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"each to there own... some people climb mountains, others race motorbikes, some bungee jump, parachute jump, join the army, don't wear seat belts...the list of risks in life is endless....it's entirely their choice." Yes but for most of these you are just putting yourself at risk, with a sti you spread it to others. | |||
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"each to there own... some people climb mountains, others race motorbikes, some bungee jump, parachute jump, join the army, don't wear seat belts...the list of risks in life is endless....it's entirely their choice. Yes but for most of these you are just putting yourself at risk, with a sti you spread it to others." this is a good point, but two people have sex together so they both take the risk, not to mention people the then have sex with later.... You have 2 options, 1- don't have sex 2- protect yourself I know which one we opt for | |||
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"each to there own... some people climb mountains, others race motorbikes, some bungee jump, parachute jump, join the army, don't wear seat belts...the list of risks in life is endless....it's entirely their choice. Yes but for most of these you are just putting yourself at risk, with a sti you spread it to others." Unless you drug the other person the people having a bare back gangbang have chosen to take that risk including others It's not for me but I would defend anyone's right to make that choice | |||
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"I am just going to put it out there porn stars have to have regular exams and they have to be signed fit for work this should work for creampie/bareback if organised properly x" We are fully tested every 28 days and get written certs with our Passports numbers on so they cant be used by others, people we shoot with have to have the same. How many creampie parties do this and who checks the certs? These parties are dangerous if organised just for profit. | |||
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"I am just going to put it out there porn stars have to have regular exams and they have to be signed fit for work this should work for creampie/bareback if organised properly x We are fully tested every 28 days and get written certs with our Passports numbers on so they cant be used by others, people we shoot with have to have the same. How many creampie parties do this and who checks the certs? These parties are dangerous if organised just for profit." stumbled across your site the other day kim, very nice. i'd love to get involved, I'm a tv cameraman by trade if you need a hand | |||
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"I am just going to put it out there porn stars have to have regular exams and they have to be signed fit for work this should work for creampie/bareback if organised properly x" And porn stars get STIs no matter how many checks they have. Regular tests don't stop STIs! Unprotected sex its not worth the risk! Using protection helps to protect yourself and others ! | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! " | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! " Exactly, smoking, being overweight, drinking excessively etc all risk life, and are almost certainly more risky than bareback sex Yet we all know people do these things. It's part of human nature, yes it may seem illogical to some to take a risk with your life for pleasure but people do, I would advise people just not to get wound up about people doing it as long as you're not doing it yourself! | |||
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"Std on a plate anyone?" pmsl - and a partridge in a pear tree | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! Exactly, smoking, being overweight, drinking excessively etc all risk life, and are almost certainly more risky than bareback sex " What utter twaddle. Since when does smoking one cigarette equate to being more risky than one bareback session? | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! Exactly, smoking, being overweight, drinking excessively etc all risk life, and are almost certainly more risky than bareback sex What utter twaddle. Since when does smoking one cigarette equate to being more risky than one bareback session?" To continue: excessive smoking, drinking or over-eating has accumulative effects on one's health. Bareback sex however is a GAMBLE whether you do it once or fifty times! | |||
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"I'm not gonna say I've never had a bareback fuck but I've recently noticed people organising meets for multiple creampies. I'm all for each to their own but that just feels like dicing with death. It can't be worth it. Am I being a drama queen or does this kind of thing leave others equally shocked?" No more shocked than the pregnant women meeting strangers for sex. Reality: nothing on here shocks me! | |||
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"For me I couldn't indulge in this, actually makes me feel physically sick thinking of loads of guys spunk in me at once!!! But each to their own, very very risky though!!" It's just a mmmm feeling. Only done it once with multiple guys but it was a fantasy that a few good friends helped become a reality... Waited for my all clear afterwards before meeting others x But it is each to their own.. I know some women don't like Cum anywhere near them.. Cali | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! Exactly, smoking, being overweight, drinking excessively etc all risk life, and are almost certainly more risky than bareback sex What utter twaddle. Since when does smoking one cigarette equate to being more risky than one bareback session? To continue: excessive smoking, drinking or over-eating has accumulative effects on one's health. Bareback sex however is a GAMBLE whether you do it once or fifty times!" Could you quote the part where anyone mentioned one day smoking or drinking? Most people know smoking or excessively drinking is a risk because they're not one day things Bare back sex is also a cumulative risk, you're chances of infection increases with increasing exposure Just because you get away from it once doesn't make it safe The people on here with no knowledge of maths or statistics who post like they do is ridiculous | |||
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"Consenting adults making their own sexual choices freely amongst one another. Quelle surprise!! Exactly, smoking, being overweight, drinking excessively etc all risk life, and are almost certainly more risky than bareback sex What utter twaddle. Since when does smoking one cigarette equate to being more risky than one bareback session? To continue: excessive smoking, drinking or over-eating has accumulative effects on one's health. Bareback sex however is a GAMBLE whether you do it once or fifty times! Could you quote the part where anyone mentioned one day smoking or drinking? Most people know smoking or excessively drinking is a risk because they're not one day things Bare back sex is also a cumulative risk, you're chances of infection increases with increasing exposure Just because you get away from it once doesn't make it safe The people on here with no knowledge of maths or statistics who post like they do is ridiculous " bless your cotton socks. Bareback sex is almost never cumulative. In fact the only scenario I can imagine it being cumulative is if you get an infection from one person and a worse one from another. I repeat bareback sex is a gamble. The thing is the person with whom you engage may not be aware of the infection or may simply not profess. It is Russian roulette but not knowing whether the gun is loaded at all. What you simply should have stated is that the more times you have bareback sex increases the chance of getting an STD. That is a fact. One person may do bareback once and catch something. Another person may do bareback fifty times and still be STD free. The previous 49 times have had zero bearing on whether that person catches something. Back to the excesses of food, drink and smoking, one's health deteriorates because of the cumulative effect. Now again imply I'm the ridiculous one. | |||
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"The risk of bareback sex is cumulative, because every time you do it you have a extremely small chance of catching something life threatening, but if you multiply that up over time your risk of catching something serious increases, that's is GCSE statistics (I did A level but that basic principle is below that) Smoking risk is also cumulative, the higher the exposure the greater the risk, hence your helpful one day straw man argument However the evidence is also overwhelming smoking and excessively drinking are extremely rarely one day things, hence why statistically these things are very dangerous and certainly more dangerous than bareback over a period rather than a single episode I don't smoke, rarely drink and use condoms so am happy to sit and talk about this from a position of doing none of them but with a background I statistics and research it just annoys me to see risk and probability misused or misunderstood here or in the media as it so often is" I repeat: One person may do bareback once and catch something. Another person may do bareback fifty times and still be STD free. The previous 49 times have had zero bearing on whether that person catches something. To make it clear: The previous 49 times have had zero bearing on whether that person catches something ON THE 50TH TIME. | |||
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"The risk of bareback sex is cumulative, because every time you do it you have a extremely small chance of catching something life threatening, but if you multiply that up over time your risk of catching something serious increases, that's is GCSE statistics (I did A level but that basic principle is below that) Smoking risk is also cumulative, the higher the exposure the greater the risk, hence your helpful one day straw man argument However the evidence is also overwhelming smoking and excessively drinking are extremely rarely one day things, hence why statistically these things are very dangerous and certainly more dangerous than bareback over a period rather than a single episode I don't smoke, rarely drink and use condoms so am happy to sit and talk about this from a position of doing none of them but with a background I statistics and research it just annoys me to see risk and probability misused or misunderstood here or in the media as it so often is I repeat: One person may do bareback once and catch something. Another person may do bareback fifty times and still be STD free. The previous 49 times have had zero bearing on whether that person catches something. To make it clear: The previous 49 times have had zero bearing on whether that person catches something ON THE 50TH TIME." It is exactly the same with coins (unless the coin is weighted), with each toss you have an equal chance of the coin landing on heads or tails, previous tosses have no bearing. However I do prefer the Russian Roulette analogy simply because there is an unknown element. | |||
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"I'm not gonna say I've never had a bareback fuck but I've recently noticed people organising meets for multiple creampies. I'm all for each to their own but that just feels like dicing with death. It can't be worth it. Am I being a drama queen or does this kind of thing leave others equally shocked?" Defo not for me ! I cant stand cum in me .. Urgh But we live in a society of free choice so I'm not condemming it either x | |||
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"you cant compare smoking with bareback sex. thats stupid!! you smoke a fag, you aint gonna get cancer. you fuck bare, you may well get AIDS (if the person you are doing has obviously) however, you smoke 1000 fags, the chances of you getting cancer increase massivly you can fuck 1000 women and still have no greater chance of getting AIDS." It's the attitude to risk where it's comparible You see people on here saying they wouldn't bareback because it might kill them, yet they're listed as smokers Whilst one fag won't kill you and one sex episode could transfer (HIV) the point is about a lifestyle choice over years Choosing random bareback fucks, smoking, drinking excessively etc, over a period of time will all increase your chances of dying, the evidence behind that statement is undeniable Yet we still see people doing one of these criticise those who do another for taking a risk, in my view, as someone that does none of those, that is nonsensical | |||
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"you cant compare smoking with bareback sex. thats stupid!! you smoke a fag, you aint gonna get cancer. you fuck bare, you may well get AIDS (if the person you are doing has obviously) however, you smoke 1000 fags, the chances of you getting cancer increase massivly you can fuck 1000 women and still have no greater chance of getting AIDS." Actually you're more likely going to get a respiratory disease but glad you're thinking on my lines . To be honest I'm not going to risk any | |||
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"seeing it happen more and more at clubs. I just make a mental note of the people who participated and avoid them and I try and play as safe as possible, ie condoms and no oral if I have mouth sores/ulcers and get checked every 2-3 months, whether I've been active or not." I don't think i have ever seen bareback gangbangs at clubs. | |||
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"Creampie gang bangs are crazy guys, your lives are worth too much to waste it just for a shag." couldn't agree more - just not worth the risk. | |||
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"A creampie gangbang, not for me It is because of this reason, you see I'd rather have steak Or a nice lemon cake, Than stir someone else's porridge, for tea.... " | |||
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"And finally do you spend anything like as much time vilifying those who go out when ill and spread flu as you do those you believe are taking risks with HIV? " When I got mumps a couple of years ago I was doing quite a bit of vilifying, I can tell you! Something so easily prevented by an inoculation is still around. A sneeze can infect an awful lot more people than ejaculate or blood. Surely for something as intimate as sex there should be consideration for the other person. To be honest, I don't care whether others play bareback or not, but they aint playing it with me! | |||
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"To all those who are pointing fingers and saying its stupid to risk your like having BB sex I have a few questions for you: Considering more people die from catching flu every year than from AIDS and that the flu virus is a lot more virulent do you have the same attitude to those who risk catching that virus? Do you "protect" yourself in the same way from flu as you do from HIV? And finally do you spend anything like as much time vilifying those who go out when ill and spread flu as you do those you believe are taking risks with HIV? " How ludicrous. | |||
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"I am just going to put it out there porn stars have to have regular exams and they have to be signed fit for work this should work for creampie/bareback if organised properly x" Really? So, you are going to get a bunch of guys to get tested, then not have sex until their tests come back ok, and then not have sex again until the gangbang? FFS.... which planet are you on? Getting a group of reliable, decent guys just to turn up at a gangbang is hard enough according to those who prefer gangbangs, factor in the rest of the fairytale and the chances of them all being good little boys are.... multiply by three... take two.... divide by the square root of pi... and carry the one... about fekkin NIL! | |||
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" People are saying bareback is stupid because it is and you sound like one really stupid man." No it's not stupid it's a choice. It happens a lot.... We are forever having to refuse people when they want it. We watch out for each other as have found that most people will try to go bare if they can.. I find stupid is those that think safer sex means they dont need testing often.. I often see people on here saying they go every 6 months... That's really not often enough | |||
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"To all those who are pointing fingers and saying its stupid to risk your like having BB sex I have a few questions for you: Considering more people die from catching flu every year than from AIDS and that the flu virus is a lot more virulent do you have the same attitude to those who risk catching that virus? Do you "protect" yourself in the same way from flu as you do from HIV? And finally do you spend anything like as much time vilifying those who go out when ill and spread flu as you do those you believe are taking risks with HIV? " How ridiculous. | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it." | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it." What a stupid comment. No one deserves to catch anything. In my younger years I never played safe.. and I'm sure if everyone was honest they would admit to times agent heat of the moment got the better of them. No one deserves anything.. if your that worried don't swing as assume everyone you meet has just had a bareback orgy... As people aren't honest. Btw this is calis views .. lee may have his own x | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it." There is every chance they are barebacking with their partners ! Maybe you should think first before such sweeping statements | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it. There is every chance they are barebacking with their partners ! Maybe you should think first before such sweeping statements " I'm just saying the truth and alot are not barebacking with their partners. They are single men and women. | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it. There is every chance they are barebacking with their partners ! Maybe you should think first before such sweeping statements I'm just saying the truth and alot are not barebacking with their partners. They are single men and women." And.... They still don't deserve anything... Um sure you have had unprotected sex at some point in your life... | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it." Shocking. | |||
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"Yes i have done bareback sex in the past when i have been in relationships" Did you get them screened along with yourself first..? | |||
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"I have seen loads of profiles saying they only do safe sex as well, but they are barebacking in their pictures. One day these idoits will catch HIV and they deserve it. There is every chance they are barebacking with their partners ! Maybe you should think first before such sweeping statements " | |||
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"Yes i have done bareback sex in the past when i have been in relationships Did you get them screened along with yourself first..?" I did get screened and so did the 3 guys, i just think creampie gangbangs or bareback meets are not a good thing to do. | |||
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"Yes i have done bareback sex in the past when i have been in relationships Did you get them screened along with yourself first..? I did get screened and so did the 3 guys, i just think creampie gangbangs or bareback meets are not a good thing to do." I do btw think that anyone that says they have never ever had risky sex is lying but that's just me.. and a bad thing is fine to say... But to say they deserve to die is another | |||
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