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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope you do as you like..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not unreasonable! You've made the effort, why would you waste time talking with them again and risk them doing a no show again, when you can move on to pastures new and meet somebody who WILL show up? Sorry that happened to you, I've had it done to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not unreasonable! You've made the effort, why would you waste time talking with them again and risk them doing a no show again, when you can move on to pastures new and meet somebody who WILL show up? Sorry that happened to you, I've had it done to me. "

I'm not overly fussed they couldn't meet, I just expect a message an hour or so before scheduled time saying they can't do it! Not enough people have courtesy and respect for others I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope you do as you like.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "

I have done now

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "

No hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "

what does reporting them actually do ,, ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time

A very good point

what does reporting them actually do ,, ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "

If we have met them previously then we will accept a cancellation, anyone who cancels first meet is immediately blocked especially as our first meets are always socials with no pressures to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time

what does reporting them actually do ,, ?"

If they're serial no shows and get reported every time admin will take action!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks do have genuine reasons why they can't meet, but I do think it's rude not to at least call/text a reasonable time before hand, especially if the other party has had to travel any distance. I would hate to have driven 50 or so miles to a meet, then not have them show up.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Is the title of the Op not an oxymoron ?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Most of us have genuine reasons to not meet form time to time, however I think you soon get to know the good from the bad

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Love the title

Up to you, allow then to explain or block.

Ample others on here

I wouldn't like to say without knowing a little back story, and as it's on here I dont want or need a back story.

As an adult only you can make the decisions for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not always possible to give notice but it's rare that you can't send a quick text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!

Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "

and thats exactly what i did when i was stood up yday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just block,and report. if they dont have the respect to let you know then I wouldnt want anything to do with them. Probably armchair swingers

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