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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding just lately we get loads of interest for meets (well meet for fucking). When the kids are at home. I'm not sure about having anyone round while there asleep. I know people do. And mr would but I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on you and how you feel about it. I meet with my lil one at home, but i dont do couples, only single men, i only use lounge if lil one is asleep upstairs, and have lock on the door, and i wouldnt even consider it if lil one wasnt settled, i am also very honest about the situation. No doubt as lil one gets older this will change.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do it in a million yrs..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't have kids so I can't give a properly informed answer but I very much hope I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're unsure then def don't , it wouldn't feel right and would spoil any potential fun you may have.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't!

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope,,Each to their own as they say but ive been known to politely refuse when a Lady had Children in the House

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely definitely not, no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More relaxed when your not listening out for the kids surely ? Hotels look like fun from pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have kids, but i wouldnt.

imagine all getting carried away in the lounge and little johnny wakes up with a nightmare, or wanting a glass of water.

little johnny will be having nightmares of mummy being bent over the back of the sofa by some random bloke, whilst daddy has his face sat on in front of the tv....

bet that aint in many parenting books lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet anyone at there home if the kids were in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding just lately we get loads of interest for meets (well meet for fucking). When the kids are at home. I'm not sure about having anyone round while there asleep. I know people do. And mr would but I'm not sure."

No, I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone at there home if the kids were in bed "

^^^ this. I wouldn't be able to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have kids but no chance, not only due to what they could see or hear but the risk of having total strangers in the house or knowing where I lived.

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By *airymusclesMan
over a year ago

scotland

The fact youre even questioning this says to me,NO it obviously isnt sitting well with you!

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By *ovable roguesCouple
over a year ago

GATESHEAD

only you know your kids so only you can decide ppl may have their own bits of advice but the only advise anyone ever listens too is your own advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No my child is either at her grandparents, or school, work round things , there proberly nothing more frightening for a child, to witness that

Nette

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

No def not for me but each to their own

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I used to have my fb here when my lad was asleep but he was in a cot so there was no chance of him waking and walking in.

Now he's in a proper bed there is no way (unless it was a long term fb again but they would have to understand that if my son woke poorly or whatever they would have to leave)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had an offer to meet whilst somebody's kids were asleep upstairs. We politely declined, not for us at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have any children but if i did, no way would i hv strangers round for sex whilst their in bed. Its not right or fair on the children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I would do and wouldn't meet someone if I knew Thier kids were there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Made my mind up. Not gonna happen. They will have to wait..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys. Made my mind up. Not gonna happen. They will have to wait..x "

i would have hoped your mind was already made up before you posted this, you were ust looking for reassurance you had made the right choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're child comes first I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't in a million years. Your primary role as a parent is to safeguard your children. I'm sure you don't need reminding of that fact -these are strangers you are inviting into your house. No brainer really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt be comfy. My sons are late teens and I am still cautious about dad being caught "hangin out the back "of someone.

Door bolted and chained just in case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never entertain having a virtual stranger in my house let alone when the most precious people in my life were tucked up in bed..!

Get a hotel room, share the cost, more fun for you and keeps the children's house as it should be ~ a home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys. Made my mind up. Not gonna happen. They will have to wait..x "

Very good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never entertain having a virtual stranger in my house let alone when the most precious people in my life were tucked up in bed..!

Get a hotel room, share the cost, more fun for you and keeps the children's house as it should be ~ a home."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.

The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.

The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.

The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).

Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.

This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.

So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.

After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.

Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.

It's not what happened, but it does happen.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to admit, we had a social meet with a couple that had their kids out with them (couldnt get a sitter) so there was no swing business discussed.

it was just friends meeting for a drink.

was lovely knowing there was absolutely nothing going to happen so no pressure to worry about things later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.

The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.

The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.

The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).

Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.

This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.

So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.

After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.

Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.

It's not what happened, but it does happen.

Silk"

It's not *right what happened I was meant to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.

The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.

The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.

The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).

Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.

This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.

So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.

After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.

Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.

It's not right what happened, but it does happen.

Silk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Children are only children a short time. Let them have the childhood.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Good god no

I don't even have anyone over when they are not here. I keep my persobal life and sex life separate at all times. My regular fb doesn't even know where I live. I trust him completely

I just ccouldn't look my kids in the eye knowing the things I would get up to in their home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope nope nope, i only meet when my son is at his dads over night.

i would never forgive myself if my son woke up

my little ones needs are way before my need for nookie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it but didn't feel 100% comfortable if im honest

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

our kids all grown up but we definitely wouldnt have played with them in house but we maybe old fashioned lol

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By *obbyCock36Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"It totally depends on you and how you feel about it. I meet with my lil one at home, but i dont do couples, only single men, i only use lounge if lil one is asleep upstairs, and have lock on the door, and i wouldnt even consider it if lil one wasnt settled, i am also very honest about the situation. No doubt as lil one gets older this will change. "

sounds completely reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but only With Someone i Know very very well. like a fb or Friend. I dont even like random meets at mine when my Kids are Not even here doesnt feel right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO WAY am i bringing a guy from a site back to mine if my kid is home! I can't believe people do that. A guy once told me he met a woman from here in her car for the first time and she had her two kids in the back seat. They went back to hers. Just can't undertand why a woman would run the risk of bringing a virtual stranger into her child's company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

For a start I would not be able to relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go to someone's house to play knowing there were kids there...I wouldn't be able to relax so wouldn't enjoy myself so I just don't entertain it

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