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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester

Why don't women reply to messages, if I send a message I send a pic, well maybe that's were I'm going wrong LOL, but a simple thanks but no thanks don't take long, and I know women do get flooded with mail, but all the same

Just asking

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester

I rest my case not a single comment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are as impatient about messages as you are about this, then no wonder you get disappointed.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I rest my case not a single comment lol"

There's hundreds of threads about this and also about the abuse women continually get if they reply with a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks', look for instance at the 'your loss' thread on the lounge. The best way to avoid the abuse is to delete without responding if you are not interested, sad but true.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Women do get flooded with mail. Your answer is right there. Spend time rejecting or spend time replying to the mail that interests them the most.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I rest my case not a single comment lol"

Get back on the case and use the 'search' option as you will find threads with more replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester

Really I didn't know women got abuse for saying no thanks, well there are some sad men out there if that's the case and it makes sense now

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire


"Women do get flooded with mail. Your answer is right there. Spend time rejecting or spend time replying to the mail that interests them the most. "

Then starts the crap...but why not? but you won't regret it....etc, etc. Then the other type. After saying sorry but I like my men yung/older/taller/ shorter then comes the 'but I don't fuck any fat women either' !Even tho' my pe says exactly what I'm looking for, they don't fi what I' looking for but message anyway. That's why a lot of ladies don't bother replying. ask a female friend if you can go through her mail for her. Then you will understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i reply with a polite not interested all i get is abuse after that. The whole "you're a bitch/dog/lesbian/fake/ i was doing you a favour/ where's your six pack/ you'll never get laid on here, bullshit. And your massively quick and negative reply to your own thread doesn't bode well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you are as impatient about messages as you are about this, then no wonder you get disappointed."

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Ditto for us, just a raft of abuse from guys no matter how polite we try to be. Only so many ways to say no thank you.

The aids comment has been by far the worst type of abuse thus far though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not gonna quote the FAQs about people not replying - CBA!!

OP - have you ever considered the possibility they might simply just not be interested in you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone sends me a nice message with a face pic, I'll always reply and to be fair, I've not had abuse this time round. I don't get into a conversation when they reply back after that though. I'll read and delete. I've had 'shame' and 'it would have been fun' but I live with it!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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