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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men can Cum from oral. Same as not all women can x

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Is this post a ' try and make me' thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this post a ' try and make me' thread? "

Not at all I was just curious that's all

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

What Cali said..

plus would not view it as a 'failure' tbh, if the recipient and the person giving are enjoying themselves then that's all good..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men can Cum from oral. Same as not all women can x"

I didnt used to think i could cum when a man gave me oral sex, then i met two who did. I didnt let it worry me though, i have heard men say they dont cum from blow jobs either. Do you enjoy having your cock sucked and licked?

if you do then it doesnt realy matter if you dont cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finish myself off usually, can't cum from oral or penetration. I always make sure the other person is looked after and will cum and if I'm taking too long myself I just say to them "ah don't mind me I'll cum later".

I envy those who can cum by someone else touching them in some way.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?"

You're not weird, many men can't cum from oral alone, myself included. Just enjoy, as I do.

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By *eviant100Man
over a year ago

Uk

I cannot cum from oral alone but enjoy trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a finger up your bum, that will do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?"

try the real thing, only a man knows what a man likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the woman humming the theme tune to eastenders while sucking...bbboooooomm lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the woman humming the theme tune to eastenders while sucking...bbboooooomm lol"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try a finger up your bum, that will do the trick"

I'm no stranger to having my prostate massaged lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?"

No one ever managed it with me either.... til I met my Nicki.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whooaaa I just had to chime in here, il never forget my partners reaction to the 1st bj I gave him

His genuine surprise was unforgettable and his enjoyment was clear, he came without any warning or control and appeared speechless

He later told me In his words I have never came from a bj without forcing it and for some reason never when his knees are bent, well he sure didn't see that coming literally

I have been generously complemented on my bj's in the past, iv always had cumers, but my bf being a very sexual guy has had many various bj's enough to know this was another level :D

Forgive me for being a tad boasty but that reaction really makes ur head grow

So I really am jumping in here to just toot my own horn :P ... Anything she can do I can do better lalalala hehe

:P

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?

try the real thing, only a man knows what a man likes "

Oh puhlease,

So all men like the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only happened for me twice so it's not unusual at all. I enjoy being given a BJ but cumming from one isn't that important for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do cum from a bj but it takes a bloody long time! Tbh it's a pain as I just get uncomfortable with it

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I rarely cum from oral, just one of those things but really enjoy having my cock sucked and it's not something which bothers me at all

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I dont cum from BJs either, but I still love em.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I haven't cum from a blow job in ages. But I haven't been given a blow job in ages..... Offers on a postcard to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will put that right Tuesday lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will put that right Tuesday lol "

We shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?"

Are you sure its not somethin psychological? My partner was the same before me as his first girlfriend was really grossed out by the idea of him cumming in her mouth and so he built a mental block against it. It took a good few times of me trying and telling him I really wanted his cum and found it really sexy to swallow it before he could let go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I am beginning to think I'm weird as no matter how much a girls sucks my cock I can't cum yet when I'm fucking a girl Im a heavy cummer! Any ideas?

try the real thing, only a man knows what a man likes

Oh puhlease,

So all men like the same thing?"

Of course they do, they want to empty their balls. It isn't rocket science.

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

have you tried asking if she will slip a finger in your arse while sucking you …. makes me explode every time -)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get the woman humming the theme tune to eastenders while sucking...bbboooooomm lol"

Jesus! That is the single worst thing that anyone could do during sex! Coronation street theme tune or possibly emmerdale but eastenders !! Nooooooooo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I finish myself off usually, can't cum from oral or penetration. I always make sure the other person is looked after and will cum and if I'm taking too long myself I just say to them "ah don't mind me I'll cum later".

I envy those who can cum by someone else touching them in some way."

I don't mean this to sound at all insulting but perhaps you've masturbated too much. I know that sounds weird but I've heard of people getting too used to how they do it and so find it difficult with any other stimuli. I had a kind of problem with it myself. Could only cum with certain toys and oral. Fingers wouldn't do it, even my own! I still struggle now sometimes. Best way is to lay off the self play until you know you need to have an orgasm soon that way just about anything will set you off. Then if someone else plays with you, or you have sex you won't be able to help yourself. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really can be psychological , if you know the giver loves cum beforehand thst removes a barrier . It also helps if you know she is happy for you to shoot your load at that stage in the proceedings . So often the mind tells you not to cum , too soon etc....

Remove the barriers and it will happen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely cum from oral, just one of those things but really enjoy having my cock sucked and it's not something which bothers me at all"

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