FabSwingers.com forum: Never made to cum with a BJ

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had loads of blow jobs and women some of them have been amazing but they've never made me cum... I've had older women try but they've didn't give me enough time, and some was selfish and just want me to please them which I did like a idiot cos I love giving pleasure... Please tell me if you've had this problem and I'm defo looking for a women to blow my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be you're wired differently and need additional stimulation to cum by a bj. Enjoy the experiences as they cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had loads of blow jobs and women some of them have been amazing but they've never made me cum... I've had older women try but they've didn't give me enough time, and some was selfish and just want me to please them which I did like a idiot cos I love giving pleasure... Please tell me if you've had this problem and I'm defo looking for a women to blow my mind

Practise with a man, only a man knows how it feels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever came once with a blowjob and it was when we tried a finger aswell, I simply cannot cum with just a blowjob. But its fun to find ways to nake me lol

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Not all guys cum from a blow job. Most love the feeling and sensations from it but for some there isnt enough stimulation and they need to either be wanked or have penatrative sex in order to fullfil their needs. Just enjoy it and dont worry about whether you cum or not that way you just might do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who couldn't cum by just a Bj !! So I tried all sorts and finally got there by putting my finger up his arse!

Bingo

But it was fun finding out !

If anyone had this problem ! Find someone you trust and try to mix it up a bit and you'll get there !

If not give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only ever came once with a blowjob and it was when we tried a finger aswell, I simply cannot cum with just a blowjob. But its fun to find ways to nake me lol

I know I could cum but a women sometimes doesn't wanna keep they wanna fuck instead x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a guy who couldn't cum by just a Bj !! So I tried all sorts and finally got there by putting my finger up his arse!

Bingo

But it was fun finding out !

If anyone had this problem ! Find someone you trust and try to mix it up a bit and you'll get there !

If not give me a shout

xx "

I might give you a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have this problem. I enjoy having a woman giving oral, but have only ever cum twice. Once was when her partner pushed her onto my cock making her gag. That did it for me, but only after several times. But as long as its enjoyed, does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep only once for me as well. She just went for it and kept on and on. It was amazing, but n one of the others did it for long enough.

Not that I'm complaining. Sooner or later you have to go to work.....

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I find that oral alone does not quite tip me over the edge and need manual stimulation at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like most men struggle then.. I bet there is women out there that would make us cum in minutes it's just find them haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like most men struggle then.. I bet there is women out there that would make us cum in minutes it's just find them haha x"

I know a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem , but then I tend to be quite prescriptive to a lady during the act , so they do it in a way that gets me off . Good sex is all about communication , none of us are mind readers so you have to tell partners exactly what you want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me it takes ages, I feel sorry for the women.

It's not down to their lack of technique, which most times is perfect, just not hard enough stimulation.

I think BJ's are more of a visual than physical stimulation for me, much prefer an oily wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (tidy) can count on one hand how many times I've cum from a blow job. Lucky funtime has 3 of them fingers lol, no wonder she has me under her spell

Not all can cum from oral, I've met women that can't cum from penetrative sex. My ex wife was one, she couldn't cum just from it but if I penetrated her while she was cumming from, say oral, then she went wild.

Everyone is wired different, and it's up to you to be honest so the other person don't feel inadequate when they fail.

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

OMG cant hold back when mrs xcite sucking my cock wish i last longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible but hard work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy who couldn't cum by just a Bj !! So I tried all sorts and finally got there by putting my finger up his arse!

Bingo

But it was fun finding out !

If anyone had this problem ! Find someone you trust and try to mix it up a bit and you'll get there !

If not give me a shout

xx "

I can cum from BJ's, it just takes longer than penetration. But, I sure would love to give you a shout!!!

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By *exWithThePrettyCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure this is something men say to make sure they get special attention ive had a few guys say they cant cum yet do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever found one woman who can make me do this.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Well I certainly didn't have any problems cumming this way with a local lady Fabber a couple of weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can throw another one in, is there a lady who can make you cum with her mouth only. No hands/boobs/feet. Just mouth.

One mature fabber from Dundee has that skill down to a fine art xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tend to think when I see these threads that you're just after women to beg you to let them suck your Vick to see if they can do it.

Maybe you're just one of the guys that doesn't cum from blow jobs? I rarely cum from oral and even less from penetration, it's just how I'm programmed.

Just enjoy what does make you cum and enjoy sex.

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

x"
oh I do love a challenge

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Im sure this is something men say to make sure they get special attention ive had a few guys say they cant cum yet do."

Please don't tar us all with that brush!

I am the same as the OP, and have never cum from oral stimulation, and as much as it may represent a challenge for a lover to be the 'First Lady' who did succeed (excuse the pun), I am happy with the visual stimulus, and am happy to orgasm by other means.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Same for me it takes ages, I feel sorry for the women.

It's not down to their lack of technique, which most times is perfect, just not hard enough stimulation.

I think BJ's are more of a visual than physical stimulation for me, much prefer an oily wank!

XX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever found one woman who can make me do this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cum from a BJ either. Hand job yes

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have cum from a bj, though not often as it takes a while & I get complaints about a sore jaw...

Mind you, if a woman is down there for long enough I start to feel I'm being selfish so I offer to switch places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep I rarely cum from oral though have had a bloke try it on me before and he was pretty good so came close. Don't cum from anal either, find when it starts off but I find it loosens up too much to get enough stimulation. vag and wanking work everytime lol.

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I can cum from a bj no problem , takes a little longer but I cum every time , love the feeling of letting go in her mouth

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Me too I have never cum from a bj, so challenge is can any ladies make me cum from a bj and I will be your Slave forever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a friend tell me the same thing recently and I was shocked. Apparently after reading this thread its much more common. Some say that the technique was fine and they still can't which is surprising. My first impression was maybe they had women that didn't do it well and there are plenty that do not or have the stamina to continue to completion. I am fortunate to have a woman who loves to do it until completion and is very talented. I do last longer but enjoy cumming and being swallowed. I think she loves it more than I do and would take it as a challenge if I didn't finish. I'm a lucky guy. Cum in her mouth at least 3-5 times a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one has ever made me and she had a certain technique that none have been able to replicate. I don't mind though as I enjoy them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Andy can take a while to cum from a bj, I find laying down and deep throating gets him there quick

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

MrsD has been the only woman able to make me cum from a blow job, but it took her a few years to hit the right spot but it was worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

x oh I do love a challenge

I would let you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Andy can take a while to cum from a bj, I find laying down and deep throating gets him there quick

Yeh that feels a lot better letting him (sorry for the expression) fuck your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can airways cum from a BJ sometimes takes longer than normal but I like getting in different positions to fuck her face or her suck me hard n fast or long slow n deep but I always cum n it's a great feeling just the feel of my cum shooting out down her throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy who couldn't cum by just a Bj !! So I tried all sorts and finally got there by putting my finger up his arse!

Bingo

But it was fun finding out !

If anyone had this problem ! Find someone you trust and try to mix it up a bit and you'll get there !

If not give me a shout

xx "

Totally agree I like a cheeky finger at that certain point lol feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy who couldn't cum by just a Bj !! So I tried all sorts and finally got there by putting my finger up his arse!

Bingo

But it was fun finding out !

If anyone had this problem ! Find someone you trust and try to mix it up a bit and you'll get there !

If not give me a shout

Totally agree I like a cheeky finger at that certain point lol feels amazing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only cum from a BJ when I'm REALLY turned on! Otherwise i usually need a helping hand as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha but who can dribble it out their mouth and suck it all back in again

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can. But I choose not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can. But I choose not to"

Yeah yeah, you dreaming again

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can. But I choose not to

Yeah yeah, you dreaming again

Dreaming of a certain someone...

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Try 69 position. My hubby has only ever cum from my blow jobs. I mean I'm pretty good and all at it but..,;) if your focusing in giving her pleasure as well it may just be enough to put you over the edge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try 69 position. My hubby has only ever cum from my blow jobs. I mean I'm pretty good and all at it but..,;) if your focusing in giving her pleasure as well it may just be enough to put you over the edge."

Again totally agree get in different positions also the lass lay on end of bed with her head hanging over n the guy fucks her face but leans over n grabs her ass n pulls her up n holds her n then he can gve her oral pleasure at sake time

Personally I like it better when it's a 69er so I can please the lass at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can. But I choose not to

Yeah yeah, you dreaming again

Dreaming of a certain someone..."

Made me listen to I'm a Dreamer now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

I'd give you pleasure x

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

Mmmmmm

sounds like a good plan to me!

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

I have no problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mmmmmm

sounds like a good plan to me!"

When

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

We have an ocean to cross first my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have an ocean to cross first my friend."

I've already started swimming

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

I'll be waiting!

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

An older woman taught me the secret, get sucked a bit until your really horny, then masturbate until your at the point of no return, then pop it back in so she can finish you off. This gets you used to it, after that you'll have no probs

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Works for other sex your not used to cumming

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can. But I choose not to

Yeah yeah, you dreaming again

Dreaming of a certain someone...

Made me listen to I'm a Dreamer now

Wow I'd defo let you try and make me cum

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