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"To many on here. It has to be said........" sad but true | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........ I think you'll find its been said many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many times. Modify your selection process and the problem disappears. " This! | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........" What are you defining as a time waster? | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........" 100's of um | |||
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"There are loads of timewasters that is why i prefer going to clubs rather than being stranded somewhere in cold all alone" | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........" You will get as many saying people are too pushy so we changed our mind. There is no automatic guarantee if you chat to someone they will meet you and it doesn't automatically make them a timewaster. | |||
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"I'm finding that all the couples or girls that have no verifications or pictures generally are all time wasters . what do other people find ?" Not really i was one once,somebody said yes to me and gave me the benefit of any doubt,by a phone chat hey presto i had my first meet 2mths after joining | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........ I think you'll find its been said many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many times. Modify your selection process and the problem disappears. " Bollocks. There is no guaranteed way of totally avoiding these morons. At best you can reduce the chances. | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........ I think you'll find its been said many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many times. Modify your selection process and the problem disappears. Bollocks. There is no guaranteed way of totally avoiding these morons. At best you can reduce the chances." You can significantly reduce the chances of avoiding them to the extent that the problem is virtually non existent. There is a simple reason that those people who never really have a problem with time wasters also tend to be successful and that is because they have worked out a selection criteria that works for them. | |||
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"I'm finding that all the couples or girls that have no verifications or pictures generally are all time wasters . what do other people find ?" So apply filters to the unverified and those with no pictures. And concentrate on the others | |||
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"I got a 48 hour forum ban for going on about timewasters was told not to air my dirty washing in public" and rightly so, we all have problems and don't want to read about other peoples. | |||
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"I got a 48 hour forum ban for going on about timewasters was told not to air my dirty washing in public" Starting a thread or talking about a specific user and airing your dirty washing will get you a ban. Commenting on a general subject in general comments, ie this thread is fine. There is a difference between the two. | |||
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"I've never had a problem with time wasters, I do waste my own time on the forums but i enjoy that, most of the time " and it was just me wasting too much time in forum | |||
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"I'm finding that all the couples or girls that have no verifications or pictures generally are all time wasters . what do other people find ? So apply filters to the unverified and those with no pictures. And concentrate on the others " You have to take care. Photo verification aside, how does a new person get a meet if no one accepts messages etc from users who have not had a meet and are thus verified? | |||
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"I got a 48 hour forum ban for going on about timewasters was told not to air my dirty washing in public" And you'll get another one for discussing it on the forums | |||
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"I'm finding that all the couples or girls that have no verifications or pictures generally are all time wasters . what do other people find ? So apply filters to the unverified and those with no pictures. And concentrate on the others You have to take care. Photo verification aside, how does a new person get a meet if no one accepts messages etc from users who have not had a meet and are thus verified? " I agree and haven't personally applied the filters, but if it's annoying the person that much they could apply them and see if it helps. | |||
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"I'm finding that all the couples or girls that have no verifications or pictures generally are all time wasters . what do other people find ? So apply filters to the unverified and those with no pictures. And concentrate on the others You have to take care. Photo verification aside, how does a new person get a meet if no one accepts messages etc from users who have not had a meet and are thus verified? " Clubs, cam & socials are the obvious answers that spring to mind. | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........ I think you'll find its been said many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many times. Modify your selection process and the problem disappears. Bollocks. There is no guaranteed way of totally avoiding these morons. At best you can reduce the chances. You can significantly reduce the chances of avoiding them to the extent that the problem is virtually non existent. There is a simple reason that those people who never really have a problem with time wasters also tend to be successful and that is because they have worked out a selection criteria that works for them." I've always been happy to meet newbies and unverified people. But it would be in a 'social' environment somewhere where I was going to be anyway - e.g a coffee between work meetings or a drink after work. That way if they no show it's cost me nothing - money, travel or time - as I'd be there anyway. And when browsing profiles if I come across a profile verified by someone I know (or know of!) then to me that carries far more weight than one veri of another profile with one veri! | |||
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"To many on here. It has to be said........" The biggest waste of time on here is the myriad of threads about timewasters. If you're having your time wasted you're talking to the wrong people ie you're wasting your own time. Moaning on here won't change that. | |||
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