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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the vanilla world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on " I'm not English but having relationship/ partner/ lover (whatever you name it) with English man. Is it taboo? | |||
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"Lol what world are you living in?? Never known for it to be taboo. unless maybe the royal family" Did the Royals not make him end his Relationship with the south African ??? | |||
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"I'd probably look twice if I saw an English man or woman walking down the street with an Inuit to be fair" is that because they were in full winter gear ? Lmao | |||
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"People act as though racism is back in the dark ages but I still see and hear plenty of it. Mostly of ignorance, some malicious. There seem to be more and more with the 'no Blacks/Asians (just my 'preference')' line on here too." To be fair I understand the who no asian just my preference thing- im (south) asian and other (south) asian girls just don't turn me on at all. No matter how pretty. never dated asian nor chinese and not sure i will. So i avoid them but thats just my preference. | |||
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"People act as though racism is back in the dark ages but I still see and hear plenty of it. Mostly of ignorance, some malicious. There seem to be more and more with the 'no Blacks/Asians (just my 'preference')' line on here too. To be fair I understand the who no asian just my preference thing- im (south) asian and other (south) asian girls just don't turn me on at all. No matter how pretty. never dated asian nor chinese and not sure i will. So i avoid them but thats just my preference." No your 'preference' is for the things you prefer, not those you avoid. I can see why people would seek out what they most find attractive, but have difficulty understanding why people instead put an emphasis on what they don't. | |||
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"The last time I checked we were in 2013 not the 1950s!!!" So are you saying that there is no racism now? | |||
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"The last time I checked we were in 2013 not the 1950s!!! So are you saying that there is no racism now? " Course not but it's certainly not a taboo. You're always going to get narrow minded people but that's the same with anything. | |||
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"Cannot see why this is being bought up to be honest. " | |||
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" No your 'preference' is for the things you prefer, not those you avoid. I can see why people would seek out what they most find attractive, but have difficulty understanding why people instead put an emphasis on what they don't." Yes my preference is for white, is what I meant but my post was getting too long (using mobile). I havnt added any exclusions on my profile, just stuff I "prefer". I personally do find it easier to not have to contact those that say they dont want asian, racist or not, and I dont mind because there is clearly a significant percent of members who dont mind, or infact prefer some colour with a good cock lol | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? " I guess it depends on who you're talking too. My family is whiter than white, lived in the whitest city in the UK. I certainly had no experience with black or Asian guys until I moved away from York. But I'd bet you right now if I met a guy and had a serious relationship with him my mother would be more concerned about his employment history than his colour. Racism is unfortunately still very prevalent in this country. We may not have the old 'no blacks, jews, or dogs' signs in the windows but there is still a taboo in certain areas of the country. Shame really. | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the VANILLA world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on " Seems a fair few of you missed the word vanilla. The reason i asked was because of my experience being with a non-asian lass and a conversation i had with a friend on here about mixed race relationships and whether the world had moved on. For me it was frowned upon from both sides and that was less than 7 years ago!! So yes there was a reason why i brought it up for a general open discussion, no i haven't been locked in a cupboard for the last 30 years and i know it's 2013 but whomever thinks people have moved on and this is considered acceptable in wider society perhaps should read Medwayman and JFun's posts | |||
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"Think this guy must have been locked in a cupboard for the last 30 years. " I think you are kidding yourself if you don't think this topic is still relevant today. | |||
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"The heart can't tell what colour a person is, only how you feel about them." Whilst i agree with this. I also believe some do still look down at mixed race couples. Sorry to say some of my own family had comments when i got pregnant Admitted it isn't so much a factor now but there will always be those that disagree A blanket statement saying in todays age; really is a bit daft. Because not everyone will be honest & say its the colour of the person that's the issue. | |||
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"Can't see why the fuss gas ever been about, after all men have been marrying women for centuries ....... Now that is interracial in any book..... Or is it interspieces.....;-)" Only if men and women actually came from mars and Venus respectively | |||
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"Some very interesting views and experiences from all I do think, although times have moved on, vanilla mixed race relationships are still looked at in an odd way. It's still an unfortunate but true side of some parts of society & the comments of disapproval come from both sides of the fence " Sod em though, really If they (who ever they are) care more about the colour of someones skin, and not of your happiness; do you really want them in your life? I know I had no qualms about what I was doing, so I wont tolerate those that judged me based on my ex's skin colour. Their opinions/thoughts just showed them for what they really are, and have had no impact on me, or my little one x | |||
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"To be fair I think the OP asked a fair question. It SHOULN'T be tabboo in this day and age but I would say that some people would look twice at mixed race couples. Tabboo is probably too strong a word though, but I know if I was in a mixed race relationship, living where I do, I would expect second glances and comments. Not that it would stop me, before anyone says anything but some people are still very narrow minded about certain things." Are there any black people in Aberaeron yet then ?? lol. When i lived near you think there was like one black family in Cardigan, and they never suffered any racism, whereas me...being an english kid in a backward welsh school suffered plenty ! And that was just from the teachers ! ;p | |||
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"My niece has been totally disowned by her mum and the family apart from myself and my younger sister... Because she is now dating an Asian guy... And expecting his baby... While I personally wouldn't.. I don't think it's right she has been totally excluded.. but then my cousin suffered the same fate when he married a lady he had met while serving over seas. My family is very anti mixed race... But I would hope I would be more understanding if it was my children. " | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the vanilla world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on " Not in our home its not .... we think they are great !!! | |||
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"People act as though racism is back in the dark ages but I still see and hear plenty of it. Mostly of ignorance, some malicious. There seem to be more and more with the 'no Blacks/Asians (just my 'preference')' line on here too. I don't think there's generally an issue about mixed relationships though. At least not that people would admit to openly." Racism is still alive and well sadly. And as was pointed out above, there's no general issue with mixed relationships and if there was, you won't find people openly admitting it. Ask a few Asian girls if their parents would freak if they brought a black guy home for them to meet? Maybe "taboo" was the wrong word to use but to think society has moved on completely from the issue of interracial relationships is a little naive. | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the vanilla world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on " People who were bigoted 20 years ago will still be most likley but these days its fairly common place so you don't get people looking and pointing. If it works for people then thats all that counts. | |||
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"The heart can't tell what colour a person is, only how you feel about them." I'm with SexyBrian on this. | |||
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"My ex (who was white) and I ultimately broke up because we come from different ethnic backgrounds. I think it can be harder to be in mixed relationship but it can work too. " I would agree with that broadly, even more so if the people have been brought up in vastly different cultures. | |||
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"My ex (who was white) and I ultimately broke up because we come from different ethnic backgrounds. I think it can be harder to be in mixed relationship but it can work too. " My daughter was in a relationship with a Ghanian for six years. Although they're both black culturally they were polls apart. She's now married to a white man, her equal, treats her like the princess she is. My ex-husband and I love him to bits, so yes, it can work! | |||
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"is this guy for real??? " ...It seems so this is 2013 yes we haven't gone back in time have we. | |||
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"is this guy for real??? ...It seems so this is 2013 yes we haven't gone back in time have we. " Yes this guy is for real and no we haven't gone back in time!! It's interesting from my perspective that i have asked a legitimate question that site members have understood & made observations & comments from their own experiences whilst some are questioning what year i'm from and blocking me No skin off my nose i'm happy with any comment but the question i asked was based on my own experience of a relationship i was in &, from what's been said on here by those who understood the question, i'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it. | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the vanilla world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on " It's as redundant an issue in 2013 as you could wish to imagine. But as Wheels notes early, a subject that courts prejudice I'm sure. J x | |||
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"Are they still considered a taboo? I don't mean in the swinging world i mean in the vanilla world. Just an open question i'd like to here people thoughts on It's as redundant an issue in 2013 as you could wish to imagine. But as Wheels notes early, a subject that courts prejudice I'm sure. J x" Redundant ? Live the life and see how redundant it really is,You can ram as much Equality and PC bollox down the publics throats as you like but as someone who has spent 58 years with it i can assure you that Racism is alive and prospering in this Country | |||
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"i'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it." Someone show me where, in this sentence, the OP states HE does not accept it? | |||
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" i'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it." i think you have not understood what the guy is saying stop rolling the eyes and read properly he isnt alone in thinking that everyone in society has moved on is exactly what it says nt sure how u have come up with your conclusion | |||
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"I don't think explaining it will help. Not until the morning at least. But the smileys keep being quoted is funny." You're right. A case of one too many creme de menthes at the works Christmas do I think. | |||
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"i'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it. Someone show me where, in this sentence, the OP states HE does not accept it?He says (I'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it) He says he is not willing to accept it?? W.T.F does that mean to you then " It means you've got hold of the wrong end of the stick. He's saying not everyone accepts it not HE doesn't accept it! | |||
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"i'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it. Someone show me where, in this sentence, the OP states HE does not accept it?He says (I'm not alone in thinking that not everyone in society has moved on or is willing to accept it) He says he is not willing to accept it?? W.T.F does that mean to you then He says he is not alone in thinking OTHERS don't accept it. That is, he thinks OTHERS don't accept it. He doesn't say anywhere that he is one of those people who don't accept it. But keep rolling those eyes. It might help with the reading." Seems clear what he means to me, but obviously going over the head of some! | |||
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"I don't think explaining it will help. Not until the morning at least. But the smileys keep being quoted is funny. You're right. A case of one too many creme de menthes at the works Christmas do I think." | |||
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