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By *unshine94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Hi all does putting Bi on your profile put people off, am I better off just chancing it saying I'm straight and come clean if asked.

I don't know what does the forum reckon

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

well you just told everyone who uses the forum that you're bi.

Honestly, I'd go for the truth. If I found someone I was chatting to had lied by omission, I would worry about the honesty of everything that they said.

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By *unshine94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Yes that's true but not everyone looks on here, well like you said honesty is the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After one go, do you do that or does it take more?

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

we have bi on our profile and sure don't seem to do us any harm xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put what you are looking for ..... otherwise you wont find it and others wont find you !!!

If everyone put straight no one would have the foggiest who was looking for what

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"well you just told everyone who uses the forum that you're bi.

Honestly, I'd go for the truth. If I found someone I was chatting to had lied by omission, I would worry about the honesty of everything that they said. "

This is how I see it! Have also experienced it as well, when I was the last to know, my mantra is, I can make an arse out of myself, without someone doing it for me!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Probably just having one photo will do you more harm than putting bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should put "I'm bi many things, but not lingual"

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

well if people were honest it would save a lot of confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well if people were honest it would save a lot of confusion "

So this

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By *unshine94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

I suppose I already knew the answer to it but just making sure.

I have bi already on my ad ,

had loads of men contacting me which is fine but a couple or woman would be nice also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daft question.....why on a site like this would you not be fully open about who you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is best but we like to see a bit more details like 'I'm bi but I can play straight I like ..... ... ... and state what your preferences/no no's are HTH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest,if a Couple winks or tries to befriend us with the word Straight on their profile, it will invariably be ignored. We appreciate this loses us a good few meet opportunities but we'd rather be honest to ourselves and others with what we really want rather than compromising.

If you're uncomfortable being Bi, then maybe put Curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all does putting Bi on your profile put people off, am I better off just chancing it saying I'm straight and come clean if asked.

I don't know what does the forum reckon"

Curiously when I first joined YES - I would not entertain any guy bi or curious !! Now after watching ( and becomming addicted lol ) to gay porn - being bi is a huge advantage !! Having a twinkie young bi friend to come play as well is even better odds !! Lolxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have always put bisexual and that is simply because I am

and I am not lying for sex, I am better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it depends if yer lookin for guys or chicks? if yer lookin for women there's not really any point stating you MAY like bi-play on occasion! Nobody is entitled to know who you've played with previously...I think some folk are TOO bloody nosey!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi all does putting Bi on your profile put people off, am I better off just chancing it saying I'm straight and come clean if asked.

I don't know what does the forum reckon"

Having a verification from a tv would probably have let the cat out of the bag regardless of any "straight" claim you make.

I really struggle to understand how people profess to seek sexual experiences by joining the site yet are ashamed to let others, of the same mindset, know what they want: don't get it!

People: no matter what you'll NEVER appeal to everyone...sigh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all does putting Bi on your profile put people off, am I better off just chancing it saying I'm straight and come clean if asked.

I don't know what does the forum reckon

Having a verification from a tv would probably have let the cat out of the bag regardless of any "straight" claim you make.

I really struggle to understand how people profess to seek sexual experiences by joining the site yet are ashamed to let others, of the same mindset, know what they want: don't get it!

People: no matter what you'll NEVER appeal to everyone...sigh... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well you just told everyone who uses the forum that you're bi.

Honestly, I'd go for the truth. If I found someone I was chatting to had lied by omission, I would worry about the honesty of everything that they said. "

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By *artsnikCouple
over a year ago

wortley

we got lots of messages from people who are bi but have straight on there profile and we never meet them if there cant be honest on here what hope is there what's the point if your bi you are what's point in saying your not we are both bi but also play straight what does it matter does not mean your going to go for someone's cock who does not want to be touched by you its not everyone's thing but then again its not everyone's thing to meet a straight couple ether

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By *unshine94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Ye I know I was thinking that about having TV on my add pretty much says Bi

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