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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

and your very fit too

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

agree have him stripped naked bathed and brought to me straight away heehee yummy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You'll make me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll make me blush"

you would do more than blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*covers eyes at this early hour*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No need to cover up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bi. "

And proud? Lol

I dont get why guys hide it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm bi.

And proud? Lol

I dont get why guys hide it"

I'm not hiding it. It says I'm bi on my profile. Not particularly proud but not ashamed either and I tell people if they ask. I'm just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bi.

And proud? Lol

I dont get why guys hide it

I'm not hiding it. It says I'm bi on my profile. Not particularly proud but not ashamed either and I tell people if they ask. I'm just me. "

Yeah I was saying i dont know why guys hide meaning the likes of us dont

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia "

No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia

No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf "

just finding the other guy is the hard part... a lot seem to chicken out. i mean seriously why would you chicken out. that or they then just say they are orally bi... thats there choice but i am only into other fully bi fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I thought I was bi ,but it appears as my main interest is TV's, I can actually class myself as straight,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well I thought I was bi ,but it appears as my main interest is TV's, I can actually class myself as straight, "

Errrr no not really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I"m bi, well why limit one"s self? Double the chance of pulling lol. Variety is the spice of life xx

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I think he was being ironic. I hope at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he was being ironic. I hope at least "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Very nice.

I enjoyed reading the post, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count of the messages i have had from 'straight' blokes who seem to think i want to suck there 'massive' cocks (funny how they always describe themselves that way!). so far in the closet they are queueing to fuck mr tumnus.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

And you are lovely!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'm bi.

And proud? Lol

I dont get why guys hide it"

maybe cos we still live in a society where homophobia is prevelant..

as with other discriminations..

maybe it will only ever be thus..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious and proud.x

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

two bi guys together is bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"two bi guys together is bliss "

Hell yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"two bi guys together is bliss

Hell yes "

I'd love to watch them play

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"two bi guys together is bliss "

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Bi and open about it. I love to suck a nice cock just as much as I love to lick pussy. Playing with a couple is awesome!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes "

And I cant message you due to your age restrictions. .. grrrrrr

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"two bi guys together is bliss

"

Oh yes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"two bi guys together is bliss

Oh yes..."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are often messaged by guys saying they are bi but the profile says they are straight. When I've asked them about it they've given reasons such as "mates are on here and i don't want them to know" or "some women wont play with bi guys". Personally we've been put off people like that because if they aren't being honest about their sexuality on here then who is to say there isn't a wife hiding in the same closet.

I have to admit to being gobsmacked once in a chatroom (most unlike me) when a woman said she wouldn't touch any bi guys with a bargepole. Sadly it is that kind of mentality that keeps many bi men quiet.

Pink x

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes "

I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me me me, in bi and proud, like others have said in previous posts, why limit yourself, or maybe I'm just greedy?? Put a pussy and cock in front of me and I'll have both thank you, and at the same time bi mmf yummy x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" a woman said she wouldn't touch any bi guys with a bargepole. Sadly it is that kind of mentality that keeps many bi men quiet.

Pink x"

we tend to block similar who have big shouty 'no bi, gay, tvs etc'..

had a cpl looked at our profile yesterday whose own profile states they wont meet straight guys who have tv's as an 'interest'..

does make one wonder about some people's mindset..

hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both bi and very happy mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"two bi guys together is bliss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to find a bi couple where we ALL can pleasure each other.....

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By *exybi69opencoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bakersfield

variety is the spice of life were both bi and happy we can enjoy a bigger variety of experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes

I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x "

Yeah I thought that too, but couldn't think of his damn name lmao x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes

I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x

Yeah I thought that too, but couldn't think of his damn name lmao x"

have been likened to both... not sure thats a god thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, hellllooooo!!

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

iam bi...not sure if being proud is the right expression..I just am and enjoy it..full stop

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I am bi in a 3sum situation if the mood takes me. I wouldn't meet a guy on my own but in a MFM situation I find it quite erotic that we all interact. Obviously it depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bi in a 3sum situation if the mood takes me. I wouldn't meet a guy on my own but in a MFM situation I find it quite erotic that we all interact. Obviously it depends on the situation "
Very much the same as me.

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By *n2cplCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Both bi and happy here. Jusr wish could find other bi couples in the area

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Coooo and eeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia "

Some treat the closet like a revolving door - changing preferences depending on who they are trying to attract. And I've seen bi men turn straight as soon as they are in a couple to increase their chances...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am bi and indifferent, I couldn't give a fuck about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done for coming out you are very brave I love being bi ive got the best of both worlds lol you look sexy by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

I think I love you lol. Well said. Love a bi male who can stand up and be honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehehe it's always funny how bi females are the most wanted thing on the site yet bi males so hated.

Ah well they're just missing out :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps we hang to much on labels and in some cases, people are people and as long as everyone just does what they are comfy with in a no pressure situation what difference does gay, bi str8 make.

The problem is preconcieved ideas and misplaced fear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well done for coming out you are very brave I love being bi ive got the best of both worlds lol you look sexy by the way "

thanks samantha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your welcome richy mwa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with blueeyes why hide it iv had guys contact me saying they want to meet but it says straight on there profile and I say to them about it they say they dnt want to put it on so I say I'm bi and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with blueeyes why hide it iv had guys contact me saying they want to meet but it says straight on there profile and I say to them about it they say they dnt want to put it on so I say I'm bi and proud "

It's usually they've failed to meet a woman but want any old mouth to suck them off, gonna be a shit meet though as they won't reciprocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just labels! Bi ! Lesbian ! Bi curious! What next ? Bi casual? Like someone else said on here some women I fancy and some I don't. .like wise for men! For me it's all about how the chemistry fits! When I do meet someone where there is chemistry all I can say is wow!!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Very Bi, out and proud! Some days I could be full on lezza! Love the ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, well I suppose I am more Bi-curious as I have not been with a guy yet, but is something I want to try.

And one of the main reasons I joined this site. Find it odd though that how even on a swingers site that males feel the need to say they are straight, and that its some how a negative thing.

Strange but oh well. Just nice to see the OP being open and addressing the subject, also was very helpful in my post the other day, so cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Bi and loving it I love sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, well I suppose I am more Bi-curious as I have not been with a guy yet, but is something I want to try.

And one of the main reasons I joined this site. Find it odd though that how even on a swingers site that males feel the need to say they are straight, and that its some how a negative thing.

Strange but oh well. Just nice to see the OP being open and addressing the subject, also was very helpful in my post the other day, so cheers! "

Well you're bloody gorgeous, if you were closer id certainly be offering to help you out :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi male half here and open ( on here maybe not so in vanilla world ) would not say proud as I feel its not an achievement ! its a state of mind ... but nether the less im comfy in my own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi male half here and open ( on here maybe not so in vanilla world ) would not say proud as I feel its not an achievement ! its a state of mind ... but nether the less im comfy in my own skin "

I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to be able to be open about it irl too.

But I just don't think it's worth the hassle

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

Good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the messages i have had from 'straight' blokes who seem to think i want to suck there 'massive' cocks (funny how they always describe themselves that way!). so far in the closet they are queueing to fuck mr tumnus."

We just cus some bloke messages you, doesnt mean they are closet bi guys. Just bored looking for chat. None of them will actually meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so many guys in the closet here I'm sure they think its fucking narnia

No need to be either though there's always posts for women wanting bi guys especially 2 for a mmf "

Haven't seen many of those!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. "

Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

we're both bi and comfortable with our sexuality, its no one else's business tbh...and we certainly don't feel the need to shout it from the roof tops so to speak..as stigmas and peoples perceptions will always think the worst..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we're both bi and comfortable with our sexuality, its no one else's business tbh...and we certainly don't feel the need to shout it from the roof tops so to speak..as stigmas and peoples perceptions will always think the worst.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have put bicurious on mine as I am, ive never tried it but I like watching porn that involves mmf and creampie eating, I would only be orally bi, it turns me on a lot knowing that a woman would be getting off watching it and joining in that's my 2 pence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha, if only!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. "

I thought you were straight??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol.

Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices "

That's a refreshingly open attitude for a change.

The way we see it, never do or be anything that you don't want finding out.

That way nothing ever comes back to bite you on the arse because chances are if it can it will!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its odd but with all the guys, gals, and couples on here with different tastes, likes, interests etc, i find this site to be extremely judgemental. A lot of people come on this site because its the only place they can be themselves or to escape the real life, yet they get judged for being different! Think its a case of live and let live xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its odd but with all the guys, gals, and couples on here with different tastes, likes, interests etc, i find this site to be extremely judgemental. A lot of people come on this site because its the only place they can be themselves or to escape the real life, yet they get judged for being different! Think its a case of live and let live xx"

Sure we're all different on here and like different things.

We agree on some and disagree on others but the one thing that most of us do agree on is honesty.

If disagreeing with dishonesty is seen as judgemental then yes it may seem that way.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little joke in my profile about being 89.99% straight. This is to poke a bit of fun at the 100% straight guys because what you normally find is the 100% straight guys actually have a knee jerk reaction to Bi advances but secretly have a bit of a hankering for it but daren't admit it. I probably used to be a bit like that but thanks to the care and understanding of my gorgeous girlfriend who is also bi found there is another way. Thankyou Mrs N for helping me to find my sexuality. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol. "

Tried that once years ago, and a kind group of lads politely put me in hospital for it, so now it's private only. But I do wonder what it would be like to be able to be open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are happy and comfortable with thier own sexuality make for the happiest content people ...... the kind we like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its odd but with all the guys, gals, and couples on here with different tastes, likes, interests etc, i find this site to be extremely judgemental. A lot of people come on this site because its the only place they can be themselves or to escape the real life, yet they get judged for being different! Think its a case of live and let live xx

Sure we're all different on here and like different things.

We agree on some and disagree on others but the one thing that most of us do agree on is honesty.

If disagreeing with dishonesty is seen as judgemental then yes it may seem that way.

XXXX"

Honesty is not the issue but other peoples predudices (lol need to learn to spell). Thats why a lot of straight guys will not put they are bi. In my opinion a lot of people on here think two bi women are more acceptable than two bi guys, a case of double standards. Again thats just my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always confused by these labels to define what you are. bicurious could mean your gay with very limited experience of hetero or the other way around. Maybe I should change mine to bisexual since I have been with men as well as women but then I've never had a romantic relationship with a man?

In terms of being proud, I no more proud of my sexual preferences then I am proud of the type of sauce I like on a bacon sandwich (red, no wait, brown, oh damn!)

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol.

Everyone impprtant to me knows! And most know I swing to.. im not ashamed of my life style choices "

I am very open about it too. My family know I swing and am bi. Lots of friends too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're gorgeous!!! And you look a little bit like Ralph Fiennes

I thought more Christopher Eccleston in a complimentary way x "

Definitely seeing Christopher Eccleston. Mmmmmm. Be Bi and proud! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll make me blush"

mmmmm i wud love to c my bi n out hubby together .....as long as i get look in.too

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I recently came out as bi, it was really weird, still really freaked out by it all. I'm glad I have got over the homophobic bit though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

well said,i talk to many blokes who wont put bi on their profile,cos they say ppl dont like it.

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I agree with blueeyes why hide it iv had guys contact me saying they want to meet but it says straight on there profile and I say to them about it they say they dnt want to put it on so I say I'm bi and proud

It's usually they've failed to meet a woman but want any old mouth to suck them off, gonna be a shit meet though as they won't reciprocate"

Yeah I've had that, he came so quickly then left, no talk, really humiliating for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I thought I was bi ,but it appears as my main interest is TV's, I can actually class myself as straight, "

Who r u trying to kid us or yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take my time and chill out on a meet...hate cum n go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been bi since the age of 15 which also includes over 17 years in the army I am also out and proud

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"People who are happy and comfortable with thier own sexuality make for the happiest content people ...... the kind we like to meet "

I agree totally - I am bisexual but even more important than using such a label, I prefer to meet and interact with people of any sex or interest who turn me on and likewise...

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We're both bi and have it on our profile so no one can mistake it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of all the 'proud' bi guys in this thread, how many of you have told your friends, family and work colleagues that you are bi???? Just because you happy to shout it from behind a computer, doesnt mean you are proud. My whole fab life is a secret from everyone. Nobody has a clue and I like it that way. Its not something I want everyone knowing and certainly not something I am proud about lol.

I thought you were straight?? "

I know what I am. I have put myself as bi because thats what everyone argues I am.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm always confused by these labels to define what you are. bicurious could mean your gay with very limited experience of hetero or the other way around. Maybe I should change mine to bisexual since I have been with men as well as women but then I've never had a romantic relationship with a man?"

My romantic relationships with men have been difficult unusually for me its one of the areas in my life that is all twisted and confused. An unhappy affair recently with the guy who I came out with has kind of made it worse, moan moan sob sob etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lost count of the messages i have had from 'straight' blokes who seem to think i want to suck there 'massive' cocks (funny how they always describe themselves that way!). so far in the closet they are queueing to fuck mr tumnus.

We just cus some bloke messages you, doesnt mean they are closet bi guys. Just bored looking for chat. None of them will actually meet you. "

Then why do they ask if they can be sucked off by me or fuck me? So what is worse, a "straight" bloke who lies about his sexuality or a timewaster? Both seem to be equally despised on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always confused by these labels to define what you are. bicurious could mean your gay with very limited experience of hetero or the other way around. Maybe I should change mine to bisexual since I have been with men as well as women but then I've never had a romantic relationship with a man?

In terms of being proud, I no more proud of my sexual preferences then I am proud of the type of sauce I like on a bacon sandwich (red, no wait, brown, oh damn!)"

SAUCE ON A BACON BUTTY????!!!! Ughhh! Pervert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. "

Yet on your profile the first thing on your list of qualities is "Honest" ???? R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. "

You have verifications from men genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pic is on too but its pretty scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am bi, but don't have it on my profile.....why?Well unlike most "proud" bi guys on here I have the courage to put clear face pics on here. And with social stigmas still sadly existing in this world....and on this site, I choose who gets to know I am bi....though if my profile is read properly its not hard to guess. It is though nice to know I leave some room for plausible deniability. Hehe. "
hummm I gotta say I disagree quite a bit ... just cos you have clear face pic ... Well done pat on the back!! have a cookie! ... but some people have jobs in the public eye and weather bi /str8 pink brown blue or yellow ! would rather not have face pics! .... we have but only willing to show after a certain amount of correspondence!! but face pic or not if a guy got in touch that said he was bi but was not on profile would get more chance of a wank from the queen than a meet with us ... it seems you have missed the point of the thread ... oh oh no its cool carry on Christian solder you have a face pi!!! sorry if there was a hint of sarcasm there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a closet straight, but am too scared to put it on my profile, I know how hard it is for straight guys to get meets and sex... being TV means I get all the sex I want, any hole is a goal after a straight guy has had 4 pints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a further complication with the Bi/Straight tag. If Mrs J and I wish to find a Bi guy to neatly slot in to a threesome, its impossible to find one with the search engine other than checking out all four trillion hits and ing out the 97% of straight guys.

Life's hard (if you're lucky)

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

could not have put it better myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a further complication with the Bi/Straight tag. If Mrs J and I wish to find a Bi guy to neatly slot in to a threesome, its impossible to find one with the search engine other than checking out all four trillion hits and ing out the 97% of straight guys.

Life's hard (if you're lucky) "

Trick is search for men looking for men.

Not men.looking for couples

Then you just have to filter the few gay guys out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious and proud.x"

Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious and proud.x

Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? "

Different acts, roles, possibility of taking it beyond sex and exploring whether you could have an emotional connection with a guy?

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"There is a further complication with the Bi/Straight tag. If Mrs J and I wish to find a Bi guy to neatly slot in to a threesome, its impossible to find one with the search engine other than checking out all four trillion hits and ing out the 97% of straight guys.

Life's hard (if you're lucky) "

yes this is a site improvement that would be worth them implementing, I will make a suggestion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious and proud.x

Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something? "

Having never tasted cock im still curious when I do taste touch cock then I wont be curious anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see and contribute to many posts about bi guys and their sexuality etc.

I am fully bi and I am more than happy to let people know.

It doesnt mean I fancy and want every guy I see just the same as I dont fancy and want every woman I see.

I guess im saying we are just normal but enjoy variety lol"

Well said mate... Same goes for me, bi, proud and happy.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm bi n proud too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious and proud.x

Don't understand the curious bit. Once you've had a cock surely the curiosity is over. Am I missing something?

Different acts, roles, possibility of taking it beyond sex and exploring whether you could have an emotional connection with a guy?"

So if I have sex with men and women, but have no emotional connection with either, I'm neither straight, gay or bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi bi bi here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish more single men would be honest on their profiles. Would make trying to find genuine bi men a lot easier. A message from a straight guy is always declined, & then suddenly they message back saying they are really bi! Sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feel sorry for all the straight people who wont meet bi ..... they havent got the foggiest that they are meeting lying twats .

all the "straight" guys who mail saying "i am bi but it puts straight cpls off"...... well go and meet the straight ones then!!!!! - because putting straight puts bi cpls off!! ........ come on - yer not that thick surely?... or are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyhow ........ Wakefield us - if anyone can be bothered to read .......

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