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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is the best, a bad kisser is terrible!

It can be fun to deny a kiss sometimes whilst playing but to ban it totally seems a real shame..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I very much like kissing but have met a couple where the lady didn't kiss, but it too was really good sex. I'd rather kiss than not but I wouldn't turn down a meet because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We decided we wouldnt do the kissing thing when we started, changed that after the first meet as it just wasnt right without it, without it seemed almost clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing..absolutely love it...helps me feel closer to the person and gets me turned on..nothing worse than a sloppy kisser though...I remember kissing one bloke and it was like a big wet slimy slug was in my mouth..was retching after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this strange as well, considering all sorts of other things end up mouths. Maybe they associate it with romance more than a sexual thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me its all part of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing ....perfect build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples choose to keep it for themselves... What's hard to understand... It's there choice..

I love to watch lee kiss the ladies we play with but can take it or leave it with the guys when it comes to myself... I love lee kissing me.. I love to kiss the other ladies.. I just tend to not always kiss the other guys.

Cali

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place "

Done the sex without kissing once. Never again.

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By *iganflirtMan
over a year ago

wigan

Massive part of any meet is the flirting teasing & kissing for me. But I don't think it would be appropriate in a gangbang situation.

Matt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, start of foreplay for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place

Done the sex without kissing once. Never again. "

I met one man years ago who obviously wasn't really into kissing and it all felt a bit too clinical and cold for me. Never again here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!! "

I actually often don't have oral on me for that reason... But for me it comes down to a trust aspect... So kissing does take more for me than any other aspect of sex x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

never not kissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing arouses and stimulates. Without it it wouldn't work. To let my whole body respond but hold back on my mouth... impossible for me.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.

We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.

We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."

I respect others' preferences - but especially the above one I cannot share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Kissing then it goes no further, Kissing is so important in connecting with a Lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it is rarely even questioned when I "cali" doesn't kiss or kisses very limitedly.. and before I partnered up with lee I just didn't kiss.. yet can happily just kiss each other for ages... Although lee does like to see me kissing... So I won't totally avoid it.

However we tend to mostly play in clubs with groups or with couples and can't say it's a problem.. the irony here is that if a woman doesn't want to kiss lee or her partner wont let her it totally spoils it for me...

But my point is that so many guys are saying it's important.. yet I can count on my fingers the times I've actually had a guy try to kiss me during a play session... But I guess as I haven't done meets really outside of clubs, or one on one meets ( lee is my exception) it's a bit different..

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i can understand it and we'd always respect others boundaries/choices. However we both enjoy a good kiss, with each other or others. He loves watching me kiss another girl

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can understand it and we'd always respect others boundaries/choices. However we both enjoy a good kiss, with each other or others. He loves watching me kiss another girl

Ruby x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must. It sets the scene. Xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can understand it and we'd always respect others boundaries/choices. However we both enjoy a good kiss, with each other or others. He loves watching me kiss another girl

Ruby x"

with tongues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We decided we wouldnt do the kissing thing when we started, changed that after the first meet as it just wasnt right without it, without it seemed almost clinical "

agree with this.

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

A meet ain't a meet without kissing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.

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By *HEFFUN78Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We just couldn't play without, kissing is a part of foreplay to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be worried about kissing without thinking

Kissing is a must for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol. "

did you have a mouthful of cum at the time, cali? lol

we met with a couple, didnt know they didnt kiss until we went to kiss them, and they each turned their faces away.

very off putting and feels a little robotic, like there is no connection.

its the being close, looking in their eyes and seeing lust.

maybe you just have met blokes that are only interested in hiding the pickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.

did you have a mouthful of cum at the time, cali? lol

we met with a couple, didnt know they didnt kiss until we went to kiss them, and they each turned their faces away.

very off putting and feels a little robotic, like there is no connection.

its the being close, looking in their eyes and seeing lust.

maybe you just have met blokes that are only interested in hiding the pickle."

Lol nooo don't think I had Cum on my face.. see I love the way ladies kiss lee.. I love the way he kisses me.. I have to be fair found the guys that have kissed me made it Ewww.. tongues straight down my throat etc.. or sucking my face off.. I still find that most guys in couples don't want to kiss me... Although I've seen a few bad reactions to lee kissing the ladies..

I have found I love a 3 way kiss though.. me and the lady kissing.. then one of us kissing lee etc..

But as I said I'm getting over some huge issues for me and till this year I didn't kiss... But it's a learning curve for me.. and life is a grand adventure and I'm exploring it with fantastic company xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me. It is so erotic. As foreplay is more important than penetration in terms of real enjoyment of a meet for me, then meeting without kissing would seriously limit my pleasure.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I live to kiss, can't imagine a meet without it. I'm bi and love to kiss men as well as women,feels lovely and different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw I love to kiss leexx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for me. It is so erotic. As foreplay is more important than penetration in terms of real enjoyment of a meet for me, then meeting without kissing would seriously limit my pleasure. "

You know it's going go sound dumb but I just realised something.. foreplay when playing with another couple or in a group tends to be done with your own partner.. so I'm guessing that by the time I start with another guy.. foreplay is about done..

Thank you... You may just have helped me realise something that could be an important point to me xx

Cali

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Oh I love a good snogg

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Each to their own. I respect peoples boundaries & i understand some find kissing as very intimate but i do enjoy a good tongue whilst being fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, kissing is very personal and intimate - we kissed each other on our wedding day to seal our love, so will always keep it just for us.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Love kissing, I too have had meets without it and it just isn't right

There's something about kissing at the same time as fucking someone that just massively enhances the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iagree. It would be weird to meet and not kiss!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

have one fb with the most incredible lips sooooo kissable

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I totally adore kissing and it's right at number one in my list but can appreciate some find it abit too personal. For me, you can express so many feelings and emotions through a single kiss. Love it

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Kissing is an important part of sex a good kisser can have you turned on making you craving sex even if its then just a quickie

So im def all for kisding xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for me its all part of foreplay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwahh! I adore kissing, one of the sexiest turn ons when a guy grabs the back of your head and pulls you in for that first kiss.....oh and a lady too x

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

I luv kissing, don't understand clinical sex, kissing is very much part of the foreplay for me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwahh! I adore kissing, one of the sexiest turn ons when a guy grabs the back of your head and pulls you in for that first kiss.....oh and a lady too x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I love kissing too... Iv had women say I could tell the sex would be good just the way you kiss... A kiss or a snogothon is the best turn on in the world..... I suppose I could have sex without it but it just wunt feel right. I love the intimacy involve.... But understand in a gb or a dogging sesh etc it just wouldnt be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about the rest of you who love kissing but this thread has made me feel quite horny. Especially after a quick peak at some of the profiles of the ladies and couples waxing lyrical about kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have said that we save kissing to ourselves and have found couples we have met feel the same. Theres nothing more of a turn on than watching MrsLeics with another woman.

We have relaxed a bit and don't mind sensual kissing, neck, shoulders etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us, kissing is very personal and intimate - we kissed each other on our wedding day to seal our love, so will always keep it just for us."

Not wanting to be crude, but you will have celebrated your wedding night in the usual fashion to seal etc, and....?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

The snog test is an integral part of my selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must, it help put people at ease and also is a big turn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A peck on the cheek hello in public, but full on kissing is a must in private, it turns me on

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I hate it when during passionate play you suddenly find out they don't kiss you as part of the whole thing. It makes me feel uncomfy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when during passionate play you suddenly find out they don't kiss you as part of the whole thing. It makes me feel uncomfy.

"

Rhankfully that's never happened but god I'd hate it

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

It makes me feel uncomfy and un important in the play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes me feel uncomfy and un important in the play."

Aww not good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a good snog "

Need a good snog or else couldn't do anything else

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I need a good kissing session x

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I absolutely adore kissing, especially on the lips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love love love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a meet to just kiss and nothing else.

...i love it! A good kiss dictates the night i believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too love kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.

We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."

I'm not struggling with it, just find it a bit strange that's all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found it is rarely even questioned when I "cali" doesn't kiss or kisses very limitedly.. and before I partnered up with lee I just didn't kiss.. yet can happily just kiss each other for ages... Although lee does like to see me kissing... So I won't totally avoid it.

However we tend to mostly play in clubs with groups or with couples and can't say it's a problem.. the irony here is that if a woman doesn't want to kiss lee or her partner wont let her it totally spoils it for me...

But my point is that so many guys are saying it's important.. yet I can count on my fingers the times I've actually had a guy try to kiss me during a play session... But I guess as I haven't done meets really outside of clubs, or one on one meets ( lee is my exception) it's a bit different..

"

I kind of understand that a club situation would be a bit different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The snog test is an integral part of my selection process. "

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I also like to kiss just after giving or receiving oral.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course I understand that everyone has preferences and respect that totally. But I just love a guy (or girl) who knows how to give a good long snog lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is just so important to me

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By *ralNewBiMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Kissing is just a sin if you don't do it plus it helps me to relax when I meet some one new but that's my opinion

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

This topic comes up alot and we even added a line in our profile to state is a big part of playing. We couldn't beleive people actually don't kiss on a meet, but each to their own.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.

We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept.

I'm not struggling with it, just find it a bit strange that's all!"

What, strange that I don't fancy kissing three or four guys in a bi group session? It's not a scenario that requires intimacy so kissing just isn't on the agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the kissing, I love how everyone does it different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol. "

In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.

In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs"

Guess that could be it but also foreplay is pretty much done with in clubs... Or in my case lee and I tend to start with one another then swap over or start to share... I often kiss the lady,lee always kisses the lady.. just the guy rarely kisses me.. or if he does I tend not to do so for long as for a start I cant watch and kiss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me is a very important part of the connection with who I'm having fun with, in fact I can't imagine how it would be fun without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing for me is a very important part of the connection with who I'm having fun with, in fact I can't imagine how it would be fun without it "

I think it may be different if your playing one on one or totally swapping.. rather than playing as a group.. as I said I have found recently 3way kisses with lee and another lady very sexy.. it's just kissing the other guy I seem to not do much. Xx

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.

However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.

In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs"

In that case she would fail the snog test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In that case she would fail the snog test. "

I've found my mouth around a guys cock seems to bypass that test

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"

In that case she would fail the snog test.

I've found my mouth around a guys cock seems to bypass that test "

There is no bypass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In that case she would fail the snog test.

I've found my mouth around a guys cock seems to bypass that test

There is no bypass"

But as I only meet in clubs I don't need the test.. as I just tend to kiss lee for ages mmmmm

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i dont and never will kiss guys ...it simple sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well Im the best kisser to have ever existed (I have references) but it would depend on the meet type for me

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"For us, kissing is very personal and intimate - we kissed each other on our wedding day to seal our love, so will always keep it just for us."

Nearly pissed myself reading that

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I have rarely found anyone I like kissing, or like their style of kissing might be a better way to put it. So I wouldn't be bothered if someone didn't want to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing..absolutely love it...helps me feel closer to the person and gets me turned on.."

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when during passionate play you suddenly find out they don't kiss you as part of the whole thing. It makes me feel uncomfy.

"
same goes for me. Sex includes lots of smooching in my book even with strangers. I can handle it if the lady of a couple is cool on the subject if she is with her man but would not be chuffed in a one to one if there was no kissing.

If shes a smoker c'est la vie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.

We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."

It depends on the meet for me. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Doesn't bother me either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "

Yes I agree with this I would find it harder to get in the mood without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kissing .... Then no Willy . End of

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place

Done the sex without kissing once. Never again.

I met one man years ago who obviously wasn't really into kissing and it all felt a bit too clinical and cold for me. Never again here too!"

And a third here too. He was pretty much perfection in every other way but I just couldn't get my head round the no kissing so there was no rematch despite his trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Enjoy kissing..apart from anything else it keeps em quiet for a couple of Minutes

Gary

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"no kissing .... Then no Willy . End of"

This

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"For us, kissing is very personal and intimate - we kissed each other on our wedding day to seal our love, so will always keep it just for us."

What a bizarre statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could so do with one today. Miss the feel of a gorgeous pair of lips on mine..it's been a while.

...anyone close to London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "

I don't understand that either.

I too adore kissing (if they can kiss properly, you will be surprised) and can get turned just by kissing. However I would not kiss if I could smell halitosis!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel cheap without kissing. As if I'd be only good enough for giving relief.

So the person above who said he'd postpone the kissing just in case she'd say 'no' - the sooner you find out the better.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester


"A meet ain't a meet without kissing..."

And boy you kiss so well x

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

We like to keep our kissing for each other. Just that one thing.

I'd say most people prefer to kiss but it hasn't ever been a problem for us regarding meets/play.

I (fem) do kiss women as its a turn on for us both. Just not the opposite sex.

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