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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been curious as to why people use the word 'professional' in their profile? As in 'we are a professional couple/female'. Is it to make them stand out or do they only want to play with other 'professionals'? I'd like to think whatever somebody's job, they do it professionally! I try to. One of the things about swinging is its diverse community. All age groups, colours etc. You could be meeting a chief exec or a litter picker. Does it matter? I'd like to think I get on with people from all aspects of life, so it doesn't matter to me. Just wondered on others opinions. I'm sure I will be enlightened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it means, no rif raf, inteligent smart people, no rough necks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A professional to be would be a lawyer, doctor etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its ti separate themselves from the benefits claiming council housed scum that frequent these sites instead of working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its ti separate themselves from the benefits claiming council housed scum that frequent these sites instead of working"

that did make me laugh but I suspect you maybe on the receiving end of some robust replies!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"I've always been curious as to why people use the word 'professional' in their profile? As in 'we are a professional couple/female'. Is it to make them stand out or do they only want to play with other 'professionals'? I'd like to think whatever somebody's job, they do it professionally! I try to. One of the things about swinging is its diverse community. All age groups, colours etc. You could be meeting a chief exec or a litter picker. Does it matter? I'd like to think I get on with people from all aspects of life, so it doesn't matter to me. Just wondered on others opinions. I'm sure I will be enlightened!"

Probably dickheads trying to impress others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been curious as to why people use the word 'professional' in their profile? As in 'we are a professional couple/female'. Is it to make them stand out or do they only want to play with other 'professionals'? I'd like to think whatever somebody's job, they do it professionally! I try to. One of the things about swinging is its diverse community. All age groups, colours etc. You could be meeting a chief exec or a litter picker. Does it matter? I'd like to think I get on with people from all aspects of life, so it doesn't matter to me. Just wondered on others opinions. I'm sure I will be enlightened!

Probably dickheads trying to impress others"

Why does it make them dickheads ? For us one half is in a job that requires discretion hence the use of professional. The other half used to be professional now isn't and couldnt care less about it. However its a way we show we have certain standards for meets/people. It doesn't mean we only meet professionals however, though smelly and chavy slum dwellers needn't apply to meet us as we are not interested. Its our preference and don't understand why so many on here get hung up on it. We are not the dickheads, perhaps you are by getting hung up on preferences that people have?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

For us we also need discretion about what we do, we also find that other people that who work hard for a living like us we are more likely to get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same question could be asked of a myriad of terms that people use on their profile. What I never understand is the vitriol with which some choose to attack those who do use the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it more as someone having a responsible attitude re; discretion, behaviour etc but I guess no one is going to put anything negative about themselves so wonder at the value?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think they are all snobs, just some are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't they put in their profile " do you drive a BMW/merc/Audi or is it a 10 year old Mazda / Nissan / rover "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem quite hung up on semantics at the mo.

If you have a chip on your shoulder about people that describe themselves in such a way you probably won't get on.

Some of what I've read makes it seem quite sensible to have on a profile.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why don't they put in their profile " do you drive a BMW/merc/Audi or is it a 10 year old Mazda / Nissan / rover " "

Ok I'll admit it. I'm a professional and I drive a Smart car.

There. Glad that's off me chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't they put in their profile " do you drive a BMW/merc/Audi or is it a 10 year old Mazda / Nissan / rover "

Ok I'll admit it. I'm a professional and I drive a Smart car.

There. Glad that's off me chest. "

Me too! And yes it is German !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Play nicely people! I just wondered why people felt the need to put it on their profile. I can understand the discretion part, but would guess that goes for most, if not all, anyway. But if you need discretion, does not putting 'professional' make you stand out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't they put in their profile " do you drive a BMW/merc/Audi or is it a 10 year old Mazda / Nissan / rover "

Ok I'll admit it. I'm a professional and I drive a Smart car.

There. Glad that's off me chest. "

So your a " fessional " then baayybe.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why don't they put in their profile " do you drive a BMW/merc/Audi or is it a 10 year old Mazda / Nissan / rover "

Ok I'll admit it. I'm a professional and I drive a Smart car.

There. Glad that's off me chest.

So your a " fessional " then baayybe. "

I thought the most important part of that statement was driving a Smart car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking a "smart" car or clean shiny smart car

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Are we talking a "smart" car or clean shiny smart car "

I thought the capital made it clear.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its just a word people use to describe themselves but it people seem to interpret it as a dirty word. Inverted snobbery is just as bad as snobbery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking a "smart" car or clean shiny smart car

I thought the capital made it clear. "

Oh crikey! I wouldn't feel safe in one of those !!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Are we talking a "smart" car or clean shiny smart car

I thought the capital made it clear.

Oh crikey! I wouldn't feel safe in one of those !! "

Nowt wrong with them! I've even driven it across Europe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id class myself as amateur then...

professionals built the titanic

amateurs built the Ark!!

nuff said!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id class myself as amateur then...

professionals built the titanic

amateurs built the Ark!!

nuff said!? "

One is a fairy tale?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a shipyard and always covered in shite at the end of the day and can glady say I've a very demanding job but don't have to put professional cause I scrub up well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they class Arse wipes as Professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People seem quite hung up on semantics at the mo.

If you have a chip on your shoulder about people that describe themselves in such a way you probably won't get on.

Some of what I've read makes it seem quite sensible to have on a profile."

Have to agree with this. We state it on our profile and threads like this hammer home that it is an unintentional but very desirable filter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they class Arse wipes as Professional "

If people pay you for that service I guess you can..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id class myself as amateur then...

professionals built the titanic

amateurs built the Ark!!

nuff said!?

One is a fairy tale?"

ah. Yes the one with Dicapprio??

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By *an333Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

I'm a 'professional' but I personally don't think it needs to be on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that spell it wrong that make up giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the ones that spell it wrong that make up giggle "

Lol see what I did there I was supposed to put us not up

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