FabSwingers.com forum: Want to slap myself....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds a bit kinky innit?

More seriously, I just hate my own stupidity sometimes: I have absolutely no problem to chat up a girl when I only want a bit of fun or on here, playing the charming and sexy guys.

But last night, I had a vanilla date with a girl I was really fond of: I haven't even been able to kiss her as I was absolutely petrified

Felt like being 14 again!!

How come I can be so confident when it doesn't matter and terribly shy when it's serious??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds a bit kinky innit?

More seriously, I just hate my own stupidity sometimes: I have absolutely no problem to chat up a girl when I only want a bit of fun or on here, playing the charming and sexy guys.

But last night, I had a vanilla date with a girl I was really fond of: I haven't even been able to kiss her as I was absolutely petrified

Felt like being 14 again!!

How come I can be so confident when it doesn't matter and terribly shy when it's serious?? "

Because there is more at stake as you have feelings for her, at the end of the day you don't need feelings to fuck people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mabey you have a fear of failure or stand more to loose as opposed to a none emotional encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds a bit kinky innit?

More seriously, I just hate my own stupidity sometimes: I have absolutely no problem to chat up a girl when I only want a bit of fun or on here, playing the charming and sexy guys.

But last night, I had a vanilla date with a girl I was really fond of: I haven't even been able to kiss her as I was absolutely petrified

Felt like being 14 again!!

How come I can be so confident when it doesn't matter and terribly shy when it's serious?? "

Because she matters to you and you obviously don't want to rush things. hope it goes well for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you meet on here you both know what your there for, so there's less chance of making the wrong move or saying the wrong thing.

A straight forward vanilla meet has a lot more grey areas and things to trip you up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds a bit kinky innit?

More seriously, I just hate my own stupidity sometimes: I have absolutely no problem to chat up a girl when I only want a bit of fun or on here, playing the charming and sexy guys.

But last night, I had a vanilla date with a girl I was really fond of: I haven't even been able to kiss her as I was absolutely petrified

Felt like being 14 again!!

How come I can be so confident when it doesn't matter and terribly shy when it's serious??

Because she matters to you and you obviously don't want to rush things. hope it goes well for you.

I guess by not doing any move, I killed the thing a little... oh well, thankfully, I can count on my charm to have some meaningless sex session to feel better

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