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over a year ago

Slagging off your peer group is never cool.

Slagging off women for having preferences - always a winner.

Combining both in one rant to alienate the entire site - priceless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or do people feel the same about messages..

I think its more ignorant that guys post on the forums complaining they cant get a "shag" because some one deleted there message..

Ohh boohoo!! Get over it.. if you hate it that much call Dial a shag!

Im pretty sure the ladies and couples have the same problem..

Your not gods gift to women!

And another thing that really winds me up is women that ways

"Theres 1000s of guys on here so we can be picky" that maybe so but I didnt know guys were just a chunk of meat from the butchers that you can get every day...

Rant over.. im good ..

*Gets tin hat and shield to protect myself from the en slaught!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slagging off your peer group is never cool.

Slagging off women for having preferences - always a winner.

Combining both in one rant to alienate the entire site - priceless"

Well to be fair its actually true.

I dont care about meeting anyone.. im not in it for the "fancy a fuck" thing.. I prefer to chat a be friends..

I can get a "shag" on a saturday night or from a FB..

Just really winds me up when men bitch and when women think were just a peice of meat..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people feel the same about messages..

I think its more ignorant that guys post on the forums complaining they cant get a "shag" because some one deleted there message..

Ohh boohoo!! Get over it.. if you hate it that much call Dial a shag!

Im pretty sure the ladies and couples have the same problem..

Your not gods gift to women!

And another thing that really winds me up is women that ways

"Theres 1000s of guys on here so we can be picky" that maybe so but I didnt know guys were just a chunk of meat from the butchers that you can get every day...

Rant over.. im good ..

*Gets tin hat and shield to protect myself from the en slaught!*"

But we do have the right to be picky....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people feel the same about messages..

I think its more ignorant that guys post on the forums complaining they cant get a "shag" because some one deleted there message..

Ohh boohoo!! Get over it.. if you hate it that much call Dial a shag!

Im pretty sure the ladies and couples have the same problem..

Your not gods gift to women!

And another thing that really winds me up is women that ways

"Theres 1000s of guys on here so we can be picky" that maybe so but I didnt know guys were just a chunk of meat from the butchers that you can get every day...

Rant over.. im good ..

*Gets tin hat and shield to protect myself from the en slaught!*

But we do have the right to be picky...."

That may be so but no need to blast it on the forum posts..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't think that but saying there are 1000's men on here so we can be picky means anyone is being treated like a piece of meat.

It means that just because a bloke messages me (and might well match some or all of my preferences) doesn't mean he's guaranteed a meet. There are lots of men on here that might match my preferences on paper but that doesn't mean I automatically want to meet them (which is what a lot assume is the case) id rather wait till one comes along that I have a connection with, so I can afford to be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!"

isn't it just

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!"

Does that happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?"

Thats a 1st.A lady that sends a message to a guy thats shes never chatted to 1st. could do with a few more ladies like you on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?"

Of course it does! I am aware I am not to everyone's taste.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think that but saying there are 1000's men on here so we can be picky means anyone is being treated like a piece of meat.

I agree there has to be a connection with everyone... I would get with anyone if it was boring.. wouldnt enjoy it and would feel awkward..

But surely there is a nicer way of putting things when posting on a forum.. I do sometime find it quite insulting when some women say that..

Think of it if it was the other way round..

Love your bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?

Of course it does! I am aware I am not to everyone's taste."

I think it is more that some men on here could never envisage saying no...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?

Of course it does! I am aware I am not to everyone's taste.

I think it is more that some men on here could never envisage saying no..."

There are plenty of men that do.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Sorry, just because you "think" you match my requirements does not guarantee a shag. I'm allowed to be choosy, its my knickers you are trying to get into. I'm not a slut, and am not on here to shag anything that offers - I have standards and self respect!

I do not treat anyone like butchers meat, and would be happy if that same respect was offered in return.

And FWIW, I'm quite happy that I'm not to everyones taste. That would mean I wasn't me.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?

Of course it does! I am aware I am not to everyone's taste."

I get so few messages I wouldn't dream of not replying

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How come when I message a guy and my message is deleted without reply I manage not to post a moany post on here? Its a mystery!!!

Does that happen?

Of course it does! I am aware I am not to everyone's taste.

I get so few messages I wouldn't dream of not replying"

Its not only men who are treated like meat on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, just because you "think" you match my requirements does not guarantee a shag. I'm allowed to be choosy, its my knickers you are trying to get into. I'm not a slut, and am not on here to shag anything that offers - I have standards and self respect!

I do not treat anyone like butchers meat, and would be happy if that same respect was offered in return.

And FWIW, I'm quite happy that I'm not to everyones taste. That would mean I wasn't me."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply to pretty much all of my mail but no longer do as a sad few thought it was acceptable to hurl abuse at me for a polite no thanks. If someone had the respect and self confidence to reply with a no thanks then I'd appreciate their honesty and move on, I know I'm not for everyone, no one is but the reality is very few do. I do message guys first also but am not bothered if they don't reply although it would be nice to get a thanks when I compliment their pics, its not necessary though and I won't lose sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do not treat anyone like butchers meat, and would be happy if that same respect was offered in return.

And FWIW, I'm quite happy that I'm not to everyones taste. That would mean I wasn't me."

Never said all women.. you maybe a nice women to talk to..

Just pisses me off when SOME women say that and you will find it is posted on a regular basis on forum posts.. and it also pisses me off when guys complain about having there messages delete..

I couldnt really care less if my message were delete.. end of the day if its deleted then it just means they wasnt worth my time and I wasnt worth theres.. I wouldnt loose sleep over it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make a point of replying to all mail we get even if it takes a few days to,but the amount of abuse received from people when we say a polite thanks but no thanks is shocking and quite laughable.Especially the ones who reply with I wasn't interested in meeting anyway!Well why message in the first place then? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to reply to pretty much all of my mail but no longer do as a sad few thought it was acceptable to hurl abuse at me for a polite no thanks. If someone had the respect and self confidence to reply with a no thanks then I'd appreciate their honesty and move on, I know I'm not for everyone, no one is but the reality is very few do. I do message guys first also but am not bothered if they don't reply although it would be nice to get a thanks when I compliment their pics, its not necessary though and I won't lose sleep over it

I agree with you.. some women get abuse and isnt really fair..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman treating men like meat o how the tables have turned lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Slagging off your peer group is never cool.

Slagging off women for having preferences - always a winner.

Combining both in one rant to alienate the entire site - priceless"

this... i am not sure it was ever possible to be a knight, run over everyone in the generalisation bus, and whinge all in one post....

quite a talent.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be fair it needed to be said...

Whether anyone agree or not I think most people need to get a grip..

Even I do and I know that..

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"To be fair it needed to be said...

Whether anyone agree or not I think most people need to get a grip..

Even I do and I know that.."

No, you think it needed to be said, that doesn't mean it qas worth saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well no one else had the guts to tell people to stop bitching..

Really winds me up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well no one else had the guts to tell people to stop bitching..

Really winds me up.. "

Where does guts come in to it? Plenty on here have the courage to say what they think. We aren't all sycophants seeking approval.

Ironically all you've done in this thread is bitch yourself. Yet you hate being challenged on threads you start.

The problem with this thread, as I stated right at the start is that all you have done is make 2 sweeping generalisations, neither of which stand up to scrutiny. So what are we supposed to say in response?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Well no one else had the guts to tell people to stop bitching..

Really winds me up.. "

You're wrong there, men get shot down regularly when they start whiny posts and quite often there's a thread moaning about woman saying they have big egos on here..

Doesn't make a blind bit of difference, men still whinge and us girls still prefer to be choosy over which blokes we fuck.

It'll never change

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You know what guys, what REALLY winds me up is when group X doesn't do things that I think they should, why cant everyone be more like group Y.

Don't get me started on group Z though, bunch of bastards they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a connection with someone beyond a basic physical attraction is hard no matter where you go, whether it be here, fb, or in the local pub. There appears to be many more men here than women so the women do have the pick of things, however I think most men seem to miss the obvious things, like to attract a woman and be successful you must turn on her mind first. From that everything else will follow. Connection is what's makes the sex worth it otherwise its cold and selfish and let's be honest, who really wants that?

Men are allowed to be choosey as well, no harm in that, but regardless of sex, respect must be upheld. Abusing someone because they delete your mail just isn't acceptable. It just means a connection wasn't made. Moving on to try somewhere else is the best thing to do for all concerned.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Well no one else had the guts to tell people to stop bitching..

Really winds me up.. "

Big brave wabbit

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Better out than in.

Hope it helped.

Will change nowt

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"You know what guys, what REALLY winds me up is when group X doesn't do things that I think they should, why cant everyone be more like group Y.

Don't get me started on group Z though, bunch of bastards they are!

Yes, but they are Zombies in group Z and play by different rules. Most just lie there dead when you play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what guys, what REALLY winds me up is when group X doesn't do things that I think they should, why cant everyone be more like group Y.

Don't get me started on group Z though, bunch of bastards they are!

Yes, but they are Zombies in group Z and play by different rules. Most just lie there dead when you play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair it needed to be said...

Whether anyone agree or not I think most people need to get a grip..

Even I do and I know that.."

Did it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all agree to disagree both male an female do the same to each other wouldn't take it to heart though peeps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think that but saying there are 1000's men on here so we can be picky means anyone is being treated like a piece of meat.

I agree there has to be a connection with everyone... I would get with anyone if it was boring.. wouldnt enjoy it and would feel awkward..

But surely there is a nicer way of putting things when posting on a forum.. I do sometime find it quite insulting when some women say that..

Think of it if it was the other way round..

Love your bum

To be fair...most men get treated exactly how they deserve, if they get treated like a piece of meat, its usually because they've been throwing themselves at anything with a pair of tits, a cunt and a fkn profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ott

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do people feel the same about messages..

I think its more ignorant that guys post on the forums complaining they cant get a "shag" because some one deleted there message..

Ohh boohoo!! Get over it.. if you hate it that much call Dial a shag!

Im pretty sure the ladies and couples have the same problem..

Your not gods gift to women!

And another thing that really winds me up is women that ways

"Theres 1000s of guys on here so we can be picky" that maybe so but I didnt know guys were just a chunk of meat from the butchers that you can get every day...

Rant over.. im good ..

*Gets tin hat and shield to protect myself from the en slaught!*

But we do have the right to be picky...."
some really don't tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaaaand Breathe

Gary

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"But we do have the right to be picky....

some really don't tho"

I think you'll find even those women who do better than you think they deserve, or those who decide to abstain because they can't attract men who meet their standards, have the absolute right to do so!

Every adult has the right to be picky, be they male or female.

This comment smacks of bitterness from someone who can't get meets with the women he wants and has also been turned down by women he thinks aren't worthy of his attention, (but that he was desperate enough to message anyway).

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Slagging off your peer group is never cool.

Slagging off women for having preferences - always a winner.

Combining both in one rant to alienate the entire site - priceless

Well to be fair its actually true.

I dont care about meeting anyone.. im not in it for the "fancy a fuck" thing.. I prefer to chat a be friends..

I can get a "shag" on a saturday night or from a FB..

Just really winds me up when men bitch and when women think were just a peice of meat..

OP if your not on here to meet men or women then why is your profile not reflecting this???

Your non- sexual approach which you basically state is a must has clearly been broken by the men/women that send you messages hence your post.

Anyway good luck on this site like you said you don't care about meeting anyone so your post sudden becomes irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree you can't just meet anyone well I can't you have you to draw the line but your right some don't have standards at all just want a quick fix!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was just a rant guys.. everyone needs one every now and again for different reasond whether it be about male or female we are all guilty of it.. lol..

I have apologized so all is good..

As for me being "desprate" not a chance lol..

I had a meet lastnight, got a fuck buddy staying over tonight and also a meet on 31st.. and non of them are on here lol!

There is one women I would love to meet and go for a drink with but I accepted months and months ago that I aint her type lol.. she knows who she is and she knows I respect her..

But anyways.. lets just forget about it and move on! Altho commenting just pushes it to the top again..

So sorry if I offended anyone..

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