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I just don't get that wet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner mentioned the other day that I don't seem to get very wet when aroused compared to others he's been with.

Tbh I thought nothing of it at the time.

I have the normal pussy moisture most of the time but really I don't get any wetter.

Since then it's played on my mind a bit...

We have to use lube almost every time we have sex (he's a big boy anyway) and if I'm playing with myself the natural lubricant dries off after a couple of mins so usually have to use a bit of lube for tickling the pickle too.

So do women out there really get to dripping point when turned on? Is it just a myth that women get soaked or is it just a case of a little more damp than usual?

Is there anyone else out there that notices little difference between their natural moisture and their level of wetness when turned on?

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By *airymusclesMan
over a year ago

scotland

Im a man,obviously,but from my experiences,everyone is different,and i know for a fact one ex did have this same prob,i always took it personally thinking she just didnt quite get turned on by me? But i have to say its all relative,i do rem one girl being so wet it wasnt great for the ' required friction ' so to speak,but its normal is what i am saying? Prob no help at all,but hey ho!

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By *havedc0ckMan
over a year ago

Stonehouse

Hi, dont worry about it as it will only be on your mind every time you have sex.

One of my ex's was similar to you and needed lube to have sex.

Everyone is different to each other, size, wetness etc.. so just enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im a man,obviously,but from my experiences,everyone is different,and i know for a fact one ex did have this same prob,i always took it personally thinking she just didnt quite get turned on by me? But i have to say its all relative,i do rem one girl being so wet it wasnt great for the ' required friction ' so to speak,but its normal is what i am saying? Prob no help at all,but hey ho!"

Yeah, nothing worse than too much lubrication!

Unless its anal, the more lube the better! ouchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to reply privately but can't ! Hmpffff

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Some women get drier with age I cant see your profile so cant see your age.

If everything works and you enjoy it whats the prob.... If you dint use lube one or both might get saw... If lubes no good a little oral might help salivas a great lube

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a rare thing, different people have different natural lubrication. I am the same and have to use lube after a while otherwise my penis becomes sore and aggregated.

Don't let it play on your mind, that in itself could make natural lubrication slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with ladies who get soaked . Some who just got wet and some who got wet when they had a orgasm but was not wet before that . Every lady is different and thats what makes you unique . So don't let it worry you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, profile has been hidden cause we're not really meeting atm. Working too much Will unhide it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is different . dont worry about it

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I bet you get a million fabs n messages now..... Amazing bod mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All woman are different, as we get older things can decline, however it won't stop you having a good shafting, concentrate on that and enjoy.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All woman are different, as we get older things can decline, however it won't stop you having a good shafting, concentrate on that and enjoy.

Nette "

Jesus, I'm only 22, I'll be as dry as the sahara by the time I'm 30!

Lol, I think it's just the way I am, nothing to do with age I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All woman are different, as we get older things can decline, however it won't stop you having a good shafting, concentrate on that and enjoy.

Nette

Jesus, I'm only 22, I'll be as dry as the sahara by the time I'm 30!lol sorry love didn't look at your age,in that case it could be just a phase thing.

Nette

Lol, I think it's just the way I am, nothing to do with age I don't think."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to reply privately but can't ! Hmpffff "

Same here...lol

I had the same problem when i was taking certain medication...if you take anything regularly then this could be the cause, so it could be worth mentioning to your GP...im glad i did as it transformed my sex life and libido after what i feel were the dessert years lol...then again it could have been that my ex was really cack in the sack and once he bogged off i was way better off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine gets wet but not enough, have to use tons of lube, its always been the same, only worse now im older.

i have to keep stopping to put more lube on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the time of the month for me too, I don't have periods but have found that there are certain times when I am not as wet as other times of the month.

I do get wet but get friction burn so maybe I'm not as wet as others, or it is because I'm small x

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wiggles is always soaking, been together 16 years, never used lube.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I agree with the time of the month reply as it happens to me too, however everyone is different and as long as you can still enjoyed sex even though you have to use lube it really doesn`t metter, personally I probably get too wet at times and that also has its own problems.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you on the pill? That can have an effect.

If not don't worry about it, maybe try drinking a little more water.

Also take no notice of the threads on here where women have to take shower curtains to bed with them and all the men are telling them that they love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was a teenager i always used to carry a tube of ky jelly in my handbag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get wetter as I get older. There's hope for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to use lots of lube when i masturbate, when i use my rabbit vibrator, or my finger.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I often don't make as much lubrication as I need. This morning for example I was thinking of what is to come so used my fingers to arouse myself. With a little help from stories in my head I found myself very wet. When I orgasmed I was even wetter.

Often after having sex once I can get dry although I am aroused so use lube. I hope the guy I am playing with doesn't feel that its because I am not aroused. Its just my body needs extea work with fingers inside me to get me very wet.

To the op...don't worry. If you need lube make it work in part of your seduction tactics. Hold the bottle above you and gently squeeze it to allow a trail of lube to drip onto your clit. Massage it in and lush your fingers inside of you to spread it. All while keeping eye contact with that other pair of eyes watching you xx

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