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Ruined Orgasms

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By *iss__Kitty OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Cornwall

I love watching my subs face when I ruin his orgasm. Does anyone else enjoy this sort of play with their partner, either as the victim or the one dishing out the ruined orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pisses me right off... I bloomin tell him 'keep going, just like that' then he goes and moves his fingers grrrrrrr.

I do enjoy getting my own back though

Sarah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I thought that this was a thread about people who are just on the verge and then for some reason find themselves reminded that they still need to send a Christmas card to their aunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just about to cum, and my leg cramped up and I collapsed on the floor !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get . disturbed by phone calls, texts, delivery at front door. Just regular life stuff nothing exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just about to cum, and my leg cramped up and I collapsed on the floor !"

this happens to me as well now that painful I bet childbirth isn't as bad. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not into it.

forcing my sub to hold a hitachi magic wand to her clit, whilst i spank her ass with a paddle, to the tune of many intense and forced orgasms - for neither the wand nor her ass, can be moved until I say so.

Now that is another matter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe.. I used do it to my ex..

Sat on my face.. toungues going ten to the dozen.. she starts bucking her hips screaming, and I stop .. lol..

Never works tho as she used to sit up and grind my face lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol but look daft hitting the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy it, the frustration and self restraint

followed by a round 2 of going at it again!!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Nope not into it.

forcing my sub to hold a hitachi magic wand to her clit, whilst i spank her ass with a paddle, to the tune of many intense and forced orgasms - for neither the wand nor her ass, can be moved until I say so.

Now that is another matter... "

That made me a little hot under the collar.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Teased slowly then left, then teased again and left.Then teased and.. each time ratcheting up the point of orgasm

Until.....

Well that depends on if they are good or bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Teased slowly then left, then teased again and left.Then teased and.. each time ratcheting up the point of orgasm

Until.....

Well that depends on if they are good or bad

"

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode "

This - but I do it because when she does eventually cum its earth shattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope not into it.

forcing my sub to hold a hitachi magic wand to her clit, whilst i spank her ass with a paddle, to the tune of many intense and forced orgasms - for neither the wand nor her ass, can be moved until I say so.

Now that is another matter...

That made me a little hot under the collar. "

The hottest thing about it ..was the squirt soaked carpet and the crumpled, quivering, beauty, on my bedroom floor ...that was she

Absolutely delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode

This - but I do it because when she does eventually cum its earth shattering. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode

This - but I do it because when she does eventually cum its earth shattering. thanks I thought I was being a bit selfish .

This "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've introduced this to many of the cuck couples I've been with. The ladies love it and strangely...so do the little cuck husbands! And I like supervising it being done......but thats my job as the "bull".

The look on there little faces......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love watching my subs face when I ruin his orgasm. Does anyone else enjoy this sort of play with their partner, either as the victim or the one dishing out the ruined orgasm?"

Not really its not about mutual pleasure for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when my partner doors this to me. I prefer year and denial. Especially when it's repeated again and again. Then when she stops all together and makes me please her.l love her talking dirty to me while she does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode "

This, then force multiple orgasms out of them with my wand

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I would find it very enjoyable. But given that it would make sex last even longer, I'm not sure the Mrs would be up for it.

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

As I understand it a ruined orgasm is when the person cums but there is no intensity ie ejaculating but no pleasure . Not sure a woman could have a ruined orgasm

Vixen

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"I do enjoy sucking on a clit and watching .my bound and blinfolded subject writhe with pleasure .then getting them within an inch of orgasm then stopping .again and again .is that just me being selfish .or just like rewinding a favourite bit of a porno .answers on a postcode "

Isn't that edging not a ruined orgasm

Vixen x

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

LOVE it especially if I've teased tem for ages beforehand

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"Nope not into it.

forcing my sub to hold a hitachi magic wand to her clit, whilst i spank her ass with a paddle, to the tune of many intense and forced orgasms - for neither the wand nor her ass, can be moved until I say so.

Now that is another matter... "

It's a gender thing i think forced orgasm for women ruined orgasm for men. It's all about the Dom/me/sub dynamic

Vixen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I understand it a ruined orgasm is when the person cums but there is no intensity ie ejaculating but no pleasure . Not sure a woman could have a ruined orgasm

Vixen"

I don't think this is possible. A man can orgasm without ejaculating - I know because I can do it - but I don't think the other way round ...beside a prostate massage that is ..but that's not really ejaculation in the true sense of the word.

In fact can someone explain what a ruined orgasm is ...although I'm certainly not interested in having one.

I agree with what you're saying about women though ..they can't have a ruined orgasm

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"As I understand it a ruined orgasm is when the person cums but there is no intensity ie ejaculating but no pleasure . Not sure a woman could have a ruined orgasm

Vixen

I don't think this is possible. A man can orgasm without ejaculating - I know because I can do it - but I don't think the other way round ...beside a prostate massage that is ..but that's not really ejaculation in the true sense of the word.

In fact can someone explain what a ruined orgasm is ...although I'm certainly not interested in having one.

I agree with what you're saying about women though ..they can't have a ruined orgasm "

Ive done both on a man. Yes ive made my boy orgasm without ejaculating. Very intense for him. A ruined orgasm is different.

It's hard to explain

Vixen x

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

A man would be stimulated right up to the point of ejaculation. As soon as he is about to cum the stimulation stops, he ejaculates but gets no satisfaction only cum coming out of his cock.

This is often followed by post orgasm torture. Where the cock is jacked off after he has cum and the end of his cock is rubbed and squeezed causing intense pain! never tried it but seen it many times on some dodgy porn sites

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

Im also quite skilled at prostate massage

Vixen x

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"A man would be stimulated right up to the point of ejaculation. As soon as he is about to cum the stimulation stops, he ejaculates but gets no satisfaction only cum coming out of his cock.

This is often followed by post orgasm torture. Where the cock is jacked off after he has cum and the end of his cock is rubbed and squeezed causing intense pain! never tried it's but seen it many times on some dodgy porn sites "

Thanks lol yes that's a good explanation

Vixen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just about to cum, and my leg cramped up and I collapsed on the floor !

this happens to me as well now that painful I bet childbirth isn't as bad. lol"

apparently it's like having every bone in your body fracture at the same time lol, glad I'm having a c-section...if I do manage to have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fact can someone explain what a ruined orgasm is ...although I'm certainly not interested in having one.

I agree with what you're saying about women though ..they can't have a ruined orgasm "

Not sure if this qualifies, but I have known what I call 'implosions'. I get to the edge, ready to jump, and then it stops. Nothing. Flat tire. No idea what causes it. It's not a nice feeling. But when it happens with a partner, I try to make light of it. There are other pleasures to enjoy. It can also happen when I masturbate.

Surely I am not alone to experience this?

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"In fact can someone explain what a ruined orgasm is ...although I'm certainly not interested in having one.

I agree with what you're saying about women though ..they can't have a ruined orgasm

Not sure if this qualifies, but I have known what I call 'implosions'. I get to the edge, ready to jump, and then it stops. Nothing. Flat tire. No idea what causes it. It's not a nice feeling. But when it happens with a partner, I try to make light of it. There are other pleasures to enjoy. It can also happen when I masturbate.

Surely I am not alone to experience this?"

The Op is a mistress/Domme I think. In the bdsm world sub men sometimes crave ruined orgasm. Its all about control

Vixen

Ps as a Domme I have done ruined orgasm but now I like my boy to have intense pleasure from edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 'implosions' happen spontaneous. I am not involved in BDSM.

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

I can't answer privately as we are blocked because we are a couple

Vixen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't answer privately as we are blocked because we are a couple

Vixen x"

That's odd - you should be able to contact me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i prefer edging.

AS much as i enjoy BDSM a lot of it outside of the dom/ub mind games is more exploration of sensation and that razors edge between pain and pleasure and the mixing of the two at the right points to create something new and intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man would be stimulated right up to the point of ejaculation. As soon as he is about to cum the stimulation stops, he ejaculates but gets no satisfaction only cum coming out of his cock.

This is often followed by post orgasm torture. Where the cock is jacked off after he has cum and the end of his cock is rubbed and squeezed causing intense pain! never tried it but seen it many times on some dodgy porn sites "

Good explanation!

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mrs like to suck me right to the point am about to explode then digs her nails in my groin erea to stop me!!!

It's frustrating but horny & in the end I have to pin her down & fuck her

I love it & after I've been denied cumming I can't seem to cum for ages so the hot fucking after is great

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I love doing this teasing a guy to the edge then reeling him back again the look of extasy followed by no why the hell did you stop is such a turn on lol

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Mine was the other week when the lady sat next to me at the funeral asked me to stop.

She finished me in the pub later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was the other week when the lady sat next to me at the funeral asked me to stop.

She finished me in the pub later"

That's disgusting and disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just typed part of the title in the forum search as I was curious to see what might come up!

This is something i've never experienced but it sounds incredible

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

Me too! I always chuckle on helth programmes when it usualy says that people can't locate a protate! pahhh x easy peasy
"Im also quite skilled at prostate massage

Vixen x"

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"A man would be stimulated right up to the point of ejaculation. As soon as he is about to cum the stimulation stops, he ejaculates but gets no satisfaction only cum coming out of his cock.

This is often followed by post orgasm torture. Where the cock is jacked off after he has cum and the end of his cock is rubbed and squeezed causing intense pain! never tried it but seen it many times on some dodgy porn sites "

Post orgasm wanking would break me in every way possible.

Denial and edging are another matter.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"A man would be stimulated right up to the point of ejaculation. As soon as he is about to cum the stimulation stops, he ejaculates but gets no satisfaction only cum coming out of his cock.

This is often followed by post orgasm torture. Where the cock is jacked off after he has cum and the end of his cock is rubbed and squeezed causing intense pain! never tried it but seen it many times on some dodgy porn sites

Post orgasm wanking would break me in every way possible.

Denial and edging are another matter."

Tends to get your parents relationship questioned.

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