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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm not bothered about blokes being 6ft plus but I wouldn't like a guy shorter than me. Which in my shoes you would be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute. "

well u are cute pmsl if lay down makes no diference anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your problem is you have a partner! and you can not accommodate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not bothered about blokes being 6ft plus but I wouldn't like a guy shorter than me. Which in my shoes you would be x"

I hear that a lot can I borrow your shoes..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your problem is you have a partner! and you can not accommodate"

Im in about in general not of this site.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I think your problem is you have a partner! and you can not accommodate

Im in about in general not of this site. "

I get the height thing quite a lot too. I'm single can accommodate. But there are loads of us they can pick and choose. C'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute. "

It obviously bothers you, as you mention it on your profile and here, to be very honest, your cock makes up for it, and when you are kneeling down you are same height as everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute. "

The picture of you actually sitting on a toilet where the seat can clearly be seen is the bigger issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute.

The picture of you actually sitting on a toilet where the seat can clearly be seen is the bigger issue "

Point taken will be deleted

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute. "

The trouble can be that some shorter men can try to substitute aggression for lack of inches.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Is high really that much of a issue to most of you women?.

Been a short guy I think its hard work to find willing ladies to have some frolics with because of heigh.

All I ever get told is that been short makes me cute.

The trouble can be that some shorter men can try to substitute aggression for lack of inches."

Do you wanna fight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same trouble, well that and my ugly mug lol. Seriously though, what is it that a lot of women find off putting about a guy being shorter then them? Is it a dominance thing?

I have to say it makes me chuckle if I meet a woman taller than myself because it does look a bit daft. In terms of cock size I've found that height bears no relation to actual cock size, maybe in the same way as breast size for women? My statistics are however slightly flawed by my lack of data points , maybe I should apply for a research grant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have the same trouble, well that and my ugly mug lol. Seriously though, what is it that a lot of women find off putting about a guy being shorter then them? Is it a dominance thing?

I have to say it makes me chuckle if I meet a woman taller than myself because it does look a bit daft. In terms of cock size I've found that height bears no relation to actual cock size, maybe in the same way as breast size for women? My statistics are however slightly flawed by my lack of data points , maybe I should apply for a research grant"

Agreed does look daft but behind closed doors then surly it don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isnt it challenging for shortarses in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol,always say,i cant be that short,my feet still reach the ground!dont worry.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

It's a natural order thing. Women are mostly hard wired to prefer their men taller than them. It is probably due to the caveman/protector/hunter role.

So just accept it.

A very small minority of women don't mind, but I'd concentrate on the ones that are shorter than you.

Also, I'd work on your spelling and grammar. Most women find clever/intelligent men attractive. Probably for similar reasons as above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a natural order thing. Women are mostly hard wired to prefer their men taller than them. It is probably due to the caveman/protector/hunter role.

So just accept it.

A very small minority of women don't mind, but I'd concentrate on the ones that are shorter than you.

Also, I'd work on your spelling and grammar. Most women find clever/intelligent men attractive. Probably for similar reasons as above."

Finding one's who are shoter and local is hard work.

Also spelling and grammar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im shorter than you so that's not an issue, your location is tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im shorter than you so that's not an issue, your location is tho "

Why can't they invite teleport machines already.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

ooooh 5ft4 tough call dude shouldnt make a diff really, bt it seems to.

i bet you are cute awwwwwwwwwww tickles u under the chin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ooooh 5ft4 tough call dude shouldnt make a diff really, bt it seems to.

i bet you are cute awwwwwwwwwww tickles u under the chin "

Haha there was lot if that last nite why out and been picked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Littlebird and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep, V likes a tall guy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No it doesn't bother me and you are good looking anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called dwarf and titch lol and told I'm too small but hey each has their preference. Some do like tiches lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Littlebird and proud "

Yay a fellow borrower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Batman well said

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Littlebird and proud "
its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Littlebird and proud "

I think short women are very attractive, no height discrimination for me

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"It's a natural order thing. Women are mostly hard wired to prefer their men taller than them. It is probably due to the caveman/protector/hunter role.

So just accept it.

A very small minority of women don't mind, but I'd concentrate on the ones that are shorter than you.

Also, I'd work on your spelling and grammar. Most women find clever/intelligent men attractive. Probably for similar reasons as above."

Phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried asking Sophie Dahl?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have never had an issue with guys being taller or shorter, I like different people for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never had an issue with guys being taller or shorter, I like different people for different reasons"

I wish a lot of women had this outlook

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome "

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One thin I do no have is little guy syndrome. Dont see why guys think they have to act the big man.. oops pardon the pun. Just because there short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well N loves cheeky little guys. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys "

Same. Very short women with very tall men can make just as odd a couple as tall women and short men. I think most people tend to pair off with similarish types.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? "

i know i do understand as im only 5ft.4 its says taller on profile but i where 4 inch cuban heels

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? i know i do understand as im only 5ft.4 its says taller on profile but i where 4 inch cuban heels "

Do mean 9" heels? Your profile says you're 6' 1"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer tall men, most short men have a chip on their shoulder.

did meet a man on here who was only 5ft4 and liked him, very young, cute and a nice cock.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? i know i do understand as im only 5ft.4 its says taller on profile but i where 4 inch cuban heels

Do mean 9" heels? Your profile says you're 6' 1" "

yeah i know it does but i cant get 9 inch heels that would be silly 5ft 8 is near enough to 6ft to look ok to the ladies they dont norm notice

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? i know i do understand as im only 5ft.4 its says taller on profile but i where 4 inch cuban heels

Do mean 9" heels? Your profile says you're 6' 1" yeah i know it does but i cant get 9 inch heels that would be silly 5ft 8 is near enough to 6ft to look ok to the ladies they dont norm notice"

Really? At 5' 4" with 4" heels women don't notice you're not 6' 1"? Do you only meet visually impaired women or what?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? i know i do understand as im only 5ft.4 its says taller on profile but i where 4 inch cuban heels

Do mean 9" heels? Your profile says you're 6' 1" yeah i know it does but i cant get 9 inch heels that would be silly 5ft 8 is near enough to 6ft to look ok to the ladies they dont norm notice

Really? At 5' 4" with 4" heels women don't notice you're not 6' 1"? Do you only meet visually impaired women or what? "

usually yes, only women with the milk bottle thick glasses

tbh unless the women are really tall no they don't seem to notice, well they havn't said anything.

ive had some strange looks at my shoes tho, i do make sure when messaging that there sight isn't 100% i should add that to my profile really

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

I usually carry my JML foldaway stool with me. I do have a pair of flatforms though whichI regularly end up impaling myself on when in use.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Littlebird and proud its different for the ladies you really are cute when small the guys....

not so much, more small man syndrome

It could possibly be 'small man syndrome' is a result of a lifetime of condescending attitudes from taller people (see you're earlier post as well as this one) such as yourself? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys "

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimum of 5'11" for me. I'm 6ft in heels after all. And any shorter than 5'11 doesn't feel right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me"

Nice to no there is some hope xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno how you can say everyones the same height laid down, If we all had the same physic or manhood this would be true, that doesnt mean us men should get fatter to get taller than the more well endowed gentleman.

If you think, it took seven days to make man perfect. in some cases it was much quicker leaving him smaller than most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He must of made me in about half a day then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 4'11" so never had that problem, usually I have to stand on the stairs to kiss, thankfully my bf likes me teeny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 4'11" so never had that problem, usually I have to stand on the stairs to kiss, thankfully my bf likes me teeny "

Now thats cute. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me

Nice to no there is some hope xx"

There is always hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has it's advantages it can also be a pain in the butt, I need a step stool to reach everything, supermarket top shelves can be a nuisance. As far as relationships and sex are concerned, my height (or lack of it) have never caused me a problem, lots of men like little ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me

Nice to no there is some hope xx

There is always hope "

My other half is taller and i feel dodgy when out in public. Or like last week went for a meal and she put her heels on god did I feel a tit

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By *hatterfabWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield

Once had a meet where a "6ft" guy got out of his flashy car lacking a good 9" in height .... said he didn't think it would matter as his Porsche said it all...... if he hasn't seen it yet it might still say short arse on the roof in red lippy"!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once had a meet where a "6ft" guy got out of his flashy car lacking a good 9" in height .... said he didn't think it would matter as his Porsche said it all...... if he hasn't seen it yet it might still say short arse on the roof in red lippy"!!!"

Haha don't get why guys lie about it. And wow because he got a porsche that makes up for hight. Where do I sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me

Nice to no there is some hope xx

There is always hope

My other half is taller and i feel dodgy when out in public. Or like last week went for a meal and she put her heels on god did I feel a tit "

Worry when she brings an high chair to the table or a booster seat to the car. we are all individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 5ft 7 and can honestly say it has never hindered me getting girlfriends that wee taller than me, but then im a very confident person and ive never let it hinder me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a modest 5' 5" where as Mrs J is 6' in her bare feet (much taller in heels!).

I didn't choose her because of her height/looks & she didn't reject me for my comparative lack of height.

Its a general rule that women prefer taller guys but in my experience its not a deal breaker.

Guys who see us together reckon I must either be loaded to pull her or have a cock like a horse!!

I wish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not fussed if a guy is short xx

Just not keen on very tall guys

Me too, would even go so far to say most of my fun has been had with guys smaller than me

Nice to no there is some hope xx

There is always hope

My other half is taller and i feel dodgy when out in public. Or like last week went for a meal and she put her heels on god did I feel a tit

Worry when she brings an high chair to the table or a booster seat to the car. we are all individuals."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 5ft 3 and have never let it hold me back.. Spent six years in the army where I was called all sorts of weeist names.all in good nature.. What does it matter.. Its the choices we make that make us who we are..not how tall we grow..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me, being 6ft 6 in can be a problem sometimes. I think some people think I'm too tall. I've even told my height would be intimidating lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well for me, being 6ft 6 in can be a problem sometimes. I think some people think I'm too tall. I've even told my height would be intimidating lol. "

Wanna share some..

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Im 5ft 7 and can honestly say it has never hindered me getting girlfriends that wee taller than me, but then im a very confident person and ive never let it hinder me "

Very well said, I think confidence can make up a lack of height to some extent.

I am yet to meet a female who explicity states that she prefers short guys. The majority of women do seem to prefer taller guys but I don't think that height is always a deal breaker.

Op try to focus to your strengths, for example if you are cheeky or charming then try to display that rather than be concerned about your height.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Gets on our nerves when we get a message starting I'm 6.4 ...... Like it's

Amazing how tall they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft 1 and happy with my height x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6ft 1 and happy with my height x"

Wanna share some.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I don't really look at a mans height on his profile as being 5ft2 most are taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to worry about height but have to confess I now like men over 5ft10

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really look at a mans height on his profile as being 5ft2 most are taller than me. "

I mite just be tallet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 5ft 7 and can honestly say it has never hindered me getting girlfriends that wee taller than me, but then im a very confident person and ive never let it hinder me

Very well said, I think confidence can make up a lack of height to some extent.

I am yet to meet a female who explicity states that she prefers short guys. The majority of women do seem to prefer taller guys but I don't think that height is always a deal breaker.

Op try to focus to your strengths, for example if you are cheeky or charming then try to display that rather than be concerned about your height. "

Mrs J is 6' tall, sexy, blond & with more Uni degrees (in a variety of languages) than you can shake a stick at.

She complained that before I came along she could not find a boyfriend - I reckon because guys were too intimidated.

At a modest 5'5" I was the only one who actually had the nerve to try my luck. We have now been married 6 years.

So height or the lack of it is not in my experience a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im 5ft 7 and can honestly say it has never hindered me getting girlfriends that wee taller than me, but then im a very confident person and ive never let it hinder me

Very well said, I think confidence can make up a lack of height to some extent.

I am yet to meet a female who explicity states that she prefers short guys. The majority of women do seem to prefer taller guys but I don't think that height is always a deal breaker.

Op try to focus to your strengths, for example if you are cheeky or charming then try to display that rather than be concerned about your height.

Mrs J is 6' tall, sexy, blond & with more Uni degrees (in a variety of languages) than you can shake a stick at.

She complained that before I came along she could not find a boyfriend - I reckon because guys were too intimidated.

At a modest 5'5" I was the only one who actually had the nerve to try my luck. We have now been married 6 years.

So height or the lack of it is not in my experience a deal breaker. "

Thats great new happy to hear you had 6 great years together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in the exact same boat mate, girls these days seem to be getting taller ive allways found it hard to meet up on hereor normal life because girls rather the taller guys Iit sucks ass being 5, 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be at least six foot for me.

Ladies wear such high heels now but they still want to feel ladylike when stepping out with a guy not some amazon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be at least six foot for me.

Ladies wear such high heels now but they still want to feel ladylike when stepping out with a guy not some amazon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with the topic starter

Being short is annoying me being 5ft tall I admit ladies are less then impressed i don't think all men of my size have a chip on there shoulders

its more of the case of being constantly reminded of it in joke form which brings out a natural defensive reaction.

each to there own i'm glad i have learnt to take it. It also helps most women compliment my cock too which helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

at least i am not the only one

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