FabSwingers.com forum: How relevant?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How relevant do people find a met on person verify? Do u look at the date? Eg how long is too long since last met.

Would u question lack or verify/meets if none in a year?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

If people look at the date, that's us sunk!! We meet people we already have met from here, so no need for another validation. We tend to get new meets from another site now.

Explains why the post bag is always empty!!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It's all judgement, and the verifications are only a small part.

Since any member could be having amazing sex with non-members, I don't attached h much importance. In fact, they usually tell me more about the verifiers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The date of a verification is the date on which it was written so not necessarily the same as meet date - I've got veris which were written several weeks/months after a meet!!

I rarely read other people's verifications. I prefer to make my own judgement about people I might be interested in meeting, just because someone else "clicked" with them and had a good time doesnt mean I will!!

Veris are only really intended to prove that someone is genuinely who they claim to be and that they turn up if they arrange a meet arent they but some are so graphic and some I think regard them as "trophies" which I personally find offputting but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm similar will repeat meet donekbd already know rather than lots new meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no verify in a year...brand new on site?

I'd seek a bit more confirmation on who I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted to sleep with the village bike, I would look at verifications and trace them back, because like attracts like,

I would never ask for or give a verification, to the people who meet me discretion is important, most are " straight" and happily married, and would like to remain so.

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We show ours they make me giggle mostly

People that read them can decide what they want

Yes I read those of people we might meet but it's more for fun than anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I wanted to sleep with the village bike, I would look at verifications and trace them back, because like attracts like,

I would never ask for or give a verification, to the people who meet me discretion is important, most are " straight" and happily married, and would like to remain so."

A fab pet hate of mine is people who don't verify me. Fair enough they hide mine that's their choice and if they asked me not to display I wouldn't.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I don't necessarily read the veris but I do look at the dates. If someone has one veri from 2 years ago I'm going to question why? I know there's lots if potential reasons, we also use another site to arrange meets etc but I'm going to remain a tad suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't necessarily read the veris but I do look at the dates. If someone has one veri from 2 years ago I'm going to question why? I know there's lots if potential reasons, we also use another site to arrange meets etc but I'm going to remain a tad suspicious. "

Exactly what I was meaning. Fair enough have various reasons for no meets in a year or more as u say poss use other sites but if people are on here they must be talking to someone. Even if it's a verify from a social meet. Are we meant to believe people are on site no verify for a year are online regularly and havnt met least 1 person for a coffee this year?!?!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some people will meet a person regularly but don't feel the need to verify them every time. I've met someone 3 times recently but only have the one verification from them. Which is fine with me. But say that went on for mmonth, it could look like I wasn't meeting when in fact I am.

I do look at verifications but I'm not fussed with the details, I see who they are from, look at them too etc.

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