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How long does your average session last?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, perhaps an odd question but I'm wondering how long youw average meet session lasts? How much of that is spent socialising/getting comfortable and how much of that is spent getting down and dirty?!

I wonder because it sort of feels like the expectations on here are to have long marathon sessions and I feel a little inadequate. I don't like a quickie as such but a good hour or so of the sexing and I'm exhausted and ready to send my guests packing :P! Is that other people's definition of a quickie though?!

Just thought it would be interesting to see what other people think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each one is different with me. When I first met my swing partner, we had already met for a drink a coyple o weeks prior so pretty much got straight down to 'it' and surfaced fo air 5 hours later. sometimes we can still be like that. other times we play for a bit, stop and chat, play some more etc.

With others it can range from a quick half hour to a couple of hours max, with breaks for chat/drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just chill and let the time fly xxx

our meets normally go on for a while until we have all just collapsed lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well with my tag I have to be home by 7pm and there's no way I'm leaving the house before I've watched Jeremy Kyle, Homes Under The Hammer, Murder She Wrote, and Home and Away so I guess, errr 12 minutes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @ Jim!

My meets can be minutes to weekends: depends really.

With my special playmate it's coffee and a chat before heading to the bedroom where we play for around four hours. We sometimes pull an all nighter and that will include dinner, telly, chatting before retiring for the night!

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By *ord and ladyCouple
over a year ago

around Glasgow


"Well with my tag I have to be home by 7pm and there's no way I'm leaving the house before I've watched Jeremy Kyle, Homes Under The Hammer, Murder She Wrote, and Home and Away so I guess, errr 12 minutes?

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you forgot countdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the moment, distance travelled, time of day, kids, if i have to take the day off to meet and they have to travel to meet me, its maybe an hour though depends on who. Ive some regulars that stay and cuddle and chat for a while before heading off

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

At party's it can be as long as 9 hours (yes really!) that is from arriving and socialising to on and off play with couples to actually leaving for home the next day.

Couple only meets can be as short as an hour or as long as 3 to 4 hours, thats just sex in the room, no socialising. Met a single guy once who had loads of stamina, kept up solid shagging for 90 minutes. Katee called a halt to it, she was well and truly worn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyones expectations differ. maybe you should chat about what you both are looking for before you meet up. mine have gone from several hours to 3days!!!!

do what makes you happy, thats what its all about x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As we don't meet every week, when we do meet we like it to last, so maybe an hour or so having a chat at the meeting place, all agreeing it is still what we all want, and then as many hours as it takes before one of us looks like we are flagging.

As we don't meet every week we like it to last when we do meet someone.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

A regular 3 some with a guy we meet is straight into the bedroom and lasts around 2 - 3 hours, but some of that time is spent relaxing and chatting. Our first 4 some a couple of weeks ago was less than an hour in the bar followed by about 4 hours play in the room, but again, we stopped for air and drinks several times. Mrs 2bi can go for ages, but Mr needs recovery time (it's his age you know! ).

No doubt there are supermen out there with targets and records to set, but we just want variety and fun - and with 3 - 4 or more, there,s always someone to play with. Doesn't have to be penetrative sex all the time, there,s a lot to be said for extended foreplay, stroking, massage, slow oral sessions... or just watching the action.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

2 - 3 days I wish!

Seriously, it really depends on the mood and the folks, just like normal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well with my tag I have to be home by 7pm and there's no way I'm leaving the house before I've watched Jeremy Kyle, Homes Under The Hammer, Murder She Wrote, and Home and Away so I guess, errr 12 minutes?

you forgot countdown"

I can be over and done with plus I'll have solved the conundrum before the timer's gone bong!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

It depend on who you are with.

If you connect with that person sexually, then it can be for hours or days which is my preference. Wham bam thank you's are too clinical for me and to short for me to express myself fully in bed.

But a short charged session can be good too if it's full of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depend on who you are with.

If you connect with that person sexually, then it can be for hours or days which is my preference. Wham bam thank you's are too clinical for me and to short for me to express myself fully in bed.

But a short charged session can be good too if it's full of passion "

Have to agree...depends on who you are with...lovely long sessons..mmm..hours days...time goes by...you forget to eat etc...lol

Or those quick horny passionate ...plays...mmmm...variety..spice ..you know the one...

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By *arlitos WayMan
over a year ago

Brighton & Hove


"everyones expectations differ. maybe you should chat about what you both are looking for before you meet up. mine have gone from several hours to 3days!!!!

do what makes you happy, thats what its all about x"

wow 3 days sounds good to me as my best meet would be starting on a Friday night for chat during a candle lit dinner with a nice bottle of wine and kissing each other good bye on a Monday morning just after breakfast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a lot of things in this scene, it varies from person to person.

It can depend on where, when and with whom. Is it your 1st time with them or your 21st?

The important thing is not what others might want or expect but what you want from the meet. Do you want a hot passionate quickie, or a slower more sensual experience for instance. Is it a 1on1 or a 3 or moresome?

If an hour is a comfortable time for you then it might be worth dropping that into the chat before actually meeting then the other(s) know the score. Also bear in mind that few of those who talk about hours actually mean hours 'at it'!! lol There's usually more to a meet than basic 'it'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 6 - 10 times with someone usually last between 1 and 3 hours. They sort of seem to tail off after that to 20 mins or so.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i was having a one on one at my house the actual playtime is minimum 3 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2-6 hours depending on how long i have known them. more times you meet you spend more time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually till we get pissed n fall down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think each time is different, if the connection and the chemistry is there i can go all night, with a few kissy, cuddly bits between if you just dont click sexually with someone then im ready to go soon as they cum lmao

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

One of the things we can't understand is why people don't start playing until silly o'clock in the morning!

We like to meet for a drink or have a meal, but also like to play earlier rather than later. If it carries on into the small hours that is good, but to start at midnight after 4 hours chatting and flirting.... Too late for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, perhaps an odd question but I'm wondering how long youw average meet session lasts? How much of that is spent socialising/getting comfortable and how much of that is spent getting down and dirty?!

I wonder because it sort of feels like the expectations on here are to have long marathon sessions and I feel a little inadequate. I don't like a quickie as such but a good hour or so of the sexing and I'm exhausted and ready to send my guests packing :P! Is that other people's definition of a quickie though?!

Just thought it would be interesting to see what other people think ."

Surely no one has an average session? They are all supremely excellent and satisfying beyond compare according to some verifications I have read lasting well over 12 hours!

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

Fact..

we are on another site as well as this one which also has a cam function and we cammed one of our meets, we invited 3 guys to the hotel and got into it pretty much str8 away, this would have been about 7pm ish and the next thing i noticed was the sun peaking thru the curtains i looked at the clock and it was 8:30am and we cammed the lot..lol

this isnt the normal sex session as i have to say we normally meet only one guy at a time so counting the hubby theres only 2 guys and when thats happening its always alot shorter usually around 5 maybe 6hrs..it really goes on how good the guy is and how many times the guy can manage it..there is a term "no point in flogging a dead horse"..lol

mind u saying that there was a guy we met only a month ago and he is on this site, we were at it early one night and still at it late the following morning and what ever i did i couldnt make him cum and i thought i was doing something wrong so he had a hardon nearly all night, then he says ""do u mind if i cum now"" lmao..this guy was very good and well worth a re-match..lol

stella..xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

That was a quick day at work, I want your job !

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

its always a very short day when u forget ur satnav and have to come back to get it, and to top it all find the guy whos meant to be doing the house work still sat in front of the computer in his dressing gown..im coming back as a guy..lol

stella..xxx

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

oh well off to work again..lol, i need a day off but i cant as the bills have to paid some how..xxxx

stella..xxxx

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Suppose 4 to 6 hours is average, and if we have a sleepover there's activity going on all through the night so we suppose you can add that to the total!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we tend to have a chat a laugh and a drink or two first, maybe an hour and a half ,then get to the naughty bits, first us girls usually then the boys join in ,so I guess all in all on average, about3 to 4 hours , but the people we meet usually stay over so we have a meal afterwards often and chat too. x

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