FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty - where does it start and where does it end?

By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

We are as honest as we can be with people but wonder what others thoughts are.

For instance........

What would people prefer?

Married guys being honest about their marital status or ones who lie and say they are divorced/separated/single?

Guys who claim their cocks are a certain size when clearly they are not.

Also what about people who lie about their real names?

I don't mean people like us who have a user name rather than our real names but ones who say my name is xxx but on another site it will be yyy.

For us if people can't be honest about the real basics then do they think they will ever get to see us naked???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty starts with a lie and ends with realisation of the fact

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We are very precious about our privacy so have our site names, and use them at meets. We dont want to know peoples real jobs or names or addresses. It is important if they say they are non smokers, slim, etc.. That they tell the truth about those matters.

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By *hocolateLoversCouple
over a year ago

Chester and W/Midlands

"We are very precious about our privacy so have our site names, and use them at meets. We dont want to know peoples real jobs or names or addresses. It is important if they say they are non smokers, slim, etc.. That they tell the truth about those matters. "

Ditto

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

ditto

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

The 'real' basics on here are...pics, veris, good profile and up for fun and sex. I prefer pics, veris and a good profile as well as up for fun and sex.

I looked for your pics, veris and there are none to be seen. What should I make of that??? Does that make you a liar? a fake? a time waster?

Basically, I am very sorry but there is little chance that I will ever see you naked! Take care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in person we are as honest as anyone as we treat people we meet as potential long term friends.

the only thing we dont reveal on here is our addresses and our real names.

thats it.

we are pretty much an open book

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's critical to me, I despise lies with a venom! I have such high expectations of people, but the first time I hear a lie it's as though someone came and burst a bubble, my opinion of that person is severely diminished. You don't have to reveal things the other person doesn't need to know, but if you are going to state something, make it the truth.

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By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

"The 'real' basics on here are...pics, veris, good profile and up for fun and sex. I prefer pics, veris and a good profile as well as up for fun and sex.

I looked for your pics, veris and there are none to be seen. What should I make of that??? Does that make you a liar? a fake? a time waster?

Basically, I am very sorry but there is little chance that I will ever see you naked! Take care."

I don't understand the point or relevance of you commentating on our profile in your reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's critical to me, I despise lies with a venom! I have such high expectations of people, but the first time I hear a lie it's as though someone came and burst a bubble, my opinion of that person is severely diminished. You don't have to reveal things the other person doesn't need to know, but if you are going to state something, make it the truth."

I agree

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"The 'real' basics on here are...pics, veris, good profile and up for fun and sex. I prefer pics, veris and a good profile as well as up for fun and sex.

I looked for your pics, veris and there are none to be seen. What should I make of that??? Does that make you a liar? a fake? a time waster?

Basically, I am very sorry but there is little chance that I will ever see you naked! Take care.

I don't understand the point or relevance of you commentating on our profile in your reply."

The point is - you have no pics and your profile is a half-arsed sentence. Who would want to see you naked based on that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This!

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

Honesty is not living a lie.

Starting and ending? Well, for you I will try

The fact, dearest friend

Is the following trend

It begins with an 'H' and ends in a 'Y'......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty starts with "no thanks I'm not drinking" and ends with "who wants a jaegerbomb".

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By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

"The 'real' basics on here are...pics, veris, good profile and up for fun and sex. I prefer pics, veris and a good profile as well as up for fun and sex.

I looked for your pics, veris and there are none to be seen. What should I make of that??? Does that make you a liar? a fake? a time waster?

Basically, I am very sorry but there is little chance that I will ever see you naked! Take care.

I don't understand the point or relevance of you commentating on our profile in your reply.

The point is - you have no pics and your profile is a half-arsed sentence. Who would want to see you naked based on that?"

Our profile has nothing to do with the question I asked. Either comment on the topic or please stop making this personal.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"The 'real' basics on here are...pics, veris, good profile and up for fun and sex. I prefer pics, veris and a good profile as well as up for fun and sex.

I looked for your pics, veris and there are none to be seen. What should I make of that??? Does that make you a liar? a fake? a time waster?

Basically, I am very sorry but there is little chance that I will ever see you naked! Take care.

I don't understand the point or relevance of you commentating on our profile in your reply.

The point is - you have no pics and your profile is a half-arsed sentence. Who would want to see you naked based on that?

Our profile has nothing to do with the question I asked. Either comment on the topic or please stop making this personal. "

I am/was in no way making anything personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a member on here that once they realised that many use fab names or aliases, decided that they want to "out" them all. All in the name of truthfulness and to hell with anyone's right to privacy.

I don't have anything to do with this person, refuse to speak to them and am very glad I never got around to actually meeting them.

Everyone's privacy should be a given right wherever they are in life. Unfortunately that is not always so

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I prefer people to be honest. I respect peoples privacy which is why when I am meeting someone I stick to being called _ruit.

I also wish people would make an effort in their profile. That riles me just as much as people not being honest x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I don't like liars

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Like previous posters...honesty regarding our desires and an honest description of ourselves.

Privacy for our real names, address, places of work etc. Swinging is part of our fantasy life which we prefer to keep seperate from our private life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are as honest as we can be with people but wonder what others thoughts are.

For instance........

What would people prefer?

Married guys being honest about their marital status or ones who lie and say they are divorced/separated/single?

Guys who claim their cocks are a certain size when clearly they are not.

Also what about people who lie about their real names?

I don't mean people like us who have a user name rather than our real names but ones who say my name is xxx but on another site it will be yyy.

For us if people can't be honest about the real basics then do they think they will ever get to see us naked???"

It's quite simple with us

No real name no play

No telephone number no play

We also get the reg number of the car before they come to ours , no car no play.

Let's face it being careful is a good idea

If your a single guy meeting from a couples profile, we have a social if the veri shows up its obvious she knows he is playing away and she will play with you

We would never consider a play meet with a mane of a swingers profile unless his wife knew , after all he is a swinger with a couples profile .

Married men etc we play no need to lie to either of us of we know your married you can his number , we won't drop you in it even if you want to meet just her on your own

Married woman same goes, you can have her number we won't drop you in it and you can arrange meets through her even if you just want to see him on your own

We don't meet single guys who live with their mum, nan aunts etc. or guys that ride mopeds or have a pedal cycle

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"... or guys that ride mopeds or have a pedal cycle "

Why all the funky moped hate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honesty starts with a lie and ends with realisation of the fact"
.Never a truer word spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just need to know that they are what they claim to be on their profile and that we're going to have a good time....anything else is immaterial. I'm not looking to have a relationship with every guy I meet... so what if they don't tell me their real name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are as honest as we can be with people but wonder what others thoughts are.

For instance........

What would people prefer?

Married guys being honest about their marital status or ones who lie and say they are divorced/separated/single?

Guys who claim their cocks are a certain size when clearly they are not.

Also what about people who lie about their real names?

I don't mean people like us who have a user name rather than our real names but ones who say my name is xxx but on another site it will be yyy.

For us if people can't be honest about the real basics then do they think they will ever get to see us naked???

It's quite simple with us

No real name no play

No telephone number no play

We also get the reg number of the car before they come to ours , no car no play.

Let's face it being careful is a good idea

If your a single guy meeting from a couples profile, we have a social if the veri shows up its obvious she knows he is playing away and she will play with you

We would never consider a play meet with a mane of a swingers profile unless his wife knew , after all he is a swinger with a couples profile .

Married men etc we play no need to lie to either of us of we know your married you can his number , we won't drop you in it even if you want to meet just her on your own

Married woman same goes, you can have her number we won't drop you in it and you can arrange meets through her even if you just want to see him on your own

We don't meet single guys who live with their mum, nan aunts etc. or guys that ride mopeds or have a pedal cycle "

I'm hoping that was all said tongue in cheek as it's far from simple!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people don't stick to the point being made but on here they just don't. Your profile seems ok to me. Seems you like to cam more than anything. Not that your profile should matter as your point had nothing to do with your profile.

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By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

Thanks Sam and Amber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst that can come from this is people who know me.irl will find out I'm bi which is not something I want to deal with yet but still isn't a massive issue, they'll either be fine with it or be dicks in which case I won't speak to them any more.

So not that fussed I'm honest with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really worth answering posts like these from people with blank profiles?... (sez us answering

) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its nice to see honesty anyhow ...........

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By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

"Is it really worth answering posts like these from people with blank profiles?... (sez us answering

) ..."

It's a free world. Nobody is forcing you to do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We also get the reg number of the car before they come to ours , no car no play."

Curious what the registration number of a car has to do with anything regarding swinging/meeting? I have a meet who uses his sister in laws car sometimes or a works van others. In my previous job I could go to work in one car and come home in another every day of the week...doesn't make me any less genuine...but was a pain in the arse for airport parking!

OP...My profile is honest, and I give my real name because it would take too much effort to lie and remember the lie, but I'm not overly arsed about whether people give real names for a one off meet. If it's going to be something more regular though then I'd prefer to know so I don't keep calling someone the wrong name, but I'm not going to be asking for ID before I'll agree to play. Can understand why some people use a fake name as there have been many proven stalkers on here.

I don't want to meet cheats, so that is something I prefer honesty on...although guess it's ironic asking them to be honest with me when they can't be honest with the person they love! I'm sure there will be one or two that have managed to pull the wool over my eyes, but guess if I don't know then I can't do much about it.

Guess we all prefer homesty, but at the same time I understand some fibs to protect privacy. I'm not looking to date these men so I'm a bit more lenient than I would be if I were looking for more than a shag...but I suppose the more honest they are then the more chance there is of a repeat meet.

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By *andh OP Couple
over a year ago

Ilford

Thanks goldicocks

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