member had mailed me asking for a chat poss meet! What do I do help please!!!! Has this happened to you??? X

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

happens a fair bit if you don't want to block them

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Just delete the message and block them. simple. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and block. Easy peasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and try to forget about them.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Just block them.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Politely decline and block.

They don't know its you yet.

Unless they read the forums and put 2 & 2 together successfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block blockety block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely decline and block.

They don't know its you yet.

Unless they read the forums and put 2 & 2 together successfully "

Dam... that might just work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea ain't worried about that worried about looking t the person In the face it's a very close member of family and seen pics of her nude and doing dirty stuff!!! In shock! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckity fuck block asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U know ur gonna get some answers about this lol...

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Block - and change your Name and Avatar if your going to post about it in the Forums..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"Fuckity fuck block asap

lol...

Fuckity fuck, cock locked and ready to block !! Damn its from a woman.. What rhymes with minge

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

oh dear don't know what to say now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm off to green arrow land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

Oh heck, that makes it a slightly different problem. I assume she didn't realise it was you? Or suspect anything?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No she only seen body pics of me not face x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Yes I'm sure you'd like a mature woman to message you about a potential meet with your mother. For completely none gratifying reasons of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

Green arrow wins again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No it's nothing like that! How could You say that?! Obv I'm in a bit of shock jut want some advice that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No she only seen body pics of me not face x"

If she is your Mum from your profile I see no reason why sh would not have a good Idea who you are !!!

born NI moved Wilts, age ect

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

blocking is the only thing to do in this case

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Has anyone said block yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No she only seen body pics of me not face x

If she is your Mum from your profile I see no reason why sh would not have a good Idea who you are !!!

born NI moved Wilts, age ect "

Well that's what I though. She must have been slightly suspicious with all that information surely?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"No she only seen body pics of me not face x"

Well she bloody knows now you have posted this lol

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Bit worrying if your profile is true!!

You're a 30 year old from Northern Ireland now living in Wiltshire, if your real name is Gail I think she may already know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass in details on to me ill go and sort her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No she only seen body pics of me not face x

If she is your Mum from your profile I see no reason why sh would not have a good Idea who you are !!!

born NI moved Wilts, age ect

Well that's what I though. She must have been slightly suspicious with all that information surely?

I would be upset if my mum would not have recognised me from the details on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I think his secret is safe

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"No it's nothing like that! How could You say that?! Obv I'm in a bit of shock jut want some advice that's all "

Something to do with your post the other day about looking for a mature woman to take your 'lesbian virginity'.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"Just found a family member had mailed me asking for a chat poss meet! What do I do help please!!!! Has this happened to you??? X"
Just block them so they dont mail you again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No my real name ain't Gail, and wiltshire a big place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different and unusual way to come out to your immediate family I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm a natural reaction would more likely be to delete your account rather than shouting your problem in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No she only seen body pics of me not face x

If she is your Mum from your profile I see no reason why sh would not have a good Idea who you are !!!

born NI moved Wilts, age ect

Well that's what I though. She must have been slightly suspicious with all that information surely?

I would be upset if my mum would not have recognised me from the details on the profile "

lol true. I'd be more worried about packing my case and leaving the country on the first flight out of Wales if I thought my mum was on here

Mind you I am 49 and my mum is in her 70's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

Oh bless your heart! I can imagine the shock! Its difficult to know what to say to you but obviously she is an adult and entitled to a sex life too but of course you didnt want to see the details.

You really have two choices...try to put it to the back of your mind or talk to her. I probably wouldn't do the latter though....just let it rest for a while. At the moment you are in shock. Say and do nothing. Then when you are calm.....still say and do nothing! X

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Nah I think his secret is safe

this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No my real name ain't Gail, and wiltshire a big place! "

Maybe you should have a chat...you're bith obviously broad minded ppl..... you don't have to go into detail.....you're obviously upset at the thought of your mother being on the site..... but hey us older girls needs fun too

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No my real name ain't Gail, and wiltshire a big place! "

But the postcode will narrow that down and tell her roughtly how far away you are

Do you live at home?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

But are there a lot of 5'6" 30 year old northern irish women in Wiltshire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x

Oh heck, that makes it a slightly different problem. I assume she didn't realise it was you? Or suspect anything? "

Having read the OP's profile, she must know its her daughter. Would be a massive coincidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

asker if she going to have a FAB new year lol.

Yes might be best to talk it over a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No my real name ain't Gail, and wiltshire a big place!

But the postcode will narrow that down and tell her roughtly how far away you are

Do you live at home? "

Could be in the same room as there having a cheeky browse on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She knows who you are, as why would she mail you if she's still back in NI?

Probably tailored her search for this very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x

Oh heck, that makes it a slightly different problem. I assume she didn't realise it was you? Or suspect anything?

Having read the OP's profile, she must know its her daughter. Would be a massive coincidence."

Exactly what I thought afterwards! I would have deleted my profile in an instant and not post on an open forum where anyone can read what you wrote!

I'm out of this thread now!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if she reads the forum she knows its you now anyway you are both entitled to be on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

My daughter was on here.. well actually still has a profile just not been on... I know it's hard to un see things. I found my mums home videos at about 12 and still can shock me now.

But just block and if you plan to go to a club and you have kids get your mum to baby sit so there is no meeting.

My older daughter does know I have my profile on here.. we just would try to avoid each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

Just suck it up and chat with her, chances are she's guessed it may be you.

If that's the case here's the chance for you both to come clean with each other and put both your minds at rest.

After all, your not a little kid any more and can live your life as she's living hers!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just found a family member had mailed me asking for a chat poss meet! What do I do help please!!!! Has this happened to you??? X"

I could recognise my kids without a face picture ,

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Best to instantly delete your profile.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

"Best to instantly delete your profile."

if they had sussed you out.. would this not be the obvious thing they might expect you to do ??

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If I found my kids on here I would laugh and message them too..

I find it quite amusing the panic this is obviously causing.

If you are concerned about Mum having fun/sex with men or women chill out.. she is allowed.

Come on Mum post here tell us what you think

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If I found my kids on here I would laugh and message them too..

I find it quite amusing the panic this is obviously causing.

If you are concerned about Mum having fun/sex with men or women chill out.. she is allowed.

Come on Mum post here tell us what you think

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Hardly likely if the said mum is still married to her had lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Best to instantly delete your profile.

if they had sussed you out.. would this not be the obvious thing they might expect you to do ??

I have no idea just giving an option.

If her mum has seen her profile and reads Gail from Northern Ireland now living in Wilts... That may narrow it down to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really can't figure out why, if this is true, you would draw all this attention to yourself by posting on here about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i`d be scarred for life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Really can't figure out why, if this is true, you would draw all this attention to yourself by posting on here about it?"

and there you have it!

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

I really don't get the run around screaming in mad arm flapping panic that always seem to follow finding a father-mother-brother-sister-aunt-uncle-nephew-niece-cousin has a profile on this site....its not like your breaking the law by being here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be wondering why my mum was _iewing female profiles on this site ~ is she bisexual or does she have an idea that you're on here and is trying to find you......

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I really don't get the run around screaming in mad arm flapping panic that always seem to follow finding a father-mother-brother-sister-aunt-uncle-nephew-niece-cousin has a profile on this site....its not like your breaking the law by being here....

Ah but didnt you know..

Parents dont do sex...its only young people that shag .. Old people should sit at home and knit and babysit..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ah but didnt you know..

Parents dont do sex...its only young people that shag .. Old people should sit at home and knit and babysit..

My mum has a toyboy. Lucky mare is getting more than me at the mo!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ah but didnt you know..

Parents dont do sex...its only young people that shag .. Old people should sit at home and knit and babysit..

My mum has a toyboy. Lucky mare is getting more than me at the mo!"

well done your mum.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ah but didnt you know..

Parents dont do sex...its only young people that shag .. Old people should sit at home and knit and babysit..

My mum has a toyboy. Lucky mare is getting more than me at the mo!

well done your mum.

I know! Didn't know she had it in her to be honest (phnarr phnarr).

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You certainly can't pick your family.... But you can block them

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

Am I the only one who can smell bullshit or am i just being pesimistic?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Well having asked for help and replying that yes she /he wanted it.. seems they run off line mid PM.. odd..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You certainly can't pick your family.... But you can block them

Like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op wins best "look at me" forum post of 2013 surely, non of the single guys could get this responce.

10 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm betting the op profile is a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weirder and weirder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she knows its u, she will be as embarrassed as yourself

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Obviously the panic is over

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By *allblondeandsexyMan
over a year ago

Swiss Cottage

I think people are missing the point she doesn't care that she has a sex life she's freaked out the pics and profile wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it as a compliment, it would be handy having a meet with a family member, saves lots of hassle.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you have two options

1 hi mum i know thats you

2 block and move away

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By *eaton steeleMan
over a year ago

South Norwood

Just block the member in question and check there friends to see if you no them .lol

Regards

Seaton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always verify her, after all you've known her for 30 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea ain't worried about that worried about looking t the person In the face it's a very close member of family and seen pics of her nude and doing dirty stuff!!! In shock! X

Is she nice?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I've changed my avatar! Just need advice on what to do! It was my mother! Some inbox me please preferably a mature mother as need a chat x"

My daughter is in her 30s and she is on a site like this - though not on here, I don't think. She, like me, also has an fb. We do talk about things but obviously not in detail.

Would I be shocked if I saw her and some intimate pics? No. But I would certainly keep it to myself.

Be please that your mother is having fun and is able to express her sexuality. And remember that she is a grown up too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea ain't worried about that worried about looking t the person In the face it's a very close member of family and seen pics of her nude and doing dirty stuff!!! In shock! X

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lol wash your eyes out with bleach

Lol

the cRypT kEePeR -|-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's there username so we can all take a look

tHe cRyPt kEePer -|-

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Just seen your post.

Hope you're ok and had chance to chat with someone.

I am someone's mum but I will carry on having sex for years x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"you have two options

1 hi mum i know thats you

2 block and move away "

3 leave a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

x."

It was her mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

It was her mother

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Ah yes and I wouldnt mind that either

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

It was her mother

Ah yes and I wouldnt mind that either

With your own mother?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

It was her mother

Ah yes and I wouldnt mind that either

Have you got 6 fingers by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it hun we're on here for the same thing! They'd be just as shocked if they'd seen u! Just like everyone says decline...block and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt mind having sex with them if they were on this site. I would tell them, can you keep a secret? if yes, then lets have sex with not anyone knowing

It was her mother

Ah yes and I wouldnt mind that either

With your own mother?"
No prob more with another ones mother,

and no I got 5 fingers lol.

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