FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't guys understand that I'm straight

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I often get emails from guys saying "do you want to meet up" when the profile states that I'm not interested in guys?

Is it due to the fact that they think that they can turn me or due to not reading the profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that's due to the huge amount of guys that lie about their sexuality. They therefore assume that other straight guys are actually "straight" guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

phoaaar OP, geez a bit

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's a thrill to some that they can "turn" a straight man.....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

filters.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup... we get quite a few messages from straight guys asking for bi fun!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps... nice cock and I think I have sucked a cock in that public loo you are photographed in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you use the filter and block single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sexy time in the men's loo might send a certain message.

I'm sure starting this discussion should get you a few more offers too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys say straight but are really bi or bi curious and don't want to state it.

You can block guys if it offends you or a polite no or even ignore will do.

I've had "straight" guys wink at me or msg me asking for some cock fun....

I find labels on here pretty pointless... Maybe we should just state "sexual"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of guys say straight but are really bi or bi curious and don't want to state it.

You can block guys if it offends you or a polite no or even ignore will do.

I've had "straight" guys wink at me or msg me asking for some cock fun....

I find labels on here pretty pointless... Maybe we should just state "sexual"! "

Yes, I've had some winks but I just don't follow up. Maybe one should be flattered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't understand your profile, so what, you don't want to meet guys?? I'm confused lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I get messaged by straight guys all the time. I've now had to put a line on my profile saying "I don't meet straight guys"..... And yes they still message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason I havent put filters is that sometimes guys will inbox that they want someone to come along with them for a 2 on 1 with a girl or to shag their wife

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I reckon we are all different and some men like the attention even if from another guy,i felt physically sick so i filtered so another guy cant text...Thats how easy it was but i admit someone showed me . X x X

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"It's a thrill to some that they can "turn" a straight man.....

Absolutely I've had messages saying exactly that and that they're hoping I can fulfill that fantasy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reason I havent put filters is that sometimes guys will inbox that they want someone to come along with them for a 2 on 1 with a girl or to shag their wife "

And then you discover that the wife was too sick to come....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I often get emails from guys saying "do you want to meet up" when the profile states that I'm not interested in guys?

Is it due to the fact that they think that they can turn me or due to not reading the profile??

That and to many men say straight and their not, so they asume other's will be the same. I'm guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best not to take things too personally on this site we all have the same things to contend with mate. You simply delete such messages but you also have that very useful tool to block the senders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong, I don't get worked up. Im just curious to as why when I have stated on my profile that I dont like guys, they still inbox. But yes I just block now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong, I don't get worked up. Im just curious to as why when I have stated on my profile that I dont like guys, they still inbox. But yes I just block now "

Because They look at your pics and message. Or assume you're playing hard to get !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I often get emails from guys saying "do you want to meet up" when the profile states that I'm not interested in guys?

Is it due to the fact that they think that they can turn me or due to not reading the profile??

Nope.... I don't think they are trying to turn you..... it's probably more like the same reason I get messages from guys whose profiles claim they are straight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the toilet in your pictures. And your muscle man pose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought but maybe they think you doth protest too much having three paragraphs on your profile insisting that you don't want to meet guys

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

You have to have a think to yourself ..do you want to get the initial message from a man that really is only texting you because he wants to either put his cock up your bum hole or he wants you to ram it into him..i would rather no get the initial message. X x X..but the great thing is we are all different. X

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Sorry fuk knows what haPpened there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the time to worry is when you stop getting messages from guys....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No its was in a gym and not a public toliet haha. I only posted it up so guys would get the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the cock pic over a toilet usually hints at public restroom possibilities.. Once a guy sees that, his mind is gonna run with it..

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I say you call their bluff and have sex with them as a sort of protest thing ... that'll show 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a single message or wink from a single guy in the 5 years I've been here and never will, I blocked them you see,its dead easy,thats if you really don't want to receive messages from single guys that is.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its was in a gym and not a public toliet haha. I only posted it up so guys would get the message "

You posted a picture of you in a toilet so guys would get the message you're not interested???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the cock pic over a toilet usually hints at public restroom possibilities.. Once a guy sees that, his mind is gonna run with it.."

Yes I agree. If you are really wanting to attract women OP do you think us ladies like to see pics in toilets

Tell you what I'll start a thread and put that to the vote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blocked men pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on, everyone knows guys read with their dicks!

Ps.....that was a joke for those about to take offence!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the general consensus is that I need new photos maybe on a meet I can take new photos then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its was in a gym and not a public toliet haha. I only posted it up so guys would get the message

You posted a picture of you in a toilet so guys would get the message you're not interested???

Pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the general consensus is that I need new photos maybe on a meet I can take new photos then?? "

I think so. Look at the lounge thread - ladies yes or no post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the general consensus is that I need new photos maybe on a meet I can take new photos then?? "

Most meet pics end up being mostly of the woman or of geniality, just get some nice pics which don't include your fetish for mens toilets/changing areas.....it's a bit gay you see?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I'll simply block you if you inbox me about having sex with you, unless you are bringing in on a meet with a female."

Sort of implies that you will have sex with a man if they bring a woman as well.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"The reason I havent put filters is that sometimes guys will inbox that they want someone to come along with them for a 2 on 1 with a girl or to shag their wife "

In which case you can't really complain that single men are mailing you.

We accept mails from anyone and get mails a lot from people who we are obviously not looking for, they are just trying their hand, it is easy to ignore or say no thanks to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on, everyone knows guys read with their dicks!

Ps.....that was a joke for those about to take offence!"

Hence why it's called the one eyed monster: it makes sense!!

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