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By *otebonydeluxe OP   Woman
over a year ago

earls barton

Hello anal people.am looking to experience my 1st anal .any advice on how to approach this .very nervous but also looking forward.Keisha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube, lube and more lube. Don't rely on KY it's rubbish. The best lube we have found is a mixture of olive oil and trex, really good for anal play.

Relax and take your time, lots of foreplay with fingers first and it's very enjoyable.

I find (male) if you push out while the other guy pushes in it really helps. Do you like poppers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello anal people.am looking to experience my 1st anal .any advice on how to approach this .very nervous but also looking forward.Keisha "

Lube lube and more lube and a patient partner. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and buy a douche kit, gets round any unwanted mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has been said and take it slowly.

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By *otebonydeluxe OP   Woman
over a year ago

earls barton

Thanks.got plenty of olive oil.hopefully will be relaxed enough.should I try with a small dildo 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks.got plenty of olive oil.hopefully will be relaxed enough.should I try with a small dildo 1st"

No I would go straight with cock as a dildo is less flexible and feels different.

Also think of position, like spooning, where it won't be so deep inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't just rely on oilive oil, go to tesco and buy trex, it's a veg fat but is superb for anal.

We use a but plug as it helps dilate the anus before full sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just incase anyone thinks we've gone mad buying our lube from tezzas, we did a lot of research (well I did) as I love anal and so does Jen but she clams up so needed to ensure we found the best possible lube so she full enjoys it.

I found the 'recipe' on a fisting site so it must be good as a cock is no where near the size of a fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks.got plenty of olive oil.hopefully will be relaxed enough.should I try with a small dildo 1st

No I would go straight with cock as a dildo is less flexible and feels different.

Also think of position, like spooning, where it won't be so deep inside. "

Agree to the spooning. A much more relaxing position which helps with nerves

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Plenty of lube and try going on top, that way YOU control what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't just rely on oilive oil, go to tesco and buy trex, it's a veg fat but is superb for anal.

We use a but plug as it helps dilate the anus before full sex"

I've never heard of this. Is there a particular mixture of olive oil to trex that you recommend?

I would agree that a good douche helps clear things out and will put your mind at rest if that is a concern that you have, and then allow you to fully concerntrate on enjoying yourself. Although you should allow 20mins after the douche to ensure that what goes up has had chance to come down, before you start playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your most of the way there by 'wanting' to have anal sex. The mental attitude plays a massive part in being able to relax enough. Patience, loads of lube and practice. Don't get disheartened if it's uncomfortable the first few times it's one of those things that takes some practice and getting used to. Have fun and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello anal people.am looking to experience my 1st anal .any advice on how to approach this .very nervous but also looking forward.Keisha

Lube lube and more lube and a patient partner. Enjoy "

Excellent advice

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Don't just rely on oilive oil, go to tesco and buy trex, it's a veg fat but is superb for anal.

We use a but plug as it helps dilate the anus before full sex"

Veg fat!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't just rely on oilive oil, go to tesco and buy trex, it's a veg fat but is superb for anal.

We use a but plug as it helps dilate the anus before full sex

Veg fat!!! "

Yes I know it sounds odd and felt even odder buying it knowing it wasn't for cooking but it truly works so well. It's no different to using advacado cream on your face at the end of the day! That's how we rationalised it anyway haha

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