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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far I've had four messages off the same man. I read two but didn't reply and have left the others unread. Waiting to see how many he sends before he gives up. Am I being a bitch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may be new and not realized he's sent it on multiple occasions. I'm using a mobile and once I have sent a message if I press back rather than home it takes me back to the message and pressing send again will send it twice. I think you should reply just once so that he knows your intentions x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No. He will have had a warning about messaging you and not receiving a reply so he should heed those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right Steve I never thought of it like that, twice may be accidental but four times is unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's sent four different messages so it's not a mistake on his part! I sometimes reply saying no thanks but just being naughty and seeing how many he sends!

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By *olly_1983TV/TS
over a year ago

there

Anne, you should be flattered he's sent four different messages. I usually get the same message from the same guy on multiple occasions, and I don't reply to that, I can't imagine "oh, I'm so pleased you took the time to copy and paste the same message to me multiple times, we should jump into bed" is the response he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's sent four different messages so it's not a mistake on his part! I sometimes reply saying no thanks but just being naughty and seeing how many he sends! "

In that case you should just block him really? I wouldn't need telling twice Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You little minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No honey I've had the same myself and got too me big time when he messaged me on Facebook and other sites, some people just can't take the hint and when you politely tell them they're not for you get insulting,xxxxx

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton


"So far I've had four messages off the same man. I read two but didn't reply and have left the others unread. Waiting to see how many he sends before he gives up. Am I being a bitch? "

No, you're not being a bitch

Four messages seems a bit rich

You have not replied

(Now he's crying inside)

Oh, you cruel and heartless witch.....

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton


"So far I've had four messages off the same man. I read two but didn't reply and have left the others unread. Waiting to see how many he sends before he gives up. Am I being a bitch?

No, you're not being a bitch

Four messages seems a bit rich

You have not replied

(Now he's crying inside)

Oh, you cruel and heartless witch.....

"

Written with humour and love of course!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ive had about 10 then when i finally replied to say im clearly not interested he tried to convince me otherwise, then finally took the hint

Only to message me the other day saying hello and that we used to speak on his other profile

Aye right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had one guy who would always message whenever I put a status up, despite me saying no thanks everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anne, you should be flattered he's sent four different messages. I usually get the same message from the same guy on multiple occasions, and I don't reply to that, I can't imagine "oh, I'm so pleased you took the time to copy and paste the same message to me multiple times, we should jump into bed" is the response he wants. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I actually think it turns guys on too know your not interested but they still seem to bug you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you ever get the blatent copy paste message, then a few days later the same exact message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever get the blatent copy paste message, then a few days later the same exact message?"

We do all the time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far I've had four messages off the same man. I read two but didn't reply and have left the others unread. Waiting to see how many he sends before he gives up. Am I being a bitch? "

Why don't just block if you don't want to chat to him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So far I've had four messages off the same man. I read two but didn't reply and have left the others unread. Waiting to see how many he sends before he gives up. Am I being a bitch?

Why don't just block if you don't want to chat to him?"

My block list is huge! I was seeing how many messages he'd send before he gave up!

If I get the same cut and paste message twice they're blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you ever get the blatent copy paste message, then a few days later the same exact message?"

Yeah I've had that from 3 guys and blocked all of them :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think you are being a bit mean. The guy is clearly deranged and the kindest thing to do would be to block him.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Thats why I just block them. Saves their time and mine x

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

i think you are being a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant knock the bloke.at least hes persistant lol

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