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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We like the. If someone winks us we wink back and then expect that they contact us. We wink if we are attracted and think there is potential with someone. We dont understand why some are so hostile towards them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone winks I take it they like profile but not interested enough to message

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

wink wink .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I never check mine, just looked and I have 379 winks. Last time I went through them a few weeks back not one of them was from anyone who actually matched my preferences (and therefore hadn't read my profile)

I do state in my profile that I don't look at winks though so if someone chooses to send one anyway then it's not my fault it'll get ignored lol x

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?"

I personally hate the damn things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they are lazy, same as i donut think one liners should be so negatively chastised.. They are a way of breaking the ice, acknowledging interest.

If people ignore them then thats fine, but i think its a good way to see someones interest

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?

I personally hate the damn things"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?"

Both and also a waste of time , always wait till somebody winks you its better that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood why anyone could get uptight over a wink being sent.....they need to get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood why anyone could get uptight over a wink being sent.....they need to get over it."

some people just dont like winkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think they are lazy, same as i donut think one liners should be so negatively chastised.. They are a way of breaking the ice, acknowledging interest.

If people ignore them then thats fine, but i think its a good way to see someones interest"

I agree with you some people overeact to winks.

also sometimes you come across some really. uninspiring profiles that all u can come up with is a one liner message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view a wink as them showing interest but not having the nerve to send a message, I wink back and often find they will then mail me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?"

Some people think that winks are a good ice-breaker, or a way of showing interest. It doesn't work for me, as I never look at my winks.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I don't think they are lazy, same as i donut think one liners should be so negatively chastised.. They are a way of breaking the ice, acknowledging interest.

If people ignore them then thats fine, but i think its a good way to see someones interest"

Actually, that's not true. We have somwhere in the region of 300 "ignored" winks because we never look at them.

But in that 300 could be some great people.

So it's not a measure of our interest in the winker at all. it's a measure of our interest in winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?"

They don't take a lot of effort but they are not lazy its a way of showing interest without clogging up someone's inbox. I guess many of us though tend to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are good way of showing interest. If reciprocated, therexis wink back. Then original winker messages. Quick and easy and prevents guys getting annoyed by lack of replies and women complaining about short messages.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"Do you think winks are lazy or a way of showing interest?"

They're a lazy way of showing interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood why anyone could get uptight over a wink being sent.....they need to get over it."

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink is a way of smiling at someone, if people are getting rude and up theirself cos someone winked at them, would they do the same if someone smiled?

I always say thanks for the wink if I get one, there's not that many lol and NO I'm not fishing or do I wanna know what's wrong with my profile and a wink to the lovely sexy people out there.

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