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Taking one for the team

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you have been out at a swinging club , realised as the night wears on that there's no one that really takes your fancy and 'taken one for the team ' ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm not a couple but if I was I wouldn't do it. Would just feel totally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it either.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

think id just leave and go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No if its not happening, walk away, can still have a laugh and make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you want to ?"

When we first started over 2 years ago we didn't really know what we wanted , or how things would develop .

So we would join in orgy scenarios at chams and not necessarily even know who we had played with !

As time went by we worked out what we were after and stick to it no matter what .

Many a time we have been out and come home without playing .

However , as many who regularly visit ckubs will have seen - it does happen !

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By *anglefootedMan
over a year ago

northampton

There was one time in our early days when we both thought the other was having a ball, and continued where we would normally have quit, to allow the other to enjoy a great time....that was a funny conversation on the way home:

"Did you have a good time?"

"Yes, not bad thanks but saw you were having fun so I took one for the team"

" What!? I took one for the team!!!"

Much laughter and joking followed, along with a determination to never "take one for the team" again.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Googling take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Haven't and wouldn't take one for the team! Either of us! If it's not happening then go home! Just because it's in a club doesn't mean play had to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope would never take one for the team!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How many of you have been out at a swinging club , realised as the night wears on that there's no one that really takes your fancy and 'taken one for the team ' ?

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Why would you want to?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why would you want to ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit to it - been playing with a group of gorgeous guys ( save for one ) .... Could I really exclude him ? I didnt but didnt spend a great deal of time on him either ! Not hideous but not quite for me x happened twice ...ooops xx

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me."

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll admit to it - been playing with a group of gorgeous guys ( save for one ) .... Could I really exclude him ? I didnt but didnt spend a great deal of time on him either ! Not hideous but not quite for me x happened twice ...ooops xx "

Very magnanimous of you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me."

Ever been to a swinging club ?

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

As someone who has never subscribed to the any hole is a goal idea I'd sooner go without than take one for the team.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!! "

Thank you some of us do need more than a pulse to go on... attraction is important to me

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

Ever been to a swinging club ?"

Yes, a few times, but I dont see why that would make a difference anyway - I would still take the same view..... even if it was offered on a plate to me - if I dont fancy them, I wont be doing anything with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!! "

easy to say on a forum.

much more difficult to complete when stood around naked people with a hard on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't but I know someone who has

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!!

easy to say on a forum.

much more difficult to complete when stood around naked people with a hard on lol"

But thats part of the point.... I'm not going to get hard for someone I am not attracted to - its not just the physical act of sec or the thought of it that gets me aroused, its everything, and that includes the other person involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!!

easy to say on a forum.

much more difficult to complete when stood around naked people with a hard on lol"

...aren't you meant to get a hard on if you find that person attractive? I can't comment. Haven't been to a swinging club yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather go without instead of justing having sex for the sake of it with someone I wasnt attracted to, or they werent attracted to me.

That is refreshing coming from a bloke!!

easy to say on a forum.

much more difficult to complete when stood around naked people with a hard on lol

But thats part of the point.... I'm not going to get hard for someone I am not attracted to - its not just the physical act of sec or the thought of it that gets me aroused, its everything, and that includes the other person involved."

you never got hard at whats happening rather than those involved?

i know i have

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"How many of you have been out at a swinging club , realised as the night wears on that there's no one that really takes your fancy and 'taken one for the team ' ?

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I've attended a few clubs in the last 11 months and I've always found 'une chaussure a mon pied' (a shoe that fits). If I had not, I would have spent my evening chatting to those around me. Going to swingers clubs does not automatically mean you will play so I'd never 'take one for the team' I am not sure that being single female makes me 'a team'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done open room group sessions in past and my body language is anough to let the bloke know im not interested,i turn away,never take One for the team,only take One for myself lol

With One ?n one it a case of if no connection then no nooky,with a couple i have had to say to the bloke to watch cuz didnt find him my type x

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