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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" and your very fit too | |||
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"I'm bi. " And proud? Lol I dont get why guys hide it | |||
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"I'm bi. And proud? Lol I dont get why guys hide it" I'm not hiding it. It says I'm bi on my profile. Not particularly proud but not ashamed either and I tell people if they ask. I'm just me. | |||
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"I'm bi. And proud? Lol I dont get why guys hide it I'm not hiding it. It says I'm bi on my profile. Not particularly proud but not ashamed either and I tell people if they ask. I'm just me. " Yeah I was saying i dont know why guys hide meaning the likes of us dont | |||
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"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia " No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf | |||
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"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf " just finding the other guy is the hard part... a lot seem to chicken out. i mean seriously why would you chicken out. that or they then just say they are orally bi... thats there choice but i am only into other fully bi fun | |||
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"well I thought I was bi ,but it appears as my main interest is TV's, I can actually class myself as straight, " Errrr no not really lol | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" And you are lovely! | |||
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"I'm bi. And proud? Lol I dont get why guys hide it" maybe cos we still live in a society where homophobia is prevelant.. as with other discriminations.. maybe it will only ever be thus.. hey ho.. | |||
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"two bi guys together is bliss Hell yes " I'd love to watch them play | |||
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"two bi guys together is bliss " | |||
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"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes " And I cant message you due to your age restrictions. .. grrrrrr | |||
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"two bi guys together is bliss " Oh yes... | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" | |||
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"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes " I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x | |||
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" a woman said she wouldn't touch any bi guys with a bargepole. Sadly it is that kind of mentality that keeps many bi men quiet. Pink x" we tend to block similar who have big shouty 'no bi, gay, tvs etc'.. had a cpl looked at our profile yesterday whose own profile states they wont meet straight guys who have tv's as an 'interest'.. does make one wonder about some people's mindset.. hey ho | |||
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"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x " Yeah I thought that too, but couldn't think of his damn name lmao x | |||
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"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x Yeah I thought that too, but couldn't think of his damn name lmao x" have been likened to both... not sure thats a god thing lol | |||
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"I am bi in a 3sum situation if the mood takes me. I wouldn't meet a guy on my own but in a MFM situation I find it quite erotic that we all interact. Obviously it depends on the situation " Very much the same as me. | |||
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"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia " Some treat the closet like a revolving door - changing preferences depending on who they are trying to attract. And I've seen bi men turn straight as soon as they are in a couple to increase their chances... | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" I think I love you lol. Well said. Love a bi male who can stand up and be honest xx | |||
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"well done for coming out you are very brave I love being bi ive got the best of both worlds lol you look sexy by the way " thanks samantha | |||
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"I agree with blueeyes why hide it iv had guys contact me saying they want to meet but it says straight on there profile and I say to them about it they say they dnt want to put it on so I say I'm bi and proud " It's usually they've failed to meet a woman but want any old mouth to suck them off, gonna be a shit meet though as they won't reciprocate | |||
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"Hey, well I suppose I am more Bi-curious as I have not been with a guy yet, but is something I want to try. And one of the main reasons I joined this site. Find it odd though that how even on a swingers site that males feel the need to say they are straight, and that its some how a negative thing. Strange but oh well. Just nice to see the OP being open and addressing the subject, also was very helpful in my post the other day, so cheers! " Well you're bloody gorgeous, if you were closer id certainly be offering to help you out :p | |||
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"bi male half here and open ( on here maybe not so in vanilla world ) would not say proud as I feel its not an achievement ! its a state of mind ... but nether the less im comfy in my own skin " I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to be able to be open about it irl too. But I just don't think it's worth the hassle | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" Good for you. | |||
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"Lost count of the messages i have had from 'straight' blokes who seem to think i want to suck there 'massive' cocks (funny how they always describe themselves that way!). so far in the closet they are queueing to fuck mr tumnus." We just cus some bloke messages you, doesnt mean they are closet bi guys. Just bored looking for chat. None of them will actually meet you. | |||
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"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf " Haven't seen many of those! | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. " Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices | |||
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"we're both bi and comfortable with our sexuality, its no one else's business tbh...and we certainly don't feel the need to shout it from the roof tops so to speak..as stigmas and peoples perceptions will always think the worst.." | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. " I thought you were straight?? | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices " That's a refreshingly open attitude for a change. The way we see it, never do or be anything that you don't want finding out. That way nothing ever comes back to bite you on the arse because chances are if it can it will! XXXX | |||
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"Its odd but with all the guys, gals, and couples on here with different tastes, likes, interests etc, i find this site to be extremely judgemental. A lot of people come on this site because its the only place they can be themselves or to escape the real life, yet they get judged for being different! Think its a case of live and let live xx" Sure we're all different on here and like different things. We agree on some and disagree on others but the one thing that most of us do agree on is honesty. If disagreeing with dishonesty is seen as judgemental then yes it may seem that way. XXXX | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. " Tried that once years ago, and a kind group of lads politely put me in hospital for it, so now it's private only. But I do wonder what it would be like to be able to be open | |||
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"Its odd but with all the guys, gals, and couples on here with different tastes, likes, interests etc, i find this site to be extremely judgemental. A lot of people come on this site because its the only place they can be themselves or to escape the real life, yet they get judged for being different! Think its a case of live and let live xx Sure we're all different on here and like different things. We agree on some and disagree on others but the one thing that most of us do agree on is honesty. If disagreeing with dishonesty is seen as judgemental then yes it may seem that way. XXXX" Honesty is not the issue but other peoples predudices (lol need to learn to spell). Thats why a lot of straight guys will not put they are bi. In my opinion a lot of people on here think two bi women are more acceptable than two bi guys, a case of double standards. Again thats just my opinion xx | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices " I am very open about it too. My family know I swing and am bi. Lots of friends too x | |||
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"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x " Definitely seeing Christopher Eccleston. Mmmmmm. Be Bi and proud! !! | |||
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"You'll make me blush" mmmmm i wud love to c my bi n out hubby together .....as long as i get look in.too | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" well said,i talk to many blokes who wont put bi on their profile,cos they say ppl dont like it. | |||
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"I agree with blueeyes why hide it iv had guys contact me saying they want to meet but it says straight on there profile and I say to them about it they say they dnt want to put it on so I say I'm bi and proud It's usually they've failed to meet a woman but want any old mouth to suck them off, gonna be a shit meet though as they won't reciprocate" Yeah I've had that, he came so quickly then left, no talk, really humiliating for me | |||
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"well I thought I was bi ,but it appears as my main interest is TV's, I can actually class myself as straight, " Who r u trying to kid us or yourself | |||
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"People who are happy and comfortable with thier own sexuality make for the happiest content people ...... the kind we like to meet " I agree totally - I am bisexual but even more important than using such a label, I prefer to meet and interact with people of any sex or interest who turn me on and likewise... | |||
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"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. I thought you were straight?? " I know what I am. I have put myself as bi because thats what everyone argues I am. | |||
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"I'm always confused by these labels to define what you are. bicurious could mean your gay with very limited experience of hetero or the other way around. Maybe I should change mine to bisexual since I have been with men as well as women but then I've never had a romantic relationship with a man?" My romantic relationships with men have been difficult unusually for me its one of the areas in my life that is all twisted and confused. An unhappy affair recently with the guy who I came out with has kind of made it worse, moan moan sob sob etc | |||
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"Lost count of the messages i have had from 'straight' blokes who seem to think i want to suck there 'massive' cocks (funny how they always describe themselves that way!). so far in the closet they are queueing to fuck mr tumnus. We just cus some bloke messages you, doesnt mean they are closet bi guys. Just bored looking for chat. None of them will actually meet you. " Then why do they ask if they can be sucked off by me or fuck me? So what is worse, a "straight" bloke who lies about his sexuality or a timewaster? Both seem to be equally despised on here. | |||
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"I'm always confused by these labels to define what you are. bicurious could mean your gay with very limited experience of hetero or the other way around. Maybe I should change mine to bisexual since I have been with men as well as women but then I've never had a romantic relationship with a man? In terms of being proud, I no more proud of my sexual preferences then I am proud of the type of sauce I like on a bacon sandwich (red, no wait, brown, oh damn!)" SAUCE ON A BACON BUTTY????!!!! Ughhh! Pervert! | |||
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"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. " Yet on your profile the first thing on your list of qualities is "Honest" ???? R | |||
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"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. " You have verifications from men genius | |||
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"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. " hummm I gotta say I disagree quite a bit ... just cos you have clear face pic ... Well done pat on the back!! have a cookie! ... but some people have jobs in the public eye and weather bi /str8 pink brown blue or yellow ! would rather not have face pics! .... we have but only willing to show after a certain amount of correspondence!! but face pic or not if a guy got in touch that said he was bi but was not on profile would get more chance of a wank from the queen than a meet with us ... it seems you have missed the point of the thread ... oh oh no its cool carry on Christian solder you have a face pi!!! sorry if there was a hint of sarcasm there | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" could not have put it better myself x | |||
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"There is a further complication with the Bi/Straight tag. If Mrs J and I wish to find a Bi guy to neatly slot in to a threesome, its impossible to find one with the search engine other than checking out all four trillion hits and ing out the 97% of straight guys. Life's hard (if you're lucky) " Trick is search for men looking for men. Not men.looking for couples Then you just have to filter the few gay guys out | |||
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"Bi curious and proud.x" Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? | |||
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"Bi curious and proud.x Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? " Different acts, roles, possibility of taking it beyond sex and exploring whether you could have an emotional connection with a guy? | |||
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"There is a further complication with the Bi/Straight tag. If Mrs J and I wish to find a Bi guy to neatly slot in to a threesome, its impossible to find one with the search engine other than checking out all four trillion hits and ing out the 97% of straight guys. Life's hard (if you're lucky) " yes this is a site improvement that would be worth them implementing, I will make a suggestion! | |||
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"Bi curious and proud.x Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? " Having never tasted cock im still curious when I do taste touch cock then I wont be curious anymore | |||
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"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc. I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know. It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see. I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol" Well said mate... Same goes for me, bi, proud and happy. | |||
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"Bi curious and proud.x Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? Different acts, roles, possibility of taking it beyond sex and exploring whether you could have an emotional connection with a guy?" So if I have sex with men and women, but have no emotional connection with either, I'm neither straight, gay or bi? | |||
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