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By *anzell OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex

No this isnt a post about shagging sheep folks!

Just would like to know peoples thoughts as it seems (not talking people on this site in particular - more in general)quite a few people just seem to listen to others/gossip/rumours when it comes to people/parties and so forth.

I always look at it as what one or even a few people dont like, there will be others that do....Me personally, I will always find out for myself but it seems that quite a few are happy to just be sheep and go with what anyone says without finding out for themselves?

Would like to hear what others think on this.

Thanks Guys....Much Love,

Ell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's life ... some people don't have a mind of their own and listen to idle gossip. I've read in the forums that its happened about events happening coming up soon ... its happened in the past about them and there is always someone waiting to belittle another or spread idle gossip. Its happened to me on here - I find it amusing that people judge without meeting (however we can all be guilty of that) but not to the lengths that some people go on what should be an Adult Site. It all boils down to one factor .. Jealousy. Which if you think about it shouldn't be an issue on a site where people should all be open minded and NOT judge

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By *anzell OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex

My sentiments exactly! Couldnt agree any more or add to anything you have said....Sums it up perfectly i think!

Thanks

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a follower here, and I would like to believe I am blessed with the knowledge, skills and experience to make decisions for myself, and have opinions of my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We're just here for the fun and we have lots of that

All that other stuff is a turn off and best avoided

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

I imagine the nature of adult sites like fab probably attract people of a more adventurous, extrovert nature, who tend not to be followers or sheep....hence the occasional heated posts that pop up from time to time.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem with sites like this is if your on them long enough you start to notice the little cliques that start forming, in the chat rooms, on the forums etc, cause there are a lot of social meets too people get to know each other well and then thats where the clash of personalities come in, cause then you start to find out who you dont like, and then the play ground behaviour starts, ive seen and had it so many times.....we dont like them so you can meet them if your meeting us.....type thing or you say your meeting someone and there always someone who got some new or gossip about them as to why its not a good idea

Personally i would like to think i take people on face value, and so far as i can recall i have never turned down a meet based on other people advice, ok some i wish i had took the advice while others have been really good meets, but like anything in life you have to learn by your own mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many welsh in here for me to say i am a sheep!!!

joking aside i take people as i find them and if someone else doesnt like them thats not my problem. i do this in the real world, virtual world and in all aspects of life! xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I think the problem with sites like this is if your on them long enough you start to notice the little cliques that start forming, in the chat rooms, on the forums etc, cause there are a lot of social meets too people get to know each other well and then thats where the clash of personalities come in, cause then you start to find out who you dont like, and then the play ground behaviour starts, ive seen and had it so many times.....we dont like them so you can meet them if your meeting us.....type thing or you say your meeting someone and there always someone who got some new or gossip about them as to why its not a good idea

Personally i would like to think i take people on face value, and so far as i can recall i have never turned down a meet based on other people advice, ok some i wish i had took the advice while others have been really good meets, but like anything in life you have to learn by your own mistakes "

Great post and couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they offer me their boobies I don't care what others say about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No this isnt a post about shagging sheep folks!

Just would like to know peoples thoughts as it seems (not talking people on this site in particular - more in general)quite a few people just seem to listen to others/gossip/rumours when it comes to people/parties and so forth.

I always look at it as what one or even a few people dont like, there will be others that do....Me personally, I will always find out for myself but it seems that quite a few are happy to just be sheep and go with what anyone says without finding out for themselves?

Would like to hear what others think on this.

Thanks Guys....Much Love,

Ell x

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What a lovely and honest statement, really resonates with me.. and speaking for once for my partner, I know it would with him.

Thanks for that... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No this isnt a post about shagging sheep folks!

Just would like to know peoples thoughts as it seems (not talking people on this site in particular - more in general)quite a few people just seem to listen to others/gossip/rumours when it comes to people/parties and so forth.

I always look at it as what one or even a few people dont like, there will be others that do....Me personally, I will always find out for myself but it seems that quite a few are happy to just be sheep and go with what anyone says without finding out for themselves?

Would like to hear what others think on this.

Thanks Guys....Much Love,

Ell x

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We always make our own minds up but if someone said don’t meet X because they play without protection we would ask them if it was right. (We always play safe). We like to make our own decisions on who we do or do not meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No this isnt a post about shagging sheep folks!

Just would like to know peoples thoughts as it seems (not talking people on this site in particular - more in general)quite a few people just seem to listen to others/gossip/rumours when it comes to people/parties and so forth.

I always look at it as what one or even a few people dont like, there will be others that do....Me personally, I will always find out for myself but it seems that quite a few are happy to just be sheep and go with what anyone says without finding out for themselves?

Would like to hear what others think on this.

Thanks Guys....Much Love,

Ell x

"

There are many different answers to this and non of them wrong. If someone had told Lynda Gough not to be a lodger at Fred West’s it would have been better than her to find out for her self. Equally if someone had said don’t trust that guy because he is a muslim/cristian/mormon (or any other sectarian) then the advice may be wrong. Until you have made a decision you never know for your self. However often advice has foundation so it’s a judgement call on who you listen to or not as there is no right or wrong on advice given its more to do with the reliability of the giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to judge, reckon only the shallow ones do that, personally am being put off the clubs by what i hear about them, but one person says this another says that, each person has different likes and dislikes, no 2 people like and dislike the same, so what will be good for one wont be for another, want to give clubs a try even if i runaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistically...I try to take peeps as I find them...based on how they interact with me...or treat me...

But..if I ask for a friends opinion on a potential meet...only if I know my friend has met that person/couple...and my friend says they are a crap shag..or an excellant shag...boy do I listen to that advice...

Idle or malicious gossip...totally different matter....no thanks...but shagability and any special talents...mmmm...yes please...friends should share that info...ooohhhh go on call me indiscrete...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they offer me their boobies I don't care what others say about them. "

pmsl

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