FabSwingers.com forum: Beyond simple wife sharing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious how many, if any couples started out swinging but found it developed into something more? What we mean is, if you met single men but found one you both enjoyed socially as well as sexually did thing progress from simply casual sex to a more regular type of relationship?

Think were into the realms of poly here but the idea of a regular fb appeals, any one else was open to this?

We follow a few blogs with our fave being hotwifingexposed. This blog catalogues the development of a 6 year sexual relationship between a wife and her lover. Something extremely erotic and such a turn on thinking of your wife with another man as a long term sexual partner, becoming his fb.

Finding this is actually harder than you'd think though sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

firstly, i havent a simple wife to swap lol.

we have met a few people from here that we would have liked to have taken it to friendship, but no more than that.

however, our situation doesnt lend itself well to seeing people every weekend, or evenings in the week, so its very difficult to build relationships with people further than the time we share.

and neither of us has any interest in the poly or FB side of things as we have never had feelings that strong for people we have met, or even thought of others in that sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife now had a fairly regular FB every month to six weeks.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We have some friends who we get on really well with, we met them through swinging and it turned into as much of a regular friendship as us having fun together.

Its great, we get to have fun together but really trust the other couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a thread that I was thinking about lately. I have been lucky enough to have been in the "menage" situ before and now in the FAB environment.

In the main I have had great banter and fun with the couples I have met. Now i'm not saying I want to be feeding his pigeons or wearing hubbys slippers anytime soon BUT most will agree that sex improves as you get.to know someone and when a bond/connection is made.

I feel a lot of couples are scared of letting someone in and real feelings being shown.

I dare say I would too but its a quirky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would bejealous personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few guys and other couples who we now class as friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have discussed this in depth as one of our initial concerns with having someone as a regular was the prospect of feelings becoming involved. We both believe that sex as a three way will become better with time and with this it's inevitable that some feelings might develop.

The trouble is finding someone who ticks all our boxes and that we both feel comfortable with.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

the regular guy is our preference also ..have had guys move in with us and as others have said the sex does get better and better the more you all get to know each other

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas

"We have some friends who we get on really well with, we met them through swinging and it turned into as much of a regular friendship as us having fun together.

Its great, we get to have fun together but really trust the other couple. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the regular guy is our preference also ..have had guys move in with us and as others have said the sex does get better and better the more you all get to know each other

Wow that is totally diff level having someone move in. How did that work out?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

worked out really well ..all got along famously and did all the normal stuff together that most couples do ..just there were 3 of us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"worked out really well ..all got along famously and did all the normal stuff together that most couples do ..just there were 3 of us !

I think I need to move back to W-s-M !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"worked out really well ..all got along famously and did all the normal stuff together that most couples do ..just there were 3 of us !

that's awesome, so lucky.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

It can happen! I was in such a relationship with a couple for 2 years. It was very intense, respectful and so liberating.

I was the regular lover of the female and I used to spend the weekends with them. On other occasions, they came to me. The point is most single guys don't want to replace the husband of a couple simply because we love being single!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What a shame you're so far away

"It can happen! I was in such a relationship with a couple for 2 years. It was very intense, respectful and so liberating.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

i have been the third part of a relationship for a number of years now ,we all get along great and i feel i have two special freinds that i have sex with ...

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Am afraid it's not for us. Meeting on here, having fun times is great. But long term FB nope. I don't think it's a good thing between a couple. But hey that's just me, I wouldn't like my partner to be that close to someone. Ok he could do whatever at work, out with the lads etc I not that naive but nope sex one night only am afraid, we'll as far as I know lol. I not (Pam here not Tommy) to make long term pals, I have good friends and don't need any more thanks. The fun times yes, after no thanks. Shallow etcetera maybe but I am honest x

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