FabSwingers.com forum: It's just us or...

By *aughtydesires OP Couple
over a year ago

North West

We don't mind having singles playing with us and our profile description make it crystal clear under what circumstances we accept to meet. The fact that almost nobody bother to read doesn't represent a surprise any more, but having a lot of requests asking for exclusivity it is surprising. First, we have noticed that 8 out 10 singles are not comfortable with setting a meeting in a swinger club. Second, at least in our case, more than half of the messages coming from singles were ignoring the fact that we are a couple. But the third and the jewellery of the crown is when, more or less, they ask for exclusivity.

We though to be about swinging in here not about getting married and having monogamist closed relationships for God's name. How can you ask for that and further more, at the end, you are the offended one because we don't accept it. How can you be in swinging as single man when you, I quote: "can not accept to share with other men" somebody's else wife???

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, to play devils advocate, as your post doesnt make it quite clear.

is this about organising to meet at a club, then going off and playing with others, or people wanting long term monogamy??

if its the former then i can see why its a problem.

wouldnt want to organise to meet up with someone to do something, only for them to go off with others. whether you think thats fine or not, it really isnt.

if its the latter, than yes, you are right.

thats not something we would be bothered with either