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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before I start I need to say this is not a single guy rant nor am I moaning about being ignored.

I am firmly believe that swingers deserve respect and that people should accept rejection with dignity and respect peoples preference.

However I spotted a fab profile, she was very sexy and I was definately planning on messaging her, however on her profile it read a sentence to the effect of "If you are a fatso then woddle off somewhere else I ain't interested in you!"

I am not overweight nor do I disrespect peoples choices and don't believe people should sleep with anyone they are not attracted to, however is that level of rudeness necessary? Should people deserve to be put down so harshly based on how they look? Surely a more polite way of putting it could be done and if this lady was receiving messages from people she did not care for physically then they could be blocked or declined respectfully.

I did not message this lady, I'm no irresistible stud and I'm sure I wouldn't be her type anyway however I am put off by such hateful shallowness and disrespect shown to others.

I do believe all fabbers are entitled to choose who they wish and are free to decline or block whoever they want to however there's no need to hurt peoples feelings.

P.S if fabbers are repeatedly harassed by people who have been declined then that's a different matter.

I rule!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you waddled off after all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definately woddled off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has every right to state her preferences as she chooses. As your response shows the wording is an effective filter as it will deter those who may not get on with her as well as those that she doesn't find attractive. And you can moan on the forum to belittle her and attempt to show everyone what a nice guy you are. Everyone's a winner!

Seriously, what does it matter. Just move on. Some might consider starting a thread slating someone's profile pretty rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, no need for that kind of rudeness.

Works as a great filter though. I wouldn't want to meet anyone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have left identifiable info in your thread so methinks you may get a spell on the naughty step.

Like Wheels stated, you used her rudeness as a filter so it actually works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a bloke had written on his profile that comment he would of Been slated big time, think it's very rude and no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a bloke had written on his profile that comment he would of Been slated big time, think it's very rude and no need for it. "

Gender is immaterial, of course it's extremely rude but it shows the member in her true light and that's a good thing!

I often read profiles and think "what an obnoxious twat" and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A typical double standard is at play. She can disrespect less than svelte like men but heaven fofend if you do likewise.

By the same token, some women can be utterly obnoxious about cock size but bridle if you query them about their holding capacity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She has every right to state her preferences as she chooses. As your response shows the wording is an effective filter as it will deter those who may not get on with her as well as those that she doesn't find attractive. And you can moan on the forum to belittle her and attempt to show everyone what a nice guy you are. Everyone's a winner!

Seriously, what does it matter. Just move on. Some might consider starting a thread slating someone's profile pretty rude."

It wasn't my intention to belittle her nor to get myself over as a really nice guy. I just thought it was quite rude and wondered what everybody thought about it. If the point was to act as a filter then it definately worked in my case however being told no thank you would have worked in my case had I messaged her. Not to say it would work on everybody mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A typical double standard is at play. She can disrespect less than svelte like men but heaven fofend if you do likewise.

By the same token, some women can be utterly obnoxious about cock size but bridle if you query them about their holding capacity."

Good Lord wtf is wrong with you people thinking this is a gender issue?

This is a rude person, end of.

Signed perplexed!!!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

I thimk they say more about themselves with comments like that. Be interesting to see if she gets much interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no filter for blocking larger people so she has developed her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a bloke had written on his profile that comment he would of Been slated big time, think it's very rude and no need for it. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There is no filter for blocking larger people so she has developed her own "

I have a feeling the guage of that filter will work out to exclude more than she bargained for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are polite ways to say things and wording is everything. Some people are just naturally rude and obnoxious. Usually extremely shallow people. Nothing you can do about it. Block them and move on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A typical double standard is at play. She can disrespect less than svelte like men but heaven fofend if you do likewise.

By the same token, some women can be utterly obnoxious about cock size but bridle if you query them about their holding capacity.

Good Lord wtf is wrong with you people thinking this is a gender issue?

This is a rude person, end of.

Signed perplexed!!!"

I agree. Plenty of lads have similar profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great people put that in their profiles as firstly it shows them in their true light and secondly gives you a great reason to swerve such a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's great people put that in their profiles as firstly it shows them in their true light and secondly gives you a great reason to swerve such a person "

I agree

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