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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I'm new here only been a member of fab for 8 days.....there seem to be so many single guys moaning that they can't get meets yet i have had 3 meets in my first week and have had numerous other offers?! am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is all about the effort, the approach you make to people and the lack of any sense of entitlement.

good to read positives on here, continue to enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 52 and had lots of meets In the 7 months I have been on here .its all about effort and learning to live with the knockbacks and not letting it effect you . I always say . You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but you will always be someone's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps that you have put a bit of effort into your pics and they are not the standard all Cock pics with not a sky remote in site. Your profile text isn't bad either which is another plus. Oh and you can accommodate so unlikely to be married. And last but Not least you are not hard on the eyes at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am 52 and had lots of meets In the 7 months I have been on here .its all about effort and learning to live with the knockbacks and not letting it effect you . I always say . You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but you will always be someone's xx"

Haha I like that saying I may have to steal that from you :P

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I am 52 and had lots of meets In the 7 months I have been on here .its all about effort and learning to live with the knockbacks and not letting it effect you . I always say . You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but you will always be someone's xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 52 and had lots of meets In the 7 months I have been on here .its all about effort and learning to live with the knockbacks and not letting it effect you . I always say . You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but you will always be someone's xx"

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

also helps your in grantham there is nothing else to do there but shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people that complain about not getting meets are really complaining about not getting enough of them or with particular people or at particular times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It helps that you have put a bit of effort into your pics and they are not the standard all Cock pics with not a sky remote in site. Your profile text isn't bad either which is another plus. Oh and you can accommodate so unlikely to be married. And last but Not least you are not hard on the eyes at all "

Why thanyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also helps your in grantham there is nothing else to do there but shag"

I must admit there are some loose cannons in there, which is why I'm the first to make it known that although I live in Grantham I'm not from there, may also explain why I have a job.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe the moany guys can look at your success and have some inspiration, perspiration and action

Meaning: ideas, profile work and sex haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the moany guys can look at your success and have some inspiration, perspiration and action

Meaning: ideas, profile work and sex haha!"

Hahaha! Tbh it's like every aspect of life, you get out what you put in.....a little bit of effort goes a long way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all I'm new here only been a member of fab for 8 days.....there seem to be so many single guys moaning that they can't get meets yet i have had 3 meets in my first week and have had numerous other offers?! am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!"

I'm pleased that your first week has been so successful but the ok nice guys do far outweigh the idiots and only a few come across in a bad way.

Welcome to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 52 and had lots of meets In the 7 months I have been on here .its all about effort and learning to live with the knockbacks and not letting it effect you . I always say . You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but you will always be someone's xx"

Hmm nope, dont buy this. Still pissed off about not getting enough meets lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years "

Lord! I hope this guy hasn't, he's only 27

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I have lots of meets with ladies from here an other site,so why guys cant get at least one meet, must all be down to them.Dont give up if an old guy like can do it, so can you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years "

I am a proper newbie haha, I thinknits all about confidence....

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I know man, I see this too. It's really easy to find meets I think. To find meets who are my type is difficult simply because if the ratios on here - but there you go. If I do find one, its not usually that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years

I am a proper newbie haha, I thinknits all about confidence...."

I agree! Also, never look desperate! Ever!

I could write a book on my techniques. Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incessant on-line moaning ranting seems to be an out've control angry norm.

Regardless it's single males, single females or couples it spells out all you might need to know if you think about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm new here only been a member of fab for 8 days.....there seem to be so many single guys moaning that they can't get meets yet i have had 3 meets in my first week and have had numerous other offers?! am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!

I'm pleased that your first week has

been so successful but the ok nice guys do far outweigh the idiots and only a few come across in a bad way.

Welcome to the forums."

Thankyou very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years

I am a proper newbie haha, I thinknits all about confidence....

I agree! Also, never look desperate!

Ever!

I could write a book on my techniques. Ha!"

Haha there are some right beg it's on here it's rather comical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will die down then u can use the 0002546 form

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It will die down then u can use the 0002546 form"

FFS!!! That's a month 3 form! Now he won't be surprised by the 'baps' email!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering exactly how new are you?

I Saw a post like this recently and the guy had been swinging 20 years

Lord! I hope this guy hasn't, he's only 27 "

I deffo wasn't swinging at 7 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!"

A bit of both. Keep up the good work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't checked your profile simply because I have not the time but the general consensus is that you've actually put effort into it.

I've had meets (not all verified and not all great experiences, I'm honest enough to say) but have had a lot more rejections. It's the name of the game and I understand this therefore I don't moan. It's an unattractive quality on here.

Plus, being able to write in correct, full sentences seems to go down quite well also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm new here only been a member of fab for 8 days.....there seem to be so many single guys moaning that they can't get meets yet i have had 3 meets in my first week and have had numerous other offers?! am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!"

You have fantastic eyes, the windows to the soul, and you will do very well here x

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

The way I look at it is I'm only interested in meeting quality people so every single one is a bonus. If it means I don't meet very often so be it, at least I know the next one will be dynamite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm new here only been a member of fab for 8 days.....there seem to be so many single guys moaning that they can't get meets yet i have had 3 meets in my first week and have had numerous other offers?! am I just really lucky or is it just a case of there being many idiots on here who come across in a bad way?!

Without blowing my own trumpet my eyes do get me a lot of interest thankyou very much for saying :D

You have fantastic eyes, the windows to the soul, and you will do very well here x "

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