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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's fairly safe to say I haven't had the best of luck in terms of meets from this site (none in fact), so I'm just wondering if clubs are anything like the site ?

I mean in terms of going to a club as a single male, is the likelihood of getting lucky in a club and having a good night better than the likelihood of getting a meet off this site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had more single guy meets in clubs than off here xx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've had more success from attending clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on your social skills and what club night you go to... I would say yes, you may have more luck in a club.

We have played with many single guys in clubs but haven't met any from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the site to meet others at clubs..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the swift responses everyone, looks like it's time to put the nerves on the back burner an hit the clubs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are defo better than this site for meeting.no hiding behind fake pics or bull shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the site works better for me but enjoy clubs as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit the local working men's clubs grab a granny night always a winner pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try townhouse.excellent club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fairly safe to say I haven't had the best of luck in terms of meets from this site (none in fact), so I'm just wondering if clubs are anything like the site ?

I mean in terms of going to a club as a single male, is the likelihood of getting lucky in a club and having a good night better than the likelihood of getting a meet off this site ? "

Well you'll certainly have more chance if you go to the club than if you don't that's for sure

Though it's the same as on here really, the more effort you put in, the more chance you'll have.

Spend time chatting to as many people as possible whilst in the club and just look it as a way of meeting people and you might well get lucky, you might not. Just follow people around in the hope of getting a grope/BJ/shag and you're more likely to end up just having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club you're dealing with real people so yes if you're social amd happy to chat then you may find it easier than dealing with people over the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I've played with people in clubs that I wouldn't have arranged a meet with if they had sent me s message as not everyone comes across well via profile xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

All the successes I've enjoyed have been from this site alone; I've never been to a club (yet).

The majority of men in here won't give you any advice mate as there's sooooooo much competition from single males. The most I will say though; be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clubs are great but don't leave out the socials. Excellent way to meet up with likeminded people and (as was mentioned earlier) you may find you hit it off with people that you might not attract by profile alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are defo better than this site for meeting.no hiding behind fake pics or bull shit.

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+1 but we still love this site and met many great ppl through the site

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It's fairly safe to say I haven't had the best of luck in terms of meets from this site (none in fact), so I'm just wondering if clubs are anything like the site ?

I mean in terms of going to a club as a single male, is the likelihood of getting lucky in a club and having a good night better than the likelihood of getting a meet off this site ? "

i dont think it is a case of club vs site..... it is more a case of club and site working together as part of the swinging jigsaw......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs all the way .

Real people and in the main , there to play !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some lovely men from this site in the past so it works well for me, even though I live miles from everyone.

I've not been to a club, yet

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"To be fair I've played with people in clubs that I wouldn't have arranged a meet with if they had sent me s message as not everyone comes across well via profile xx"

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the successes I've enjoyed have been from this site alone; I've never been to a club (yet).

The majority of men in here won't give you any advice mate as there's sooooooo much competition from single males. The most I will say though; be patient "

There's usually plenty of advice given by other guys - some don't see the scene as a 'competition'!

But OP - as others have said - engaging with people in clubs is different to the virtual world of the internet. Some of the people Fox and I have met in clubs have sent us great messages - then turned out to be 'characterless' face to face. But we've also met single guys that are confident, chatty and respectful in clubs.

Guess it all depends on your personality and social confidence. You may find clubs the answer to your desires. You may of course struggle as much in a club as you say you do on here. But if you don't try - you'll never know!

Good luck - clubs can be great fun and get quite addictive!

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We don't arrange meets with single men on here, however have played with them in clubs. Just the way that works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op ur profile isnt that great pics wise..that may be the lessening of ur site shag chances..its friendly enough.I dont know how well u message people of course.

If u are a social person, do get to a club..I still dont understand why lots dont, but will go to 'normal' pubs n clubs...

a swing club will normally work out just as expensive as a nite out to 'normal' clubs n pubs(as ur taking ur own drink)

even if u dont get 'action', u might get some nice chats, verifies(nice to see people out n about),and possibly greater interest later.

*drop the wives/girlfriends with big boobs n bums.. and have them as "I also like women with real curves"(something like that maybe)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the site to meet others at clubs.. "

this is how we go about things

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

When we first played at a club it turned out they were on this site too.

They all have their advantages and draw backs.

In the end clubs take less planning, but require more social skills.

If you are a watch and wank type then it can get a little freaky at time, being subject to that. Talking to people who still have some clothes on may improve your chances.

But I would not give up on here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the site to meet others at clubs..

this is how we go about things"

Same here

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Clubs provide a much better atmosphere, face to face chat and chemistry, personality also comes into it.

any swinging site lacks these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And clubs do not suffer from keyboard warriors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only ever met 1 couple to have fun with directly from a site like this in 3 years.

Everyone one else has been from a private party or a club.

For us, a site like this is generally a black book of contact details and club/party info.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I think its more to do with effort & attitude.

If you go to a club but make no effort or have a bad attitude you stand little chance of interaction. The same on here, a sense of entitlement won't get you far.

Go to a club but go to socialise, anything else is a bonus.

Come on here to network & chat, anything else is a bonus.

Expect sex from either then face possible disappointment.

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