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By *ullmycracker1 OP   Man
over a year ago

westmidlands

I a women who is on here as part of a couple but was messaging guys without her man knowing then deleting messages as cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes of course, cheese on toast.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Its like playing blankety blank, Im going with:

I know of

&

Is this cheating

Yeah, she wouldnt like it if it was the other round way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's deceptive and could be seen as cheating .

The thin end of the wedge .

The start of something more sinister .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, if I told Blue about every mail conversation I had that in the end led no where other than a bit of fun online I'd never get anything done, on or off the site. I tell him only if I'm going to actually meet with someone. We have totally separate accounts btw.

Surely cheating would only be if the woman from the couple met in person with a guy she'd been messaging on here but didn't tell hubby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with some friendly internet flirting out of site out of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive deleted lots of conversations before now,I leave them there for a while so my OH can read them if he wants,then I have a massive clearout,its just messages thats all,he knows I chat to people and he knows ill make him aware of anyone I have an interest in

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By *uy4couplesMan
over a year ago

south kent

Blimey

I thought this site was for meeting an playing

Not to critasize everyone for what they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the messaging and deleting straight away would be part of something, may just as well have separate accounts, if the need to hide something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is messaging with a view to meeting in secret then yes it could be the lead up to her cheating.

Its pretty dumb though... what if a guy messages back and her hubby reads it first.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"I a women who is on here as part of a couple but was messaging guys without her man knowing then deleting messages as cheat?"

Yes you are a cheat if you are a woman on here but have male set as your gender. or have i got the wrong end of the stick wi this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I a women who is on here as part of a couple but was messaging guys without her man knowing then deleting messages as cheat?"

Sorry but is that not their business what they do.

I have two rules in life.

Always use the toilet before going to bed

And keeping out of other peoples relationships

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

I would have to agree with this one.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Blimey

I thought this site was for meeting an playing

Not to critasize everyone for what they do

"

Welcome to Fab mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I a women who is on here as part of a couple but was messaging guys without her man knowing then deleting messages as cheat?

Sorry but is that not their business what they do.

I have two rules in life.

Always use the toilet before going to bed

And keeping out of other peoples relationships "

Damn! They are some seriously good rules!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I (F) quite often have converstaions on here with men but I make it clear we're a couple and I always leave them for Mr N to read. But I woudln't say that deleting them is evidence of cheating because he might have read them beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you don't have complete trust with your partner this isn't the lifestyle you should be in.. Me and my wife are new to this so we usually don't delete anything unless we do it together just so there's no question... But I've told her to mail and talk to whoever she wants on here whenever she wants.. As long as no one makes plans behind each other's backs then it should be ok.. I mail women and couples on here without her permission but I do leave the conversation in the I box so she can read whatever she wants

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Its like playing blankety blank, Im going with:

I know of

&

Is this cheating

Yeah, she wouldnt like it if it was the other round way "

That's it I guess, try to think of how your would feel if your partner was doing this and you found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey

I thought this site was for meeting an playing

Not to critasize everyone for what they do

"

A common misconception. Many think sites such as this will be used by more liberal minded individuals.

The other observation I would make is that the herd mentality often kicks in. In essence one person launches an attack and others can't help but join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it tends to usually be the men who are doing the messaging behind their other half's back if the caliber of genuine couples is anything to go by on here..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the mrs here. Mr doesn't like replying to all the messages so he just has me take care of it all. I read, reply, delete, arrange things. He doesn't mind. It saves him doing it and I tell him anything he would want to know. It would only be cheating if I were keeping secrets and being deceptive.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Psst I'm actually a woman pretending to be a couple. I target unsuspecting men

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I a women who is on here as part of a couple but was messaging guys without her man knowing then deleting messages as cheat?

Sorry but is that not their business what they do.

I have two rules in life.

Always use the toilet before going to bed

And keeping out of other peoples relationships "

My two rules are always use the toilet before commencing relations and keep out of other peoples beds

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously cheating! Anything where you are deceiving someone or doing it behind their back is dishonest. No matter how you dress it up or what excuse you have. You are still cheating if they dont know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cast a judgement. Each to their own and everyone has to take responsibility for the potential consequences of their actions. Their lives. Not mine!

However...you cant say that if you lie to your partner and have sex with others without their knowledge..that it isnt cheating. Of course it is!

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