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would you shag with your mates?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We being fairly new to all this but like it lol are wondering about the following. A few years ago we got very friendly with a couple where the wives worked with each other. We started to go out together on a regular basis anyway after about 6 months when we used to be at each others homes having dinner wine etc somtimes the topic got around to sex and flirting type of things but nothing else. When lynda who is my wife use to go out on a girls night out on her return she use to say that tracy the other wife use to be always asking about sex in a joking manner etc .

On the odd guys night out nothing was mentioned other than the guy use to joke about what he was going to do to tracy when he got home.

Our point do you think this cple were up for swinging ,curious, or just messing and would anyone one on here if they were us suggested it? to them, on one of our nights out.

ie how do you spot a player who you havent met on a swing site?? is it possible.Saying all that tracy was a fit bird and lynda would have played with paul till the cows come home however lost touch now and never found them on any of the sites and its not for not looking lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can take a chance and suggest something after a drink. But be warned we had friends who thought the signs were there and things blew up big time with all sorts of accusations and nastiness going on. It is far better to look through profiles here and contact people whom you know are already swingers and take things from there. After all you don’t have to maintain a relationship with on line meets if you don’t want to afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes had a similar problem

Girls knew each other from school and we went out for dinner etc. had nights in the usual stuff.

Then one night the other couple hinted at swinging.

Problem was, they were a nice couple and good friends but they took offence when we said physically we couldn't play with them as we were not attracted to them in that sense.

Have not seen them since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We being fairly new to all this but like it lol are wondering about the following. A few years ago we got very friendly with a couple where the wives worked with each other. We started to go out together on a regular basis anyway after about 6 months when we used to be at each others homes having dinner wine etc somtimes the topic got around to sex and flirting type of things but nothing else. When lynda who is my wife use to go out on a girls night out on her return she use to say that tracy the other wife use to be always asking about sex in a joking manner etc .

On the odd guys night out nothing was mentioned other than the guy use to joke about what he was going to do to tracy when he got home.

Our point do you think this cple were up for swinging ,curious, or just messing and would anyone one on here if they were us suggested it? to them, on one of our nights out.

ie how do you spot a player who you havent met on a swing site?? is it possible.Saying all that tracy was a fit bird and lynda would have played with paul till the cows come home however lost touch now and never found them on any of the sites and its not for not looking lol. "

We tend not to as it can lead to complications if you fall out. But if you decide to air with caution is the best advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Now we don't mind making friends with swingers but don't like the idea of making swingers of our friends

Theres a world of difference between a bit of flirting with your mates to asking if they want a shag,we would rather keep the 2 separate

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It would be a no for us.

We like strangers to meet for NSA sex, and even if we have repeat meets, we only ever get in touch with each other if either party fancies a meet so we don't know them too much and they don't know much about us...all we need to know is if we can all get on for a meet If I ( Mrs ) gets to know too much info that they offer about their lives etc I back off.

So a big no no for real friends for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now we don't mind making friends with swingers but don't like the idea of making swingers of our friends

Theres a world of difference between a bit of flirting with your mates to asking if they want a shag,we would rather keep the 2 separate"

Nicely put, I feel the same. Its great if you can meet people through here who can become swinging friends, but I like them to be seperate from my shall we say shopping friends.

That way when I make the decision in the morning of sex or shopping??? I have a different set of numbers to call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite right, Rugby!

We might become friends with a couple thru swinging, but we'd never play with hitherto non-swinging friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have met an old school friend off a swing site and met up for 3some it was good fun. have talked to them since and no hard feelings. just fun with someone different and they think im still as mad so were greatfull that their first 3some was with some they got on with

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By *oobCouple
over a year ago

Netherlands

"No strings attached" is difficult to play when friends are involved.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now we don't mind making friends with swingers but don't like the idea of making swingers of our friends

Theres a world of difference between a bit of flirting with your mates to asking if they want a shag,we would rather keep the 2 separate"

spot on couldnt have put it better

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