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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all in the forums,

We as a couple have always had a quiet mail box and in part chalked it up to being smokers, an unpopular life choice we know, and both bi which can be another big issue lol but what has been the new found shockers for us is that we have been kicked to the curb for Being tattoo''d and because Chris has a beard lol so it looks like our swinging days are over as we are smoking, bearded, tattoo''d bisexuals any one else been rejected for odd reasons? We want to see if there's any more we can add to our lepers list lol

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Little Sausage

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

having looked and Fabbed... cant see anything to ostracise you lol... oooh does that mean I'll be banished as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoo's are sexy!!!!!!

And as for random "no thank you because..." excuses, I was told a no thank you for a girl because she was 2 cup sizes smaller and she didn't want to feel bad on the night C xx

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

The tattoo problem sounds very familiar with us

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Trust me, if you where nearer we would already know you..... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all in the forums,

We as a couple have always had a quiet mail box and in part chalked it up to being smokers, an unpopular life choice we know, and both bi which can be another big issue lol but what has been the new found shockers for us is that we have been kicked to the curb for Being tattoo''d and because Chris has a beard lol so it looks like our swinging days are over as we are smoking, bearded, tattoo''d bisexuals any one else been rejected for odd reasons? We want to see if there's any more we can add to our lepers list lol

Xx"

I've looked at your profile and the pics of you are smoking hot . Tattoos are not a put off for most people so that's fine . Lots of people feel strongly about smoking , so you just have to accept that may put people off , but you could compromise and put on your profile , we will not smoke around non smokers . I would go with smokers on this basis . The final one is the beard , which it it's a Gary Barlow style short n trimmed , that would go down well , but if it's a David Bellamy full on forest gump special , then that will limit your in box , as very few women like that these days . Hope this helps !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tattoo's are sexy!!!!!!

And as for random "no thank you because..." excuses, I was told a no thank you for a girl because she was 2 cup sizes smaller and she didn't want to feel bad on the night C xx"

Well we never thought of that one that's another issue we have then lol xx

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

Im sup prised the picture police haven't hunted you down yet ..

hope you know one stocking is high that the other in one of your pictures ! … come on please try harder

mmmm mmm i do love your pictures actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey all in the forums,

We as a couple have always had a quiet mail box and in part chalked it up to being smokers, an unpopular life choice we know, and both bi which can be another big issue lol but what has been the new found shockers for us is that we have been kicked to the curb for Being tattoo''d and because Chris has a beard lol so it looks like our swinging days are over as we are smoking, bearded, tattoo''d bisexuals any one else been rejected for odd reasons? We want to see if there's any more we can add to our lepers list lol

Xx

I've looked at your profile and the pics of you are smoking hot . Tattoos are not a put off for most people so that's fine . Lots of people feel strongly about smoking , so you just have to accept that may put people off , but you could compromise and put on your profile , we will not smoke around non smokers . I would go with smokers on this basis . The final one is the beard , which it it's a Gary Barlow style short n trimmed , that would go down well , but if it's a David Bellamy full on forest gump special , then that will limit your in box , as very few women like that these days . Hope this helps !!!!! "

Well the beard does go from trimmed goatie to a bit longer but it's normal for it to be trimmed for a meet, and we have always not smoked around non smokers it's the polite thing to do really,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust me, if you where nearer we would already know you..... x"

Mmmm now we would not mind that at all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The tattoo problem sounds very familiar with us "

It was quite a shock to us that it was such a problem tbh x

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By *andyman55Man
over a year ago

royal greenwich

1..i have a goatee.2..i smoke..3..im bi curious..4 ..im a woman!!! only jesting..peeps who kick peeps to the curb..really? l.a.l.l.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Hairy chest is the most common excuse I get - a lot of women must prefer smooth these days.

I cant see anything wrong with either of you and the smoking/tattoos are certainly not enough to put many people off. Stick with it, there are people out there looking for exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant believe you don't get loads of mail from all the straights??

Majority of our mail is from supposedly straight males...and our ID/Name doesn't leave much room for getting it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why some people dont like tattoos or beards, i have met some nice men with tatoos though and even one with an earing in his willy.

People dont always say why they dont want to meet you though, could be lots of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol never had the hairy chest one yet, only really had one straight couple message who thought it was cool we were bi and nope it was defo tats and beard that caped it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hairy chest is the most common excuse I get - a lot of women must prefer smooth these days.

I cant see anything wrong with either of you and the smoking/tattoos are certainly not enough to put many people off. Stick with it, there are people out there looking for exactly the same."

Amazing how things change over the years . I grew up in the Sean Connery era , and as a young man was self conscious of not having a hairy chest , as girls loved it , but NOW , smooth is in and I'm the one who's in .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, everyone has their preferences as you also do..

perhaps concentrate on those who fit your own and worry not about those who's preferences don't match your profile..

if you see what I mean..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

God if I shaved my chest or beard I would be in for a good hard kicking from Jayne she is so not a lover of smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you on the wrong planet? only one of those things would put us off but

ignore the negatives not worth the worry xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I think we need to move to the north it seems to be more of an issue down this neck of the woods

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

From what we've seen of your pics and you're profile I'm surprised you're not inundated with requests.

We'd do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long has chris with the beard is not the female all is well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hairy chest is the most common excuse I get - a lot of women must prefer smooth these days.

I cant see anything wrong with either of you and the smoking/tattoos are certainly not enough to put many people off. Stick with it, there are people out there looking for exactly the same."

I love a hairy chest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you look damn hot to us.... where are the 'him' pics though? You are a couple! You are smoking hot but let's see him please!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys know how much I luff you

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

I'm a shit shag. That's a big factor for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you think you have a quiet mail box, try being a single guy on here lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You guys know how much I luff you "

And we luff you too mwah!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We smoke.

We are both bi and one of us is in his 50s which some don't like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you look damn hot to us.... where are the 'him' pics though? You are a couple! You are smoking hot but let's see him please!!!"

All of our photos were public up till a few days ago might have to re add a few of the horror that is Chris lol

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

For quiet mail boxes any bi tgirl like me must win the prize every time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people pick themselves apart because of a lack of messages on here.

If you want loads of messages you need to spend a lot of time on camera (the female that is). Doesn't matter what you do or how you look, just being female on cam will do.

Add photos regularly with messages requesting people to like them.

Make sure your interests include single men and as many interests selected as possible.

Once done you'll have plenty of messages. Mostly from people you'd never want to meet, and many that wouldn't ever really meet you. But you'll get lots of messages and then you can put up a status moaning about how you can't keep up.

Otherwise and regardless of photos, profile text etc. for the rest of us it just isn't all that busy on here. We've had less than a handful of messages from people we'd be interested in over the past 3 or 4 weeks, but to be honest we're quite happy with that.

Your profile looks great, I shouldn't worry at all about changing it and people will say any old shit to make an excuse so ignore the crap about tattoos, beard etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your photos look great...from a tattooed smoker. xxx lolol ooooh now im doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try wearing a onesie/mankini and see what happens then!

*from a tattoed, smoking, bi-curious, occasional onesie/mankini wearer!

**oh - nearly forgot the afro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have your own exclusive club have a party and invite your choices then happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know why people pick themselves apart because of a lack of messages on here.

If you want loads of messages you need to spend a lot of time on camera (the female that is). Doesn't matter what you do or how you look, just being female on cam will do.

Add photos regularly with messages requesting people to like them.

Make sure your interests include single men and as many interests selected as possible.

Once done you'll have plenty of messages. Mostly from people you'd never want to meet, and many that wouldn't ever really meet you. But you'll get lots of messages and then you can put up a status moaning about how you can't keep up.

Otherwise and regardless of photos, profile text etc. for the rest of us it just isn't all that busy on here. We've had less than a handful of messages from people we'd be interested in over the past 3 or 4 weeks, but to be honest we're quite happy with that.

Your profile looks great, I shouldn't worry at all about changing it and people will say any old shit to make an excuse so ignore the crap about tattoos, beard etc."

Thanks to all for the great comments on our profile, although this was ment to be a bit more of a tongue in cheek thread than it's been taken, we were more interested in the odd excuses people have had as to why they are not worthy more than anything else, we are pretty happy in our own skins and are not phased by a lack of in box activity or not being uber popular, we just wanted to see what other odd excuses were out there xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try wearing a onesie/mankini and see what happens then!

*from a tattoed, smoking, bi-curious, occasional onesie/mankini wearer!

**oh - nearly forgot the afro! "

Now that sounds way cool, now would you go with the extra large hair bear bunch Afro and a onesie with or without a butt flap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also have the issue of a quiet inbox from time to time but simply chalk it up to being bi as it seems a lot of men/couples are put off by this.

We would rather be ourselves and be open as we will hopefully meet people more suited to our likes.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

He's bearded and we're both tattooed - some dislike these but we still have plenty of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bearded (currently) tattooed bisexual here

*raises gloved fist in the air*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think your photos are great. They're classy well taken shots, which I much prefer over many of the pics on here.

As for tattoos, bring them on! They're sexy and make you more interesting to look at. I got laughed at for my latest until I explained its done in UV ink and will only appear blacklight. After that, they all thought it was pretty cool.

Beyond that, who cares. People will always judge over the most trivial of things, and people that close minded I wouldn't be interested in anyway. As long as your enjoying yourselves along with those that you choose, that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try wearing a onesie/mankini and see what happens then!

*from a tattoed, smoking, bi-curious, occasional onesie/mankini wearer!

**oh - nearly forgot the afro!

Now that sounds way cool, now would you go with the extra large hair bear bunch Afro and a onesie with or without a butt flap lol "

Huge afro.

Onesie flap at the front only - no 'rear entry'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V likes a guy with a beard.

we both like, an have, tattoos and piercings

V is a social smoker, I dont really mind either way.

the only thing we have no interest in is male bisexuality

we would have winked you, had you been closer, and seen if there was anything there.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"you on the wrong planet? only one of those things would put us off but

ignore the negatives not worth the worry xxx"

Since when did personal preference become a negative? I don't expect to appeal to everyone and have absolutely no desire to. Therefore if I hear "no thanks" I don't feel the desire to start threads, incredulous someone actually has the audacity not to want me!

But hey...that's just little old me.

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