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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I don't drink and have no interest in it. I don't mind drinkers as long as they can handle themselves and don't expect me to babysit them cause they are bladdered.

Just wondered how many people have a bit of 'Dutch Courage' before a meet to settle their nerves & could you manage a meet without having an alcoholic drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm Choose between Beer and a Woman..

I'l get back to ya on that one

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll drink to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i very rarely drink.

used to be able to drink anything, but now the smell of the top shelf makes me ill.

not a fan of the taste of lagers or bitter.

like some ales, but not many

mainly have a shandy if im out on a meet.

V is irish, make of that what you will lol.

so no, no need for Dutch courage, as i have Ducth blood lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't drink on a meet( apart from fb) and prefer them not to either. But I don't drink much or often anyway .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My first meet on here I didn't drink beforehand but it was a party and I drank a fair bit there! The guy was lovely and looked after me and we met a few more times after that so I couldn't of been that bad!!

The 2 times I've been to eureka I've had a few. But not to the point where I don't know what I'm doing! Try to pace myself over the course of the night.

But even on a vanilla night out I like to have a couple to get me in the party mood. I could abstain though If the person I was meeting preferred me not to (although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol)

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol... "

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a glass of wine when I met my last meet for the first time then when I went to his last sat we got a bit d*unk but not falling over just happy was a good night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a drink BUT the best meets from a purely sexual perspective have been stone cold sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to have one before a meet, as a dutch courage. But then I had a totally sober meet, and things were so much better that I don't bother anymore. I'll have a drink or two during a meet if its a long session. But don't like to turn up merry anymore.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

i like a drink but dont bother when having a meet once met a cpl but the lady was tha d*unk before i got there could never have gave her concent so i made my excuses & went home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think if you NEED a drink to indulge, perhaps you should not be doing it........

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol...

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone "

No probs. and yes I'm def naughtier after a few. Doesn't matter so much with people I know very well im ok then but new meets it's def helps! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sensible advice.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I def don't need it as Dutch courage to actually meet though, never gone on a meet after a few drinks, just have them during x

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

The odd glass of wine and I have to say most folks we've met don't tend to drink much to get very naughty.

For me I like to be able to remember being taken to heaven lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need a drink before I meet someone however I did get rather d*unk before I went to ab fabs for the 1st time as I had no idea what to expect & yes I think it did help lose those inhibitions.

Would add tho the guy I went with was sober ~ I wouldn't have drank that amount had I gone on my own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a fine line between being d*unk and being tipsy, always sober when meeting ... If we all choose to have a drink after meeting then so be it. I have got giddy with a few ladies off here, and we have laughed giggled and had good fun. But I'm guessing alcohol loosens inibitions, intensifies the hornyness.. Gives a little dutch courage Yes....

But no we don't need it, it's just a social thing... Well for us anyway.

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By *pritzMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

if it's a 1-2-1 meet i like to go out for a drink first, but that's it. 1 drink, maybe 2, no more.

on a party it helps to relax and i blend in more easily as i get more chatty to people, plus it's always a good laugh.

i promised myself not to exaggerate anymore after i got a bit d*unk and then went back to my hotel room with a girl, fucked her with no condom and couldn't even cum after she spent a good amount of time sucking my cock and licking my balls, something i usually can't resist... she became a good friend and we still laugh at that some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once had dutch courage, that was my first ever meet. Now I feel relaxed enough with a person before meeting them, so no longer need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a drink but do not feel the need for any dutch courage before a meet so always swing sober!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had one small bottle during a meet and nothing beforehand. Its good to know you can just up and leave if nothing feels right and you aren't enjoying, etc. Yet from a personal point of view it can be a downer too as there's nothing to get rid of them darn nerves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a drink every now and again, but never in a swinging context. Be that a meet, swingers club or party. Always completely sober then. X

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"... But I'm guessing alcohol loosens inibitions, intensifies the hornyness.. Gives a little dutch courage Yes..."

I can understand the loss of inhibitions and being trying stuff you may not when sober but does it really intensify horniness or make you numb to it

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i like a drink because swinging is like socialising to me, never too much and i wouldn't say I need one- i just enjoy it. It relaxes me, but have met stone cold sober too. Master rarely drinks if we're playing. Each to their own.

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the male half almost always drive I do so she can have a glass of wine or two not to relax so to speak. More because I am really not that fussed about drinking anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting a fella as a single I either don't drink, have one glass or just a cuppa. It's different when I meet couples with my OH, we generally do have a few glasses then. Not too much though, just enough to be sociable.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Most of the meets I've had were in the day time, and more often than not in the morning, so no I don't generally drink before/during a meet. If I did have alcohol before or during a meet it would simply be because I fancied it rather than to lower inhibitions. It would put me off if my meet turned up smelling of a distillery and then drank all my wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... But I'm guessing alcohol loosens inibitions, intensifies the hornyness.. Gives a little dutch courage Yes...

I can understand the loss of inhibitions and being trying stuff you may not when sober but does it really intensify horniness or make you numb to it "

It makes me extremley horny, if I'm on a night out, with the girls, I often txt the other half, telling him of my intentions when I get home he usually txts back saying just don't forget the kebab!

D*unk= numbness, and a struggle if not inability to cum...

Tipsy= fun, much naughtiness hence like I said a fine line. Yes I get where you are coming from..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol...

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone

No probs. and yes I'm def naughtier after a few. Doesn't matter so much with people I know very well im ok then but new meets it's def helps! Lol x"

I'll be bringing a few bottles of wine in June then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't drink and have no interest in it. I don't mind drinkers as long as they can handle themselves and don't expect me to babysit them cause they are bladdered.

Just wondered how many people have a bit of 'Dutch Courage' before a meet to settle their nerves & could you manage a meet without having an alcoholic drink "

When I first started on here I needed Dutch courage, but not so much now.. However I do like a glass of wine or 2 if it's an all nighter

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"... D*unk= numbness, and a struggle if not inability to cum...

Tipsy= fun, much naughtiness hence like I said a fine line. Yes I get where you are coming from..."

Think this answers my question about what alcohol does for people on a meet though i accept everyone is different

Though i like Mr Fockers response to your messages. A man just as bad as me - stomach first

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol...

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone

No probs. and yes I'm def naughtier after a few. Doesn't matter so much with people I know very well im ok then but new meets it's def helps! Lol x

I'll be bringing a few bottles of wine in June then x"

Not wine unless you want me to puke then pass out!! Lol. You've seen me after a 12 hour drinking session anyway. Hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol...

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone

No probs. and yes I'm def naughtier after a few. Doesn't matter so much with people I know very well im ok then but new meets it's def helps! Lol x

I'll be bringing a few bottles of wine in June then x

Not wine unless you want me to puke then pass out!! Lol. You've seen me after a 12 hour drinking session anyway. Hehe xx "

Just vodka then x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"... although I am much more uninhibited when I've had a couple lol...

Thanks HB & sorry for partially quoting but this is the point i was trying to make or question.

Do fabsters feel they need a drink to lose their inhibitions or are there those who don't necessarily need a few to lose themselves with someone

No probs. and yes I'm def naughtier after a few. Doesn't matter so much with people I know very well im ok then but new meets it's def helps! Lol x

I'll be bringing a few bottles of wine in June then x

Not wine unless you want me to puke then pass out!! Lol. You've seen me after a 12 hour drinking session anyway. Hehe xx

Just vodka then x"

Jack Daniels!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont need it. I more often than not am driving anyway.

Dont mind others having a drink but if they are wasted its a turn off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never need a drink to get down and dirty! Saying that I do like 1 or 2 J.D. & s every once in a while! But no I don't need it to lose my inhibitions!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink because I suffer very bad with anxiety and it doesn't mix with my tablets however for the first time in 18 months I'm having a drink tonight and I'm sat on the toilet looking at fab. And I'm very d*unk haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We walked away from a meet because the couple were too d*unk. It worries me that a d*unk yes could turn into a sober no. Much rather someone makes the decision to play with us when they have their wits about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a drink since July, I won't even have one on my birthday

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

We love a drink when we go out but usually not at all when on meets. Have had a couple of bad experiences with fems getting wasted on meets and that puts us off big time. We dont mind people drinking in moderation on meets but if you need to be wasted would you actually remember what you got up to the night befor. Bit of juice for the misses usually and squash or energy drink for me. Definitely doesn't stop us having fun if the feelings right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i said I love you? she said is that the beer talking or you I said?thats me taking to the beer

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

doncaster


"So i said I love you? she said is that the beer talking or you I said?thats me taking to the beer "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my social meets are over coffee.

Those that aren't I typically drive to so I might have one drink at the meet

I wouldn't like to meet an intoxicated woman who then wanted play. In my opinion, how can the woman give you her consent if she's intoxicated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my social meets are over coffee.

Those that aren't I typically drive to so I might have one drink at the meet

I wouldn't like to meet an intoxicated woman who then wanted play. In my opinion, how can the woman give you her consent if she's intoxicated?"

I think that goes for anyone. With a lot of alcohol the dynamics have the potential to change very quick. concern that hubby might change his mind on wanting to see his wife fucked for a start..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a glass of wine whilst im getting ready (music blaring too) and ill have a glass or two of wine with a meet as we are chatting. flirting ect but i dont get d*unk.

Ive been there done that and i cant handle the hangover the next day!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I don't drink and have no interest in it. I don't mind drinkers as long as they can handle themselves and don't expect me to babysit them cause they are bladdered.

Just wondered how many people have a bit of 'Dutch Courage' before a meet to settle their nerves & could you manage a meet without having an alcoholic drink "

I never drink before or during a meet. Or after if it comes to that.

I don;t want it to affect my 'performance'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm Choose between Beer and a Woman..

I'l get back to ya on that one

Gary"

It's definitely in the following order

Beer

Motorcycles ( not at same time. As beer)

Cars ( not at same time as beer)

Tv series walking dead with or without beer

Women with or without beer

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Some interesting thoughts, cheers girls and guys

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I never drink. I was very worried when a guy told me he expected me to drink on a meet. I said I wouldn't. He said I had to to lose my inhibitions. I said I didn't need to drink to have a good time. Then he became quite forceful about it. Obviously decided at this point he was not the guy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i very rarely drink ever and not on any meets....a previous fb of mine and i did at times but we were very familiar.

the last two meets i've had (same person) she drank on both occasions as we met in her local. it doesent particularly bother me as she never once came across as d*unk...drink is fine, d*unk is not in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never drink. I was very worried when a guy told me he expected me to drink on a meet. I said I wouldn't. He said I had to to lose my inhibitions. I said I didn't need to drink to have a good time. Then he became quite forceful about it. Obviously decided at this point he was not the guy for me "

Hmm like an expectation that surely you wouldn't do what he wanted without a drink glad you walked away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never drink before a meet usually because I'm driving but mostly I wouldn't want a meet to go sower because I had alcohol on my breath.

The only thing I drink on a meet is coffee x

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I never drink. I was very worried when a guy told me he expected me to drink on a meet. I said I wouldn't. He said I had to to lose my inhibitions. I said I didn't need to drink to have a good time. Then he became quite forceful about it. Obviously decided at this point he was not the guy for me "

well done for telling hom to sod off

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