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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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ive noticed from being on here for a few months that most if not all of the time ive been knocked back due to my age (18)

so just thought id get everyones opinions on this :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive noticed from being on here for a few months that most if not all of the time ive been knocked back due to my age (18)

so just thought id get everyones opinions on this :D

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If it feels right for you to be swinging at your age, then there's no reason why you shouldn't - you are an adult after all. No different that being 99 I'd say.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

eighteen is defo too young for me i got sons of 18 n 21 just couldnt do it but not only that its the maturity of the person that i take into consideration too n some even in their mid to late twentys r very childish in behaviuor and very imature.......

i prefer ppl to meet ppl from 28/50 but only after chatting for a while and deem them to be mature

just for the record i have met older that this ......

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with playing at any legal age.. but like many we have Kids older so just doesn't sit well..

Also.. we have met couples with a big age difference.. and she is maybe 21, 22 or something and well.. just not as 'sexy'... its kinda like.. here I am i'm young and gorgeous i don't need to try do i lol.. Wrong pmsl. I find that a turn off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel wrong doing that!

I have shoes older than you and would feel too guilty.

That said.... if you find someone that can handle your age good luck to you and enjoy yourself

xx

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Try contacting people closer to your area and closer to your age...:D...there's nothing wrong with swinging at 18...just many people prefer not to...:D...but most people here says that personalities matter most...:D..so it doesn't matter if you're 18..:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how different opinions of couples would be if a girl had posted this?

Good luck to you mate. A lot of older swingers have this ridiculous attitude about younger swingers, forgetting that they were once young.

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By *raginghormonesCouple
over a year ago

whitehaven

Under legal age is too young. I was swinging at 18 as well, but I never had a guy say "No thanks" because I was too young. Mind you that was back in the days before t'internet was invented and it was mostly hooking up at the local sauna, where, unless you held a placard around your neck, nobody knew how old you were.

Not that I'm condoning telling a porky pie, but there are lots of people on here who lie about their age the other way around. (There must have been some really tough paper rounds a few years ago!) Some lies are even worse, fake pics, recently widowed etc(how low is that?). I figure if your sure that's why you're not getting takers, what real harm can it do to exaggerate a little? Just pretend you're trying to get in the pub at 15 and add a couple of years, lol. Oops, sorry, remembered, everyone knows your real age now!

Anyway Mr RH has just looked over my shoulder and said "poor lad, tell him he's welcome to come here and give you a good banging" Bless he's all heart and he knows I'm not ageist in either direction (just as well seeing as he's an old git! lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind younger but the guy has to know

1. what he is doing...

2. how to treat a woman...

3. has to be a connect/spark

4. and he is older than me son ...

A lot of women have a problem in "teaching" a younger guy and wants a self assured guy who is confident and knows what he is doing from the onset.

and yes i know there are some older guys who dont fit the bill either.

Some bieng the "neanderthal type or Male chauvenists who refuse to believe women have a right to an orgasm too.

I applaud your thread and i wish you well in your search, if only more guys were so up front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know the feeling mate ive been swinging since 18 and have just turned twenty. i was so nervous when i first went into a swingers club and felt like everyone was looking and thinking whats the kid doing in here???? but if couples give you the chance to show and speak about your true mature self then youll be fine... there are planty who will like your age but again a very lot who dont. i think it all depends on the personality of the person not there age and i also think that you must be mature to post yourself on here and get into the scene seriously. any comments welcome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met younger guys, most have been lovely, but the thing i find stands out the most with younger ones ( in my opinion) is, once they have had there meet and had there fun, they dont even wanna give u tge time of day.. by that i mean i met a guy not long ago, saw him in a chat room and said hya as i always did, he replied hi then went, now thiis guy chased me for ages, i gave in lol, wot i'm trying to say is, some and i mean some not all younger guys are in this just for bed notches.... personally its put me off meeting younger guys.

maybe i should open a new thread about being ignored once played lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know the feeling mate ive been swinging since 18 and have just turned twenty. i was so nervous when i first went into a swingers club and felt like everyone was looking and thinking whats the kid doing in here???? but if couples give you the chance to show and speak about your true mature self then youll be fine... there are planty who will like your age but again a very lot who dont. i think it all depends on the personality of the person not there age and i also think that you must be mature to post yourself on here and get into the scene seriously. any comments welcome?"

i agree , age is only a number, well i look 25 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with swinging at 18, we started at 16ish, in my bedroom with some mates, if your sure about it and dont think its going to screw you up, Do it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on you and WHO your with , for it to be right or wrong- im not so hung up on ages as much as attitude and generaly how feel in that persons company- i meet plenty of guys, and girls, my own age who have no patience/manners/idea... Would advise get a girl nearer your own age to look after you/ you look after her.. get exploring together and grow with the experience... When your 22, you gonna have loads older girls after you ... Sarah x

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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thanks for all the replys folks :D wasny expecting so many so quickly

so far im getting the feeling that when its couples its all to do with the ages of their children and then with others its more attitude, that sound right to you?

i know not everyones will fit the above because to every rule theres exceptions as ive learned in chemistry haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

hi mighty i noticed on ur profile ur looking to meet 18/55 yr olds yet in the room the other nite u said u want to play with ppl nearer ur own age 55yr olds dont make sence to me ?

oh n i also think u need to add exactly what ur looking regarding looks to as u u said u were looking for slim ppl the other nite to just saves ppl time if they r not what ur looking for

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would'nt say 18 was to young to be here, its a 18+ site and 18 year olds have the same rights to be here as anyone else, personally i would'nt meet a 18 year olds because i just feel its to young for me on a personal level, i would have nothing to talk about to a 18 year old and the chatting and getting along bit is all part of the attraction for me, im in my 30s what would i possabily have in common with someone that age? lol

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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so... so far im getting the impression that you all think its ok to be here at 18 but no one wants me lol

ach well ive just got to bide my time and see what happens i suppose

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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cum i said i would prefer to meet with people my own age i never ruled out anyone older

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By *omeo87Man
over a year ago

Birmingham / Sao Paulo / Abu Dhabi

Iv also found in a lot of replies iv got that iv been too young for the woman/couple iv contacted but i think its personal preference at the end of the day, and plus many younger guys are immature which gives all of us a bad reputation

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia


"Iv also found in a lot of replies iv got that iv been too young for the woman/couple iv contacted but i think its personal preference at the end of the day, and plus many younger guys are immature which gives all of us a bad reputation"

I think you are not age young...but face young...:D...

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By *omeo87Man
over a year ago

Birmingham / Sao Paulo / Abu Dhabi

And is that a good thing or bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how different opinions of couples would be if a girl had posted this?

Good luck to you mate. A lot of older swingers have this ridiculous attitude about younger swingers, forgetting that they were once young."

its not an attitude for us so to speak

if we are playing with a single the guy has got to be older where as a girl would need to be younger

the reason being we find older guys a lot more fun before we play we as a the same would go for a younger woman

please dont shoot us as we only been swinging for 8 mnths so this could change lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"i have met younger guys, most have been lovely, but the thing i find stands out the most with younger ones ( in my opinion) is, once they have had there meet and had there fun, they dont even wanna give u tge time of day.. by that i mean i met a guy not long ago, saw him in a chat room and said hya as i always did, he replied hi then went, now thiis guy chased me for ages, i gave in lol, wot i'm trying to say is, some and i mean some not all younger guys are in this just for bed notches.... personally its put me off meeting younger guys.

maybe i should open a new thread about being ignored once played lol "

Thats a really good point in that once tha sex is over, the age difference may mean you have nothing else in common ....not too bad for a young guy ...but not so nice for most women ...never really thought of that aspect to it ...

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I won't play with anyone I could have given birth to.

Far to creepy to my mind........ I'd want to know what they'd been doing at Uni or at school that day and if they were coping with their washing.

**Maddie does have a maternal side.......sometimes**

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

It's just not important to us - we have said already on another thread the youngest have been a girl (21) and a guy (26) the oldest have been a fem (60) and a guy (62) at least that admitted it.

Rich's first experience with a young girl was a real good one - as have the others to be honest!

Judy's first with a young guy was not good - but then she gave it another go and was proven wrong in her preconceptions by another slightly younger one on the next opportunity!

From our experience

1. Young girls (especially if they are new to swinging) gain rather a lot from the touch of a much older and experienced guy - especially if the guy knows how to use their tongue and fingers to good effect. The first experience Rich had with a young fem swinger she actually asked 'do you mind if I cum' as she didn't really know what was allowed in swinging lol - and that is 100% truth! If you wonder, he said 'go for it girl'

2. Conversely young guys may have stamina no doubt but seem to generally lack in technique - unless they have been swinging for some time and learned the way, there is always exceptions to any rule though no doubt. However this seems to compliment point no 1 and explain to some extent what younger fem swingers get from it.

We've met 21 to 62 (that they admitted too at least) - no pro_s so far to do with age, all were fun. We'd be happy to extend both ends of that range by a few years too.

xxx

j&r

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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well this has been fun getting people opinions on it all anyways :D

keep them coming as its interesting to see what everyone thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is a number,go for it kid,wish these sites were around when i was your age.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that itsw been said already - but from our perspective - we couldnt play with anyone (male or female) who is the same age or younger than the children - just wouldnt seem right to us - but hey - horses for courses as they say.

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By *SCouple
over a year ago

bristol

From reading this post it all comes down to peoples personal preferance,oh and morals.Some of us have kids of a similar age as the origional poster and we still see them as kids at 18.

As someone said above tho,wish we had known about swingers sites when we were younger lol

Their is alot of cpls/singles around 18/19 on fab now so plenty around your own age group..have fun and enjoy,thats what its supposed to be about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cum i said i would prefer to meet with people my own age i never ruled out anyone older "

if you want to meet women off here you can't rule out anyone older i don't think i've ever seen a 18 year old girl on here lol tho i'm sure there must be a few teenagers on the site you'd have to look very long and hard to find one

(watch this ones going to pop up on this thread now just to prove me wrong ar'nt theylol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv also found in a lot of replies iv got that iv been too young for the woman/couple iv contacted but i think its personal preference at the end of the day, and plus many younger guys are immature which gives all of us a bad reputation

I think you are not age young...but face young...:D..."

i have to admit i agree with this, its what puts me off younger guys, i don't like guys that still have that very young baby look face, just feels wrong

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


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if you want to meet women off here you can't rule out anyone older i don't think i've ever seen a 18 year old girl on here lol tho i'm sure there must be a few teenagers on the site you'd have to look very long and hard to find one

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lol well maybe was our post on here and we didn't go looking but we just got winked by an 18yr old single fem

xxx

j&r

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We also wish sites like this (or even the internet to be honest ll) had existed when we were much younger too - all those wasted years sigh - and perhaps it is the fact that they do exist and younger generations use the internet for scialising so much, that there are more younger swingers around these days it seems

As an aside to this thread but it is on topic with 'how young is too young' why is the age of consent for sex 16, but you can't be a swinger until you are 18? Can anyone explain the logic in that?

xx

j&r

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape... "

where did you hear that?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape... "

Ive never heard of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape... "
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Poppycock ..... the law states no laws are broken if both concenting people are 16yrs or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As an aside to this thread but it is on topic with 'how young is too young' why is the age of consent for sex 16, but you can't be a swinger until you are 18? Can anyone explain the logic in that?

xx

j&r"

just a guess but i think its because sex sites are classed as adult sites and even tho you can have sex at 16 your not an adult till your 18 so you can't by law join adult sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape... "

i dont think that true, im going to google it tho just incase im wrong lol as far as i know the age of concent is 16 and it does not matter how old the person you are with is so long as they are also 16+, anyone else have any knowlage on this subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape...

i dont think that true, im going to google it tho just incase im wrong lol as far as i know the age of concent is 16 and it does not matter how old the person you are with is so long as they are also 16+, anyone else have any knowlage on this subject?"

Statutory rape can only be used if a person over 18 has sex with someone under 16.

If the oldest person is under 18 and has sex with someone under 16 it’s only under age sex, unless one person is under 13 which then makes it statutory rape.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

So a 27 y.o having sex with a 17 y.o is legal?....didn't know that...as we don't learn british law...it was always illegal back in our country...:D...well...got it wrong there...:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a 27 y.o having sex with a 17 y.o is legal?....didn't know that...as we don't learn british law...it was always illegal back in our country...:D...well...got it wrong there...:D"

a 27 year old can marry a 17 year old in this country with the 17 year olds parents concent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regards to "wishing" for these kind of sites when we were younger etc......

I think if they had of been, i still wouldnt have been ready for the swinging life style.

We all mature at different ages re sexually maturity and also mentally and physically so i think that we all come into this when we are ready for it.

Its not fantastic sex 24/7 with the ideal people all the time, we all know how bloody difficult it can be regardless of age.

If it works for you at 18 then so be it,but just know it will be as hard for you as it is for the majority on here to get great meets ,

And the key to it all is patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape...

i dont think that true, im going to google it tho just incase im wrong lol as far as i know the age of concent is 16 and it does not matter how old the person you are with is so long as they are also 16+, anyone else have any knowlage on this subject?"

A really weird law is,as far as glamour models are concerned.Your not allowed to take pic's,soft,hard,naked or whatever of anyone under 18.

It's legal to have sex with a 16/17 year old but illegal to photograph them.

XXXX

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

I have also heard that in some countries, it is possible to get married to an under-18 but not possible to have sex until they're 18.

I have also heard that you can watch under 18 people having sex, but not join or record it.

Interesting what you can hear without seeking out the truth...:D...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape...

i dont think that true, im going to google it tho just incase im wrong lol as far as i know the age of concent is 16 and it does not matter how old the person you are with is so long as they are also 16+, anyone else have any knowlage on this subject?

A really weird law is,as far as glamour models are concerned.Your not allowed to take pic's,soft,hard,naked or whatever of anyone under 18.

It's legal to have sex with a 16/17 year old but illegal to photograph them.

XXXX

"

i think i all comes back to the adult/none adult thing again, the law says you have to be 18 to watch or appear in adult material, ie porn filsm, pics, even swinging sites etc so even tho you can have sex at 16 your not classed as a adult till you 18 so your not allowed to watch it, its probably also there to stop people exploiting very young people, i personally think 16 is to young to have naked pics taken of you and i would'nt want to see them anyway but then i think 18s a bit on the young side for things such as porn too, personally i'd rase the age to 21 because altho 18 is classed as an adult lets me honest most 18 year olds are not mature and at 18 i would'nt expect them to be

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"

A really weird law is,as far as glamour models are concerned.Your not allowed to take pic's,soft,hard,naked or whatever of anyone under 18.

It's legal to have sex with a 16/17 year old but illegal to photograph them.

XXXX

"

Hi Trace, Ric.

Is that actually true? I remember clearly seeing those 'H&E' magazines I think they were - anyway they are naturist magazines and would be full of pictures including whole families with kids naked - not in a sexual context but purely enjoying the naturist lifestyle.

We've also seen whole naked families on naturist beaches much more recently and no one seems to care one jot.

xxxx

j&r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honey i dont think its just necessarily ur age that is causing u not to get any meets....i think u r trying tooooo hard and should just relax and get to know ppl before u immediately ask to meet them. i have spoken to u several times in the chat room and u come across as a very nice young bloke and my advice to u would be to get to know ppl on a social level first so they can see that ur age shouldnt be a problem, get urself along to some of the social events and build up a rapour with ppl, that way when and if they are looking to play with a single bloke, ur name rings out. good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because a 16 year old can only consent sex with anyone below 18...anyone 18 and above is only allowed to have sex with anyone above 18...or else it could be considered statutory rape...

i dont think that true, im going to google it tho just incase im wrong lol as far as i know the age of concent is 16 and it does not matter how old the person you are with is so long as they are also 16+, anyone else have any knowlage on this subject?

A really weird law is,as far as glamour models are concerned.Your not allowed to take pic's,soft,hard,naked or whatever of anyone under 18.

It's legal to have sex with a 16/17 year old but illegal to photograph them.

XXXX

i think i all comes back to the adult/none adult thing again, the law says you have to be 18 to watch or appear in adult material, ie porn filsm, pics, even swinging sites etc so even tho you can have sex at 16 your not classed as a adult till you 18 so your not allowed to watch it, its probably also there to stop people exploiting very young people, i personally think 16 is to young to have naked pics taken of you and i would'nt want to see them anyway but then i think 18s a bit on the young side for things such as porn too, personally i'd rase the age to 21 because altho 18 is classed as an adult lets me honest most 18 year olds are not mature and at 18 i would'nt expect them to be "

We know exactly what your saying but then your going to have 18 year olds saying "So I can get shot in Afganistan but I cant show my fanny/cock for a living!".And who could blame them,given the choice which would you choose?

Wasn't it Sam Fox who started her career on page 3 at 16,before they upped the age?

XXXX

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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well we now see that im not too young

so who wants me? :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

girls or boys, dosnt matter wich teenagers are just to young to play with it just sit right with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must say we never fail to be amazed by the confidence(however naive)shown by todays youth.

Age isn't really an issue with us,as long as its legal obviously.Its down to fun and attraction.

However we would probably feel somewhat self conscious playing with a couple of 18 year olds but wouldn't cancel it out.

Nor do we liken it to playing with someone young enough to be our kids or whatever because we don't have kids,Y_pee! lol.

XXXX

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

ok if it was a hot afternoon on the last day in june and the sun was a demon ....would you fuck a 16 year old ?

pd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok if it was a hot afternoon on the last day in june and the sun was a demon ....would you fuck a 16 year old ?

pd"

Depends.......

If we sat on the sand and the boy took her hand,would it make me see the sun rise as a man?

lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"ok if it was a hot afternoon on the last day in june and the sun was a demon ....would you fuck a 16 year old ?

pd

Depends.......

If we sat on the sand and the boy took her hand,would it make me see the sun rise as a man?

lol"

shhhhh dont tell billy rey in his red chevrolet ...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok if it was a hot afternoon on the last day in june and the sun was a demon ....would you fuck a 16 year old ?

pd

Depends.......

If we sat on the sand and the boy took her hand,would it make me see the sun rise as a man?

lol

shhhhh dont tell billy rey in his red chevrolet ...pmsl "

Too late.........

I already told him I needed time for some thinking......pmsl

P.S: I get motion sickness on porch swings anyway

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"ok if it was a hot afternoon on the last day in june and the sun was a demon ....would you fuck a 16 year old ?

pd

Depends.......

If we sat on the sand and the boy took her hand,would it make me see the sun rise as a man?

lol

shhhhh dont tell billy rey in his red chevrolet ...pmsl

Too late.........

I already told him I needed time for some thinking......pmsl

P.S: I get motion sickness on porch swings anyway "

weird that i do too ...and porche cars

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By *pMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Well im 26 and still get knockbacks now and again, just have to have patience

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

At 18, shouldn't you be getting plenty anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 23 and iv been told the same thing i should be getting loads, but the thing is i dont i work alot of hours and there odd ones i dont like going to the clu_s and that find it a waste of money and barrow if full of dicks just wanting to fight.

so this is a great thing for me meet people who just wanna have fun no strings.

but as im 23 and i look young not alot of people are interested.

im not on here for a conquerst or what eva some one said to me once in here for a good timne like every one else xxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

As with a lot of the posts on here from older cpls and singles, we have a late-teen daughter, and the thought of playing with someone near her age is off-putting. We once went to a swingers party, and there was a cpl there, she was 19, he was 51!!! She did play with some younger ppl there, but I just couldnt do it. Recently we went to another party, and there was a youngish cpl there, she was 21, but seemed a lot more mature, I would have guessed about 27 if I hadnt known, and I would have played with her, so I guess its a mix of what you know about someone, and how mature they act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started swinging wen mrs was 18 and mr was 30 not 25 n 37 along the way we have everything from 18 to i beleve 62 and they didnt loook it at all do what u want and please urself but dont upset others allong the way find it very sad wen other swingers critisie others for no real reason though its very understandable for someone who has childeren ur age not to want to same as its aceptable for pple have ther own preferences to size ext

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By *utemanccoupleCouple
over a year ago

tyldesley

my mrs is 18 and im 28 and we get alot of refusals based on hannahs age being too young.

its personal prefrence of each person though to answer your question theres only one true answer which is if its ilegal then its too young.

we dont choose couples by age if we get on with someone and there is some attraction as long as its legal then we happy to have fun

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

18+ for us. Met a 19 year old fem a couple of years ago and it was a fun meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had similair problems, due to being youngish (25) no-one seems interested in a meet. frustrating but if poeple arent wanting young guys then u have to respect their wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think we would have no problem hooking up with a bi girl whos 18+ or a couple where the girl is the young one, again 18+ aslong as the girl was mature enough. we would not and will not include any guys who are younger than us, especially single teenage guys. if a couple came along and the female was our age or older but the boy was young, we just wouldnt

its not really a case of too young to swing but more a case of theyl normally shag anything and are out to do so..

hope this doesnt make us sound like a pair of cunts

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

At the age of 18, Mrs R and I had too much "getting to know you" stuff to do. We were in the first throws of passion and wanted to explore ourselves! Cannot understand why sub 25's want to start swinging...

I understand the preference thing but that is used to mask a whole load of "issues" that occur, although I respect the right of those 18 and over to join sites like this.

Would we play with teenagers? No we wouldn't! As has been said a number of times, we have kids and couldn't play with people even close to their age. You youngsters will understand that one day.

As for you, Mighty.... Believe me, you would have a great deal more luck going to the pub or a club on a Saturday evening than you will on here. Firstly you are a single guy, one of thousands. You will have to stand out to make any inroads at all. Secondly you are very young and thirdly.... Although a lot of people have posted that it is fine for you to be here, only one has offered a meet! That should tell you loads!!

Good luck, but don't hold your breath

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By *ha_sMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I get told I'm too young all the time - and I turn 31 in september ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think also, had a girl posted this they would have been flooded with offers of a meet from guys (doesnt everybody) and couples.

the main issue lad is that you are a single guy, then your age will come into it.

there are thousands of single guys here, we get a crazy amount of winks and pm's from guys even though it says we wont meet them. The hardest thing for the guys is trying to stick out, i think if you keep on the site, get yourself to the socials and youl become a familiar face...then it wont be so hard

i asked Gordie if he would consider joining these sites if he was single and he told me that he wouldnt and would have better luck down the pub, which does make sense

pamela xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a friend once who used to say.. 'If there is grass on the pitch'

Not sure he's still allowed out after 7pm now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets be honest though, if a girl of 16 with a large chest, or half decent looking came onto an older guy and it was clear she wanted sex, the guy would 9 times out of 10, give her a seeing to.

the same cannot be said if it was a 16 year old boy with an older woman, its just the way the world is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although 18 dont see anything wrong with it but personally think its to young for us but stick it out you may have loads of fun x

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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god theres alot of messages on here!

1st time i looked in this for about 8weeks !

well the way its going now think i might have a meet organised so proved if you do keep lookin there is someone out there that wants you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whos it with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god theres alot of messages on here!

1st time i looked in this for about 8weeks !

well the way its going now think i might have a meet organised so proved if you do keep lookin there is someone out there that wants you "
Babe you have many years of swinging to come yet - best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i hope i do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I like someone with little maturity about them placing 18 to whatever just intended to give more oppertunity to users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so young sweet but young xx

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By *ightyRaithFan OP   Man
over a year ago

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things are beginning to look up on the swinging front think its my patience that has finally payed off.... im getting offered meets of couples now :P so far had 4 offers from 3 different couples so i must be doing something right anyway just need to get round to actually meeting them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"things are beginning to look up on the swinging front think its my patience that has finally payed off.... im getting offered meets of couples now :P so far had 4 offers from 3 different couples so i must be doing something right anyway just need to get round to actually meeting them! "

god patience does pay. we actually have single guys blocked on our profile.however saying that if i get to know a guy on forum and get to like them. well i message them and then the line is then open to our profile for future contact. this way you sorta get to know decent ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that sounds good to me, so how does one get to ow u and get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience is the key with this and many sites like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive noticed from being on here for a few months that most if not all of the time ive been knocked back due to my age (18)

so just thought id get everyones opinions on this :D

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Must seem wierd for a lady to sleep with someone they could of given birth to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol ill try to remember the time thing but when u think with your cock time dont seem to be a consept, and the birth thig could of but didnt so not a prob if u like the atraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Gaz have set a limit on 25 and over, we have had younger to swing with but the play was ok but there is nothing in common and very hard to chat with unless I start to learn about Vauxhall Corsa's with a big exhurst p_pe.

Suzi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Gaz have set a limit on 25 and over, we have had younger to swing with but the play was ok but there is nothing in common and very hard to chat with unless I start to learn about Vauxhall Corsa's with a big exhurst p_pe.

Suzi."
Lol and invest in a drum and bass CD!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i like ore rock and metal my self and i hate corsa's

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